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of naughty
Jan 2003 time: 23:29
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quote: Originally posted by Aeson
That's the whole point MZ. You are flaming everyone on GS regarding things said by individuals on GS. It's not better than making individual remarks, it's worse. |
When you are talking politcs or about world new and no matter your ideology you say "I hate [insert either USA or France]" does that mean you have the individuals of those countries? Nope. It is simply that you hate the decisions or foreign policy of those nations not their citizens down to the last man.
Same with the teams and the best example is Roleplay. After last week's uber-flame fest, every night we still hang out at the ISDG channel, me, Togas, BigFree, WB, Arnelos, etc. continue to flame each other, then laugh about it, then play some PBEMs then laugh again at the world around us like we've done for the last months. None of them have felt offended at the things I've said to them both here in the forums or in the chat, and I for one have not felt offended at all at the things they've said to me or my team.
I'm sorry to see some of you take this so seriously. It really isn't. Camaraderie goes waaay beyond feeling offended by things said over a silly game on decisions taken as a team, not as individuals. Until you realize that, I'm afraid every remark no matter how civilized it is, will do wonders to hurt your egos when the intent was never that.
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notyoueither
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of naught
Aug 2001 time: 22:29
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quote: Originally posted by Master Zen
Same with the teams and the best example is Roleplay. After last week's uber-flame fest, every night we still hang out at the ISDG channel, me, Togas, BigFree, WB, Arnelos, etc. continue to flame each other, then laugh about it, then play some PBEMs then laugh again at the world around us like we've done for the last months. None of them have felt offended at the things I've said to them both here in the forums or in the chat, and I for one have not felt offended at all at the things they've said to me or my team.
I'm sorry to see some of you take this so seriously. It really isn't. Camaraderie goes waaay beyond feeling offended by things said over a silly game on decisions taken as a team, not as individuals. Until you realize that, I'm afraid every remark no matter how civilized it is, will do wonders to hurt your egos when the intent was never that. |
You are assuming that everyone should behave as you do, based on your knowledge and experiences. That is expecting a bit much, is it not?
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Theseus

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The warmonger formerly known as rpodos. Gathering Storm! Apolyton Spirit!!
Apr 2002 time: 00:29
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This is, I think, my first post on this thread.
Yes, Panzer32, you can add me to the list along with nye.
I am fine with others' poking sticks in eyes, for fun and even profit.
But I won't do it, myself.
Trash-talk humor? All day long. But I will say, I have my own sense of honor, and I stand by it and the equal commitment by my team and teammates... the insults have been, uh, disturbing, even though I *think* I understand their whys and wherefores.
I respect MZ and GF totally... but please know, although the purposeful irritation WORKS, all I'm going to do is play the actual game, to the best of my / our ability. Thus, all that is left is irritation, and that is no fun.
So lay off a bit, por favor...
[This is and will be my only post in this thread]
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Master Zen
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of naughty
Jan 2003 time: 23:29
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quote: Originally posted by notyoueither
You are assuming that everyone should behave as you do, based on your knowledge and experiences. That is expecting a bit much, is it not? |
I simply expect you to understand I have not once insulted anybody in person, in fact, not even came close to, in fact, I've hardly mentioned people by name.
Our team has received it's fair share of flames by GS and RP too and I don't see anyone complaining. For the simple reason we know it's just a game and things said between teams has absolutely nothing to do with the way we get along as people. Why some of you people get upset over something relating to a silly game is truly and utterly beyond me.
I have said what I felt, I have countered in a civilized way posts which have been directed at me in a civilized manner (i.e. Nathan's posts for example), and have answered jokingly to posts made jokingly too. But our attempt at making this some sort of pre-wrestling match flame-fest has apparently hurt some of the more sensitive types out there.
It is pointless to continue debating as each side belives itself to be morally correct and that will never change. The neutral parties have probably made their own decision on who to believe by now so it's even more pointless to keep on going.
Once again, I repeat for the 4th time I have nothing against GS members, some of you like Shiber, Theseus, Arrian, nye, etc. are great people who I respect a lot and consider them among the highest tier of people dear to me in this community. I am sorry to say that if you continue to think that all we've said was with the intent of hurting the people in the team, that is just not true.
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notyoueither
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of naught
Aug 2001 time: 22:29
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quote: Originally posted by Master Zen
Once again, I repeat for the 4th time I have nothing against GS members, some of you like Shiber, Theseus, Arrian, nye, etc. are great people who I respect a lot and consider them among the highest tier of people dear to me in this community. I am sorry to say that if you continue to think that all we've said was with the intent of hurting the people in the team, that is just not true. |
I understand and appreciate this, MZ. However, I know you from elsewhere, and I am perhaps used to the jostle of more rambuncious fora than some of the forums on Poly.
Nevertheless, some of the comments from GoW could not have elicited the response you got better than if you tried to. That is just the nature of some of the individuals.
I wonder what would happen if we issued a manifesto which called into question the abilities in combat of the entire team of GoW, or slagged the civ building style of Lego. I would imagine there would be a very... ermmm... warm response to it. There should be anyway, because it would be deliberately expounding a falsehood about a matter close to the hearts of the targets.
People who do such things are known as trolls. It is considered funny sometimes that people respond to trolls the way they do. It can be even funnier when the troll expresses disbelief at his or her success with the hook. But to suggest that the results of trolling are the fault of the trolled, is to put the human behaviour cart before the emotional horse, is it not?
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Aeson
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orangesoda
Nov 2001 time: 22:29
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MZ,
I don't really care what you think about me or GS. I do care about the general attitudes in this game for the teams and members towards each other. You play your role in that, but it's just as much the rest of us that count too. That's what I posted about. You replied to my statement, and now I'm arguing against your logic as I think it's full of holes. This discussion between us has no personal emotion involved on my part as it basically boils down to semantics and logic.
You say that a statement against a community doesn't mean you are making the same statement against those individuals that make up the community, but it does.
Your example was citing enties derived from communities that are very large and diverse, with many millions of members comprising it. Most of whom anyone making such a statement never would have had any interaction with.
The teams here are much smaller groups than that, and each individual member comprises a large and important part of the team. In the most extreme case, consider a team that was made up of just one member. Any statement directed at the team as a whole would be directly applicable to the sole member.
Also, you are using analogy that doesn't fit with all your statements. You are using "their", "you", "yours" to direct some of your remarks, which doesn't fit with the independant entity (ie. "it") you use in your analogy. When using those identifiers, you are commenting on the members of the entity, not the entity itself. Even using the proper terms though, it is a rather dubious distinction to try to make (entity vs individuals that it consists of) in regards to such small groups.
quote: I'm sorry to see some of you take this so seriously. It really isn't. |
If it's serious to the person, and they make that known, and you go and make the same statement again, you are addressing them serious manner. If I were to call you a name in good humor and you don't like it, and I realized you don't like it, and then I call you the name again, it isn't in good humor anymore regardless of how fun it is for me.
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nbarclay
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Huntsville, Alabama
Dec 1999 time: 23:29
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quote: Originally posted by Master Zen
I'm sorry to see some of you take this so seriously. It really isn't. Camaraderie goes waaay beyond feeling offended by things said over a silly game on decisions taken as a team, not as individuals. Until you realize that, I'm afraid every remark no matter how civilized it is, will do wonders to hurt your egos when the intent was never that. |
Note: I am writing this as Nathan Barclay, resident of the real world. Please, please do not respond with trash talk as if this message were just part of the game.
Early in our history, Gathering Storm made an agreement among ourselves to play honorably; an agreement not to lie and not to break deals. Because that was an agreement among the members of our own team, I view that commitment as a commitment in real life, not merely as a mask worn while playing the game. Thus, whether you realize it or not, attacks you make against Gathering Storm's honor (unless directed at specific choices or actions that I did not agree to) are also implicitly attacks against my own personal honor in real life.
Depending on one's perspective, a case can be made that we rationalized ourselves into believing that a hostile act was not really a hostile act. But that's the most we can legitimately be considered guilty of - the most I, the real-life person who contributed to GS's decision, can legitimately be considered guilty of. Any logic that attempts to argue that Gathering Storm's honor is worthless due to our handling of the NAP argues equally that my own real-world honor is worthless since I accepted the strategy as being within the bounds of our commitment to play honorably. There is simply not enough distinction between my in-game persona's commitment to honesty and my real-world commitment to honesty (both of which are strong but also occasionally vulnerable to rationalizations) for it to be possible to attack the former without implicitly attacking the latter. Nor can you attack Gathering Storm's honor without implicitly attacking my own when the decisions you attack are ones I approved of.
I seriously doubt that you thought through these chains of logic in making your accusations. But the fact that you did not recognize the chains does not alter the fact that I do see them and can follow them to their logical conclusion. If Gathering Storm is without honor than I, personally, am without honor. Logic does not allow any other possibility.
If you want to step out of character for a moment, state your real-world position (and perhaps even debate it), and then go back to making stronger accusations as a form of trash talking, I have no problem with that. But when you present arguments that implicitly (albeit, I presume accidentally) portray my real-world honor as worthless and deliberately refuse to accept my counter-arguments as valid because your in-game persona won't allow it, how am I supposed to know when I've convinced the real person behind that perrsona that I was making a sincere effort to stay within (if only barely within) the bounds of our agreement?
Nathan
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