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Rufus T. Firefly
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is one way of saying it, though I prefer "mensch"
Sep 2000 time: 07:26
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quote: Originally posted by obiwan18
Rufus:
Consider the types of infertility present in heterosexual couples.
Some are an accident of birth. This is not analogous to homosexuality since this is entirely outside the control of the person. Do you believe children are born gay, and cannot change their orientation as they grow up? |
Yep, sure do; and science increasingly seems to agree. It's true that gays can fake straightness -- hence the notion of the closet -- but it's like me faking left-handedness, or pretending to like eggs. I can use my left hand, I can physically eat eggs without gagging (most of the time), but I'm clearly not wired to do either.
Your point seems to be that marriage is a reward that must be withheld from homosexuals for engaging in same-sex sex because same-sex sex is somehow "unnatural," because it can't lead to reproduction. But I'm still lost here. If that's the case, then why should any couples who can't reproduce be allowed to wed? My father-in-law just married a wonderful woman who's had a hysterectomy; clearly they can't have kids, and clearly their sex life will be about intimacy and pleasure, not kids. Should this have been prevented for some reason? If so, what? (Note: reasons involving somebody's half-baked, Levitican notion of God are not reasons).
Marriage is a state institution, not a religious one (don't believe it? Try getting married without a license from the state). The only question is, within the framework of the State's own laws and philosophical underpinnings, is there any reason to allow men to form certain contracts only with women, and not with other men (or vice versa)? I have yet to hear anyone offer a compelling reason in those terms; instead they, like you, resort to banalities like the "naturalness of heterosexuality," the "sancitiy of marriage," and other folderol that is far more religious/superstitious/irrational than it is logical.
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