19-01-2004 12:57									#1
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Riight, I would like some advice from some of you people out there.

Quite frankly I'm sick of not being able to get dates or anything resembling that at all. I want some advice on how to pick up females. Like is confidence everything? What other things are there? I'm going back to uni in about a month and I don't really want to go for another whole year without having any fun.

So yes. Advice on the whole dating/picking up females thing? I know there are some 'players' out there that could give some good advice.

	19-01-2004 13:01									#2
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volunteer work, school

	19-01-2004 13:01									#3
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learn to tell a story. captivate a woman with your words, and the rest will follow.

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er im being vague...

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Just a little.

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quote: captivate a woman with your words, and the rest will follow.

Easier said than done.

My advice would be to get the lingo down first. It's "playa", dawg...

	19-01-2004 13:04									#7
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Sorry. Will learn that. 'Playa', chick instead of women or female?

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Your first problem is asking on Apolyton for advice on "players", when the only thing people here are good at is playing Civ and with themselves.

	19-01-2004 13:07									#9
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asher, i heard you play a mean skin flute

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(spit take) HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!

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quote: Originally posted by MRT144 asher, i heard you play a mean skin flute

Everything I know, I learned from Boy Scouts.

	19-01-2004 13:25									#12
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quote: 'Playa', chick instead of women or female?

"*****es" or "hos" are better terms, but you should probably start out slow. "Chicks" will work for now.

	19-01-2004 13:27									#13
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Righteo now that I have some of the terminology down, how bout the rest. Like the walk part instead of the talk part. You can talk the talk but can you walk the walk, that kinda thing. Please?

	19-01-2004 13:30									#14
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I'm not a playa, I just crush a lot. You should ask GP or Ted Striker for advice; you better hurry up, though, as they're turning into metrosexuals and will soon lose all the knowledge of the game that they've built up through years of stone cold pimpin'...

RIP, homies.

	19-01-2004 13:32									#15
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Well there bound to see this thread aren't they. If they are moving on then its time they passed on there information to the upcoming generation.

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quote: If they are moving on then its time they passed on there information to the upcoming generation.

True dat.

	19-01-2004 13:43									#17
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Times are changing. The old tricks just aren't working anymore.

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yeah. you actually have to be clever these days.

	19-01-2004 14:07									#19
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quote: Originally posted by self biased yeah. you actually have to be clever these days.

Or move to east asia.

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That's what I did.

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not all of us have that luxury, squirrel.

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Yeah I can't move to east asia

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quote: Or move to east asia.

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quote: Yeah I can't move to east asia

You can when you finish college. But for some reason hagwon bosses here seem to hate Kiwi accents so they pay them less then Americans and Canadians

	19-01-2004 14:25									#25
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The devil is in the detail. Listen to a girl, learn the things they like either by talking to them or by what they say to others. Going back to what self biased said about being able to tell stories, is that girls like guys that have lived an interesting life. I seem to have a story for most occasions but I try not to dwell on other women when Im talking to one.

But before you ever can get anywhere with one, you will have to do something extremely hard for many guys and that is to strike up a conversation. You don't have to have a lot of fancy words, just dig for something to connect with her on. That may mean covering a lot of ground but eventually you will find something.

	19-01-2004 14:27									#26
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Thank you Sprayber, first proper bit of advice, besides self biaseds little bit.

	19-01-2004 14:29									#27
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Oh and don't ever just concentrate on one. Spread your interest around. Before long you will have many different ones that you are familiar with. If your patient, you can get it to where you can pick and choose. For you impatient types, you will always find one or two chicks that just want to have sex. Cherish those rare finds.

	19-01-2004 14:35									#28
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Uhm, this works for me.

Go out, pick the girl you are going to pick up that night, get eye contact, smile. If she smiles back, walk over and have a chat (maybe a dance if it's that sorta place), have a bit of a snog, walk her home, give her your number and have her begging for more when she calls you the next day...

This never used to work for me until about 6 months ago and now it seems to happen when I am not trying. I think it might be purely confidence based (and the expertise of getting rejected x times over the last 10 years or so ). Being confident about your own body helps a lot, so deos having a sense of rythm.

	19-01-2004 14:38									#29
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Volunteer work is excellent. Not only you can talk with the women naturally, but they are rather compassionate as well.

An added bonus is volunteer work boosts your self-confidence.

	19-01-2004 16:25									#30
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I've found you just have to be incredibly handsome, then you don't have to do anything. They come to you.