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Firelad
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Haifa, Israel.
May 2002 time: 07:29
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Green tea and Jasmine tea is very good. But for the evening...
British types, do tell me, is it "Bad" to put a lemon into your Earl Grey?
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Firelad
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Haifa, Israel.
May 2002 time: 07:29
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What the fock do you mean? Right now I'm putting tons of lemon into everything because of the Fun Night Out I had on Sunday.
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MikeH
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Ming on rakastajani
May 1999 time: 05:29
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quote: Originally posted by Firelad
Green tea and Jasmine tea is very good. But for the evening...
British types, do tell me, is it "Bad" to put a lemon into your Earl Grey? |
As far as I'm concerned, drink your tea however you want. It won't offend me. If you were a guest in my house and I offered you a drink and you wanted tea, I'd ask you how you liked it and try and make that if I could. I probably wouldn't have any lemon though.
One thing that bemused an American friend of mine when she visited me was that wherever she went in England whenever she visited someones house she was always persistently offered a drink and was met with confused looks and lots of follow up questions if she said she didn't want anything. "Are you sure? We've got blah, blah blah" It's funny. I never really noticed it before but I've been doing further research into it.
So if you get offered a drink by someone you are visiting it's easier to say yes. Although there are a lot of nuances. For instance judging whether they mean something alcoholic can be tricky. Normally depends on the time of day and the inflection used on the word drink. For non-Brits it's probably easier if you say "Yes please, what are you having?" that can work well.
I've been observing and what we tend to do is offer a drink meaning something alcoholic, if you don't want that (I'm driving is always a good reason) we'll be a bit surprised and offer tea/coffee, juice, soft drinks and if you don't want any of that you'll get offered water. If you don't even want water the host will potentially be all confused and flustered. Also if you say "Have you got any blah" and they haven't got any you'll cause another minor panic, and possibly someone will be sent to the shop. In some circumstances no insisting that you are "fine really", or you'll "have something else" will be accepted. Especially if you change class of drink. For instance if they haven't got one kind of alcohol if you try and say you'll have a soft drink instead that would cause apoplexy.
Just say yes to the booze. 
Last edited by MikeH on 24-06-2003 at 16:14
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Firelad
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Haifa, Israel.
May 2002 time: 07:29
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I ALWAYS say yes to the booze if it's any good.
Hmm, hospitiality. I like that.
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Firelad
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Haifa, Israel.
May 2002 time: 07:29
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Isn't a pot an object you can put liquids in to boil them, aside from being a herb you can probably make tea out of? (hmm)
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