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Starchild
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a raving alcoholic drama queen with a penchant for the biosciences
Jan 1970 time: 00:33
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quote: Originally posted by Adam Smith
I asked this question a couple of days ago and still have not seen an answer.
The man in Asher's post is holding a paper saying "Civil Unions are Separate and Unequal". If civil unions have the same substantive rights as marriage (adoption, inheritance, health care, taxes, etc., etc.), what is it about the mere nomenclature that makes them unequal? |
Words and names matter. If it's marriage in all but name, then why not call it marriage? Why jump through the hoop of giving it a different title? The very fact that you don't call it marriage implies that it's lesser than marriage. Sure, the legal side can be perfectly equal but the context isn't.
The one fact that I can't help but notice is that the whole "seperate but equal" thing screams Jim Crow era in the South. Sure, both African-Americans and WASPS both have access to toilets and water fountains but they have to use seperate ones. Gays and Straights might both have access to the same rights but one has to go through a door marked "marriage" and the other through a door marked "civil unions".
There's no true equality in 'seperate-but-equal'. It's still being a second class citizen, being given a privelage instead of having a right (oh, here's a nice civil union. Go behave now or we might take it away), and is still unfair. I want to get married dammit. I want the same right to marriage as any other person recieves. The right to marry the person I love and announce that love to the world.
I will not use a seperate water fountain because that is wrong. I will not ride at the back of the bus because that is wrong. I will not settle for less than marriage because anything less than marriage is wrong.
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Adam Smith
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Maryland, USA
Jan 1970 time: 00:33
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quote: Originally posted by Starchild
If it's marriage in all but name, then why not call it marriage? Why jump through the hoop of giving it a different title? | The argument seems to be that we live in a pluralistic society and some other people have a very different concept of what marriage is, and a very different concept of what right and wrong is.
quote: Originally posted by Starchild The one fact that I can't help but notice is that the whole "seperate but equal" thing screams Jim Crow era in the South. |
As was pointed out in a related thread the Brown vs. Board of Education case to which you refer contained extensive evidence that the two systems were not equal in very tangible ways. I ahve no problem with the civil rights part. But if the only difference is nomenclature, I don't see how the Jim Crow argument applies.
Moreover, in Brown vs. Board of Education the Supreme Court was at great pains to reach a consensus and render a unanmious decsion. What we now have in Massachusetts is a 4-3 decision by a court in one of the most liberal states in the nation saying that gays must have the same civil rights (I have no problem with that); the same 4-3 vote by the same court saying that these rights must be called "marriage"; and a
filibuster in the Massachusetts Legislature to prevent reconsideration of the issue.
Building consensus is one way to try to bring about change. Venue shopping, finding the smallest legal crack you can, and exerting maximum leverage is another way. If you like the latter approach, don't complain when Right to Lifers, gun owners, polluting industries, PETA, or anybody else you happen to disagree with does the same.
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