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Pekka
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em seu burro dos pais!
Feb 2002 time: 07:30
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I've only known one woman that I think I could have had a meaningful relationship. I liked her veeery much. And we clicked.. too bad she was taken though. To my friend.
I couldn't do anything, since I like being loyal. Too bad.
She was perfect though in every sense.. knowing her nasty habits too. Yeah.. very interesting individual, very smart, very beautiful, sexy, outgoing, had a smile that would give heart attacks to men, NOT PASSIVE, had own thoughts, very ambitious, couldn't sing for **** and when I laughed at her in karaoke (god knows why we were there?!) she came back and hit me good . Not submitting and 'don't laugh..' but really 'FU!' *Boom!*.
Special girl.. too bad.
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st_swithin
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10069
Nov 2002 time: 05:30
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Who needs to be smarter than knowing enough not to sh1t where you eat? Put one foot in front of another, and you have the secret to life.
How 'smart' does one need to be to consider oneself learned?
Hey, Imran - sounds like you will be in EXCRUCIATING pain for a long, long time. Bummer.
SSDD!
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st_swithin
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10069
Nov 2002 time: 05:30
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What if you hadn't even met the person? I used to think I was in love with Richard Feynman, but I'm pretty sure that he surely doesn't want to receive the "Sexiest Man Not Alive" award any time soon.
Sava: you should do more writing and less taco n' burrito eating.
Guess I'll just head out to the pool behind the mansion and look for frogs.
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Albert Speer
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Puerile Polemic
Mar 1999 time: 00:30
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let me guess... imran did what he did last time there was a thread about love and say how it was just chemical things necessary to continue the human species?
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Q Cubed
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t3h y3ll0w p3ril
Apr 1999 time: 23:30
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well, there's always 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, often quoted at weddings:
quote: Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, (love) is not pompous, it is not inflated, it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury, it does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails. If there are prophecies, they will be brought to nothing; if tongues, they will cease; if knowledge, it will be brought to nothing. |
then there's the Taoteching, and Kung Ho-Shang commentaries on verse 7:
quote: Heaven is eternal and Earth is immortal / the reason they're eternal and immortal / is because they don't live for themselves / hence they can live forever / thus the sage pulls himself back / but ends up in front / he lets himself go / but ends up safe / selflessness must be the reason / whatever he seeks he finds
Kung Ho-Shang says, "The reason Heaven and Earth alone are eternal and immortal is because they are content and give without expecting a reward, unlike Man who never stops chasing profit and fighting over possessions." |
this leads me to the conclusion that true love is quite rare. in my case, the way i see it is thus: i would give anything to make her happy. if she would be happier without me, then i will leave; if she would be happier with me, then i will stay. if she wanted a child and a home in the suburbs, i will do everything in my power, and then some, to provide her those things. i will give and give and give, never asking for anything in return, wanting only her happiness and asking for nothing other than that.
now, keep in mind that love must be reciprocal. she must also want nothing other than my happiness, and she must also be willing to do anything within her means to provide for that.
when two people ask for nothing and give everything to each other, when two people find nothing but happiness and joy in each other, when they are able to look beyond the human flaws and temporary problems of the present and accept each other completely without reservation, even when she's a complete and utter ***** in the morning before she gets her 2 cups of coffee, or you're a complete and inattentive pessimist ******* when it comes to things you think are stupid, idiotic, or hopelessly beyond repair, then you've got something.
but then again, love isn't exactly something one can have a set definition for. it changes with time for individuals, so...
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st_swithin
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10069
Nov 2002 time: 05:30
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Only one couple in a hundred years has a chance at true love. Do you think that kind of thing happens every day?
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