20-03-2005 05:20									#31
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quote: Originally posted by self biased certainly. and you can always key that C-unit's car. and email a link to that site to her parents, anonomously.

Hell with that he could post it on Poly and we could swamp the place........



ACK!

	20-03-2005 05:25									#32
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She's a nutter MRT - get out of there.

	20-03-2005 05:26									#33
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he's already done it, but we should save the vigilante style as a last possible resort.

	20-03-2005 05:48									#34
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dont worry, I got my crack apolyton ninjas waiting in the wings

	20-03-2005 05:52									#35
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my legion is at your beck and call. you need but say the word, good sir. by any chance could you log on to aim? i have pressing matters of state which i must discuss with you.

	20-03-2005 06:16									#36
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MRT: the big, overall question is: are/were you in love with her?

If you were...well, then there's no advice one can give to make the hurt go away

If not, then you shouldn't get too riled up about it. Go sleep with her best friend.

Actually...go sleep with her best friend either way.

	20-03-2005 10:50									#37
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AHHHH listen to the evil minds of the men work. I love it. and you guys claim women are evil

	20-03-2005 11:34									#38
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ok, so we talked, did it twice, and well the agreement is we arent dating anymore, and that we are doing our own thing. Still going to be friends. I think its funny how i was much more upset today when i didnt know anything and thought she was cheating, instead of when she told me she blew two dudes last night. I was just dissapointed.

I guess all i can do now is sit back and live life adn if she coems into it that will be great. We just cant be serious anymore. Im taking oerdins advice and working on myself

	20-03-2005 11:37									#39
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god i love her so much though, its sucks! GAH! why do we have to be so young.

	20-03-2005 11:39									#40
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You don't love her. You want to **** her.

	20-03-2005 11:40									#41
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Forget her, dude. Go get a job, get back into school and **** a few girls here and there.

	20-03-2005 11:41									#42
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I'm still curious how your shocked (Shocked I tell you!) something like this happened if JohnT gave even close to an accurate portrayal of the situation.

	20-03-2005 11:41									#43
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You have to tell me, though: was the breakup/post-breakup sex as good and dirty as I remember it being?

	20-03-2005 11:42									#44
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quote: Originally posted by DinoDoc I'm still curious how your shocked (Shocked I tell you!) something like this happened if JohnT gave even close to an accurate portrayal of the situation.

let it be.

seriously.

	20-03-2005 11:43									#45
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Well, that's how I read the first sentence of this thread:

quote: No more dacia, no more porn, no more threesomes, no more anything.

i.e., the dacia/porn/threesomes trifetca was her doings, not MRT's. He was just her latest plaything.

	20-03-2005 11:45									#46
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well thats part of it. Im not shocked, and being vindicated on that is a good, good feeling. I knew it was going to happen despite denials. and i was right. silver lining i guess

	20-03-2005 11:53									#47
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MRT - sorry to hear about that. One piece of advice I give anyone who has a breakup. Figure out what attracted you to her, and why. That way, you do not make the same mistake again.

Were you attracted to her because she was hot? She was readily available for sex? She was good at being "poor little ol' me."? etc. Did you find out enough about who she really was before you started committing yourself? Did you blind yourself to some flaws that you minimized early on - often due to the intense sex aspect of early relationships? If you do not figure out how you got into a bad relationship, either too fast, ignoring clues, you are attracted to this kind of woman, etc. - you are going to do it again.

Take some time out and look at what you really want. I started this soul searching at 29, after the break-up of a five year relationship I should never have been in. I was soooo stupid. And she was neither hot, nor really very good sex. I've been reexamining myself ever since.

	20-03-2005 11:55									#48
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spot on shawnmmcc. On the other hand i am 21 and this is just lifes little experience.

	20-03-2005 12:08									#49
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Revenge is wrong.

Chill.

	20-03-2005 12:13									#50
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Sorry for what happened...


you have to completely break ties off MRT, keeping ties gives her power over you. instead of you making the decision, she did, she can now keep you on the chain for whenever she wants. her interest level in you will never reach the same levels they once did. cutting her off completely will help you in both the short run and the long run. take charge, dont let the prospect of nighttime activity or rekindling emotional bonds be dangled in front of you like a carrot. Just be free

	20-03-2005 14:38									#51
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MRT: I am completely with you on this one. If she comes back to you, its great, but it shouldn't keep you from doing your thing.

I just had my exgirlfriend kiss someone else in front of me, someone I really cared for (the ex, that is). It hurts, but you gotta get past it.

	20-03-2005 15:56									#52
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quote: Originally posted by MRT144 Im taking oerdins advice and working on myself

Well, that's what I have to do

	20-03-2005 18:47									#53
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Well, sorry to hear this, although it didn't exactly sound like the kind of relationship that was going to go the whole way. Still, at least you must know a tonne of slutty chicks to help you get over her?

	20-03-2005 18:55									#54
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MRT144, you did the right thing man... don't look back. It'll feel crap for some days to come, but take this advice as something you can trust on, don't look back, and you did the right thing of saying it how it is to her. Cheaters prize is death.

	20-03-2005 23:10									#55
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Wow.
All the relations Ive been in ended in a sort of slow mutual recognition that it wasnt working.
Ive never had my trust completly broken like that.
Must be hard.

Anyway, you know you should just let it go, or else you'll just get hurt again.

	21-03-2005 05:29									#56
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quote: Originally posted by MRT144 spot on shawnmmcc.

he usually is. he even counseled me in a rough spot about this time last year. i guess it's true of what they say: beware the ides of march.

but... just blew two dudes? the most appalling thing for me is that she saw the need to decieve you, instead of being straightforeward and honest with her intentions. the sexual side doesn't really even play into it.

there's also the fact that the company is called "broken home productions." this is merely speculation on my behalf, but given the market that some of these sites cater to, you may well have been set up.

on that note, though, i'm glad you thought things through without doing anything rash. best of luck in your newly enlightened life.

	21-03-2005 05:42									#57
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If you ask me this relationship has been a whole lot one sided On her part she can do what she wants but what F*** you if you do the things she has also done Dunno if you can handle that in a relationship then all the power to ya.

	21-03-2005 06:09									#58
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nice use of past tense, mrs. t. just another case of a man having the wool yanked over his eyes by the woman he loves. age old, classic story. what's even better is that there seem to be ever new and inventive ways for things like this to happen, as well as the old standbies.

	21-03-2005 06:15									#59
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Call me a stick in the mud but learning my girl just finished blowing two dudes wouldnt make me the happiest camper at camp.

	21-03-2005 06:29									#60
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quote: Originally posted by JohnT So, you get involved with some chick who gets you to have three-somes with other men (but no women), gets you involved in the porn industry, and insists that you "stay away" from situations involving sex (and I assume drugs/alcohol?)... right? And you're surprised and angry that this ended badly? What, exactly, did you expect?

**** YOU AND **** DINODOC

Judgemental bastards.