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Society decides what is ethical not by what the majority thinks (since no democracy in history has even gone anywhere near that extreme) it decides what is ethical by what is considered best for the population, a kind of utilitarianism you’ll find in all non-anarchist states. Needless to say, the population will have an input but historically they don’t tend to be small minded bigots, since those with perhaps a broader mind than most are more vocal, hence your hatred of hippie protesters.


I would disagree with this. Historically (and even currently) our societies have been rooted in bigotry, and the bigots have been more vocal. We are progressing towards more open minded society though.

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How does not allowing gays to marry make them second class citizens? Is marriage a right? Why can't blind people get drivers liscenses?

There are irrational laws. To me it seems the gay agenda is asking such questions as "Why are we discriminated against?" "Why don't the laws support us?" when they should be stating "here is how we are discriminated against" "here is why we should be granted the same rights"... I haven't heard those answers within the letter of the law.

Make the case!

The same goes for those who want to legalize MJ


I guess you haven't read past posts in other threads where Boris, Molly, Mindseye, myself, and others have already made clear points on how we are discriminated against.

1) There are hospitals that still deny a gay partner from visiting his sick/injured partner.

2) Gay partners are still denied the same process that applies to straight partners when it comes to adopting children.

3) Gay partners are still denied legal recognition of their marriages that is given to straight marriages.

4) Gay partners are denied the same legal benefits, privileges, and rights that go with marriage that straight married couples take for granted.

5) Gay employees in the majority of corporations are denied equal employment benefits that straight employees have.

6) Gays experience societal pressure to "change" their sexual orientation to such an extent, that gays who are more easily victimized by this unfair pressure submit themselves to the quackery of bigoted psychiatrists and psychologists.

7) Gays are subjected to a double standard of public behavior whereby many people apply different rules for the same behavior based on what the sexual orientation of the person and/or couple is. Not to say that we need government legislation in this regards -- this will have to change through other means -- and soon, I hope.

8) Gays are not entitled to the same equal employment protection that other minority groups can use in cases of discrimination.


I'm sure there are many other examples that I have failed to mention here.

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Demanding that someone justify a change/addition to law based on current laws is unrealistic.


No it's not.

IMO, the movement to get homosexuality recognized as a civil right, which is a solid law, is more the route ppl need to be going instead of pushing for a single issue; marriage. Ppl in Boston are trying.

Instead of arguing marriage, argue the definition of the word discrimination.

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Civil Rights Act of 1964
To enforce the constitutional right to vote, to confer jurisdiction upon the district courts of the United States to provide injunctive relief against discrimination in public accommodations, to authorize the Attorney General to institute suits to protect constitutional rights in public facilities and public education, to extend the Commission on Civil Rights, to prevent discrimination in federally assisted programs, to establish a Commission on Equal Employment Opportunity, and for other purposes.
SEC. 601. No person in the United States shall, on the ground of race, color, or national origin, be excluded from participation in, be denied the benefits of, or be subjected to discrimination under any program or activity receiving Federal financial assistance.
SEC. 602. Each Federal department and agency which is empowered to extend Federal financial assistance to any program or activity, by way of grant, loan, or contract other than a contract of insurance or guaranty, is authorized and directed to effectuate the provisions of section 601 with respect to such program or activity by issuing rules, regulations, or orders of general applicability which shall be consistent with achievement of the objectives of the statute authorizing the financial assistance in connection with which the action is taken.


Amend according to sexual orientation as a basis for discrimination. Using other definitions within the law to support claims.

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The terms ''because of sex'' or ''on the basis of sex'' include, but are not limited to, because of or on the basis of pregnancy, childbirth, or related medical conditions;


One cannot discriminate based on on the ground of race, color, or national origin, and ammended to included sex, as defined above. Ammend it again to include sexual orientation. Using cases and facts such:

American Bar Association EEO recognizes gay discrimination

Murray v. Oceanside Unified School District, San Diego County Superior Court Case No. N71842

Centola also relied upon the Supreme Court's holding in Oncale v. Sundowner Offshore Serv., Inc., 532 U.S. 75 (1998). In Oncale, which did not involve sexual orientation discrimination, the Court held that harassment of men by other men could violate Title VII if the discrimination occurred because of the plaintiff's sex.

Price-Waterhouse v. Hopkins, 490 U.S. 228 (1989), the plaintiff alleged that her employer, an accounting firm, had refused to promote her to partner because she had failed to conform to traditional gender stereotypes. The plaintiff had been told by partners at her firm that she should take a "course in charm school" and "walk more femininely, talk more femininely, dress more femininely, wear make-up, have her hair styled, and wear jewelry." The Court concluded that when an employer makes decisions based on a woman's failure to conform to traditional female stereotypes, it has engaged in unlawful discrimination.

U.S. Supreme Court Holds Title VII Prohibits Same-Sex Harassment

Then conclude that if Harassment is a product of discrimination the highest court of the land has already found that homosexuals are discriminated against based on sexual orientation, which violates their Civil Rights according to the Civil Rights Act of 1964.

Hey, I'm no expert, but it appears to me that the court has already found that sexual harassment based on sexual orientation is legal, which concludes that discrimination based on sexual orientation is wrong, ergo the civil rights act needs to be ammended to include sexual orientation which will, inturn, give homosexuals the right to marry.

See I used the law to support gay marriage as well as an ammendment to it based on court ruling and general interpretations.

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good post, Japher

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See I used the law to support gay marriage as well as an ammendment to it based on court ruling and general interpretations.


I see what you are saying but disagree on one point.

You are confusing the actual law, and the justifications for the law. The justifications used to create present laws certainly can be used to justify new laws.

The law currently doesn't support that sexual orientation should be protected under Civil Rights laws. It must be changed to support that. The reasoning for the original laws may apply to the new ones, but the laws themselves don't.

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I would disagree with this. Historically (and even currently) our societies have been rooted in bigotry, and the bigots have been more vocal. We are progressing towards more open minded society though.


Hmmm perhaps, I'm just thinking about the old addage of yesterdays liberal is tomorrows conservative - slave emancipation, womens rights, civil rights etc were all liberal causes that became accepted etc, but yes you do have a good point. Perhaps it's a bit of both?

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I'm sure there are many other examples that I have failed to mention here.


Indeed, though some good examples. Bisexuals as a distinct group are usually seen as oversexed homosexuals or confused heterosexuals . That is a myth that also needs to be addressed.

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IMO, the movement to get homosexuality recognized as a civil right, which is a solid law, is more the route ppl need to be going instead of pushing for a single issue; marriage. Ppl in Boston are trying.


I'd argue for non-discrimination in law or statute against homosexuals with all the rights therein, in other words, if homosexuality is seen as race, religion or politic now is, then a gay person has as much right to marry as a liberal, a Catholic or an Indian person .

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Hmmm perhaps, I'm just thinking about the old addage of yesterdays liberal is tomorrows conservative - slave emancipation, womens rights, civil rights etc were all liberal causes that became accepted etc, but yes you do have a good point. Perhaps it's a bit of both?


Maybe it's a difference of scope. By "historically", I was assuming ~6000 years of civilization, including all societies worldwide.

If you are just refering to the US (and/or western culture) over the last 200 years or so, you'd be more correct. Those who have had a strong voice (not just in how loud they are, but who is listening) have usually been fighting for more freedoms than to restrict them.

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Precisely. Ultimately, as timescales get bigger, the liberal vs conversative argument becomes increasingly irrelevant.

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The fact is, Whaleboy, any sex or touching/kissing in public between man and man is a perversion.


So any men who kiss each other in public or touch each other in public by your reasoning, are perverted.

Have you told the Supreme Pontiff of the Roman Catholic Church this?

He kisses bishops and archbishops, and cardinals.

In many churches, both Roman Catholic and Anglican, it is customary to exchange a kiss of peace on Sunday at mass. I think it is your bounden duty as a good citizen and guardian of public morals, to let the greater British public know of these hotbeds of perversion and immorality.

Equally, there are quite a few countries in Europe where a customary greeting between males is one kiss, two kisses, or in the Netherlands, three kisses.

In countries with an Arab culture, this is also the case.

In Judaism, both religious leaders and big butch Israeli Defence Force male soldiers exchange a bit of lippy action.

In Greece a lot of their clergy go around kissing each other.

The Russian Federation likewise.

I have a hunch about where all this perversion may have originated in the West, at any rate:

Matthew 26:47-54 :: New International Version (NIV)


Matthew 26


Jesus Arrested

"47

While he was still speaking, Judas, one of the Twelve, arrived. With him was a large crowd armed with swords and clubs, sent from the chief priests and the elders of the people.

48

Now the betrayer had arranged a signal with them: "The one I kiss is the man; arrest him."

49

Going at once to Jesus, Judas said, "Greetings, Rabbi!" and kissed him. "

I used a modern translation for you P.A.- I thought you might have difficulty with 17th Century English.

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Molly -- excellent post

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Humans are above animals so trying to defend the perverse behaviours of some of our species through references to monkeys and others is just ridiculous and shows how desperate you are for an argument.



Right. So as well as being a historian, anthropologist, theologian, sexologist and political scientist, you're also now a naturalist?

Please explain to me which animal type behaviours exhibited by humans you disagree with, and why:

monogamy: exhibited by some birds, fish, mammals

promiscuity: birds, fish, mammals

homosexuality or same sex activity: birds, fish, mammals

harems: seals, whales, lions, wolves, gorillas, deer, et cetera

mating for life: some birds, some mammals

waging war: ants, termites

female domination: ants, bees, termites, some mammals, spiders, praying mantises, et cetera.

abandonment of young: insects, fish, some reptiles et cetera.

primary caregiver male: seahorses, some fish, et cetera

extended families: whales, dolphins, primates such as monkeys, chimpanzees, gorillas

adoption: some primates, other mammals

infanticide: mammals, reptiles, birds, insects

altruism: baboons, wolves, antelopes

cross species cooperation: ants, termites, hippoes, birds, honey badgers, reptiles, meerkats.

Not that I unduly wish to take issue with your characteristically sloppy use of language, but one definition of 'human', given by the Oxford English Dictionary, is 'man, as opposed to other animals'.

Perhaps you're also an amateur lexicographer, too.

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Molly is now my new personal hero!! You also have a M de Montaigne quote in your sig! When I'm 60, I want to be you!

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I would have thought there's more people unhappily chained to homosexuality. After all, nobody tends to kill themselves because they are straight.


Nobody kills themselves because they’re gay either. People get depressed because they’re not able to express themselves. In a society that ostracises homosexuality someone who is gay could well get depressed, because they cannot openly be themselves. The same would happen to straight people in a society that ostracises straights. It isn’t their sexuality that makes them depressed, and moreover, that cannot be changed, it’s societies intolerance that is to blame.

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Because it is unnatural, and not what society wants to see.


Ie. Not what you want to see. Please differentiate that from what society wants to see. Much of society doesn’t care.

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There's no trolling going on here, but I'm leaving this thread. I've said what I came to say and I've spoken for the off-line majority.


Link? Evidence? The majority is pretty split on gay marriage, but moreover, I’m sure the majority don’t particularly care about two men kissing. Public nudity is illegal for anyone, regardless of sexuality. Kissing isn’t.

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But suddenly yours and Whaleboy's opinions become an objective norm rather than just your personal opinions?


This is the more logical and humanistic approach in terms of society. Since there are few human societies with metaphysical, meta-ethical or cosmological consequences your strawman appeal to my meta-ethical relativism will cut as much ice as a wet mouse.

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And that was correct, at the time in which it was happening, for that is what society decreed.


So you’re saying that lynching of blacks in the US deep south or the massacre of Jews in the holocaust was “correct” because it was what society decreed? Society, being a loaded context, has better and worse courses of action and the liberal movement against the oppression like the NAACP or the Jewish resistance in Poland, for example, were more righteous than their bigoted and popular oppressors.

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I haven't yet seen any gays holding hands in public so I'm inclined to agree with you here.


For fear of people like you. You believe that were it not for that fear, they would be any less inclined to display their love than any other couple? And I have seen gay and lesbian couples hold hands and kiss in public, and they always get a nod of approval from me so to speak.

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There's no trolling going on here, but I'm leaving this thread. I've said what I came to say and I've spoken for the off-line majority.


For a troll with absolutely no credibility you certainly are capable of humour at your own expense! Such entertainment provides that luminous streak of brown we all need in our lives, so keep it going .

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One that doesn't show favoritism to one side or another. (Well, it shows favoritism to non-bigots I suppose...)




I’d go for modern utilitarianism personally, and say the action that causes most direct utility to the people concerned, namely making homosexuals happier, something that does not harm other people on bit.

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Stop trying to distort the argument into one of rationality and irrationality


You’ve done a thorough enough job of that

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waging war: ants, termites


And chimps

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I'm still waiting for someone to address my point.

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congrats DD -- you pulled a MrFun!!

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It'd be goos for the economy to allow gays to marry because you know that all the ceremonies would have to be FABULOUS.


I don't know if I missed your last one or not, but this was the one that I found.

Was this your last post?

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Yes. I think it's a valid point in favor of gay marriage.

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Excuse me? I thought straight people *already* receive protection, in the form of marriage.


No they don't.

What if you are a very nice woman who can't find a man? Shouldn't you have the same benefits as a married couple.

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As long as gay people don't receive the same protection, it is discrimination.


Then single people are also discriminated against, in a similar manner.

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I am not demanding *separate* rights for gay people, I am demanding the rights *already* afforded to straight people.


You are demanding rights that do not exist. There is no right to recieve the benefits of marriage, simply a right to be married. Any gay person does not lose his right to be married, so long as he can find a nice woman to marry him, the same as anyone else. If for whatever reason you do not want to marry, that is your choice, and you should not expect to receive the same benefits as those who do choose to marry.

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Again, reductionism...sodomy or marriage, it is none of your business. Just because you think gays should have the right to have penetrative sex does not qualify your position any further.


It makes a big difference. I am not saying that gay people should be prevented from having sex. One such argument against these regulations is the one that having a law unenforced, weakens all the others. There is no way to enforce a ban on sodomy, ergo, one ought not to place a ban, since such ban would be detrimental to the rule of law.

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I agree, they are an infringement of civil liberties. If consenting adults want to get married in higher multiples, so be it. If incestuous couples want to get married, so be it.


Fair enough. That is a consistent position, but then you are left with this question. If anything goes, why have marriage licenses at all? Why should the state be required to provide benefits to these relationships, if they have no authority to regulate?

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It is not the role of the state to stand in moral judgement. Why should it openly condone heterosexuality?


In the state of marriage, the state derives benefits not found in other relationships essential for the propagation of the state.

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Are you advocating the state restricting individual freedom?


That is the purpose of the state, to regulate individual freedom, to ensure collective harmony. Complete individual freedom produces anarchy.

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No, marriage involves the couple involve. It is a contract between those two, a bond between those two. It is the role of the state to provide the necessary legislation and framework,


Thus the state has a role in the regulation of marriage. If you demand the intervention of the state, then you admit their regulations on personal freedom.

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not to stand in moral judgement.


The state has a responsibility to all citizens, ergo, one of their responsibilities is to stand in moral judgement. It's one thing to disagree with the moral judgement of the state, and quite another to deny the state any such role.

If there is no role for the state in regulation, then no marriage licenses may be issued.

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You still do not grasp the difference between democracy and tyranny of the masses. People have rights as long as they do not infringe the rights of others.


Very true! Which is why I am arguing that gay people have no right to impose their desires which impose a burden upon the rest of us, without our consent.

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The mass does not have the right to impose it's will when the issue is a private matter.


Again, if marriage is a public issue, then the mass does get to have a say.

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Lynchmob or parliament in this instance, the concept is the same - one forcing it's will on the other by sheer force of numbers.


Some lynchmob! What gay person ever did die at the hands of the state? What black person did the same?

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this is only the answer if one makes a prior assumption, that this is the best homosexuals can expect. If they can change, then one ought to encourage homosexuals to do so, rather than allowing them to marry their same-sex partner. Why relegate them to a lesser position, when there is more to be hoped for?


In terms of their health they would be better off chaste. There are many dissatisfied gay men, who want out, and who cannot find help. Even Mr. Fun acknowledges this.

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The state has a right to intervene where necessary and marriage is one of these issues. Civil marriage must be granted to gay or straight couples alike.

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Which is why I am arguing that gay people have no right to impose their desires which impose a burden upon the rest of us, without our consent.


Why does granting marriage to gay couples put a burden on the rest of you? Please explain your reasoning as from the way I see it, it is purely false and in accurate. And you cannot control segments of the population like little puppets.

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Again, if marriage is a public issue, then the mass does get to have a say.


Then Jim Crowe laws were a public issue but if you gave people in the south a say on the issue (in the 50s for example) they would choose to keep these horribly unfair laws. It fell on the federal government and the Supreme Court to do what was right even though the population was against it. Take inter-racial marriage. Legalised in California in 1949, even though some 90% of the population was against it.

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In terms of their health they would be better off chaste. There are many dissatisfied gay men, who want out, and who cannot find help. Even Mr. Fun acknowledges this.


This isn't true nor is it right. My health isn't any worse off then any straight guy out there. And there are many dissatisifed straight men too... should they become gay? Your reasoning is comical.

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Then single people are also discriminated against, in a similar manner.


Very true. Single people can also provide the benefits you associate with marriage.

The solution (to the marriage issue), and one which you say you would support, is to keep the government out of people's private lives. No state recognized marriage... and if the state wants to reward such things as raising children, do that seperately.

While the state recognizes heterosexual marriage, it needs to recognize homosexual marriage though. That other groups would still be discriminated against is no reason to continue discriminating against any of the others.

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You are demanding rights that do not exist. There is no right to recieve the benefits of marriage, simply a right to be married. Any gay person does not lose his right to be married, so long as he can find a nice woman to marry him, the same as anyone else. If for whatever reason you do not want to marry, that is your choice, and you should not expect to receive the same benefits as those who do choose to marry.


You seem to be equating the benefits afforded by marriage to the right to be married therein. A folly. The idea is for equal right to be married, and the benefits afforded as a consequence of that should be equal to heterosexuals and homosexuals, simply because there is no reason not to be. And surely you would not approve of a gay man marrying a heterosexual woman under false pretenses? It is not so much a question of a humans right to be married being affected by ones sexuality, rather ones right to be married to their person of choice. This argument is advocating that the notion of marriage be extended to same-sex couples.

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It makes a big difference. I am not saying that gay people should be prevented from having sex. One such argument against these regulations is the one that having a law unenforced, weakens all the others. There is no way to enforce a ban on sodomy, ergo, one ought not to place a ban, since such ban would be detrimental to the rule of law.


That would seem to imply that were you to have the means to impose such a law, you would do so. I'm saying that such a law is invalid anyway, since I am an advocate of the individuals right to live by their own morality so long as it is not forced on another, and not have another moral code imposed upon them.

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Fair enough. That is a consistent position, but then you are left with this question. If anything goes, why have marriage licenses at all? Why should the state be required to provide benefits to these relationships, if they have no authority to regulate?


I like the emotive attempt to put gay marriage in the same sordid box as incest and polygamy . There seems to be this "taxation" argument against gay marriage that I find curious. If the state does not want to give tax breaks or whatever to couples, then they don't have to. That should apply consistently throughout heterosexual or gay marriages. If its a childcare issue, then provide tax-breaks / benefit per child, whether naturally conceived or adopted etc. It really isn't a big issue, I don't understand why the anti-gay people are so determined to make a sticking point out of it.

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The state has a responsibility to all citizens, ergo, one of their responsibilities is to stand in moral judgement. It's one thing to disagree with the moral judgement of the state, and quite another to deny the state any such role.


Wrong, the state can uphold some ethical principle, for example, that of liberty, but the state has no objective ability or functional purpose in anything but a religious fundamentalist state, be it Islamic or Catholic, to stand in moral judgement of its people, or act in some form of moral guidance. I prefer to think there is no moral right or wrong as defined by the state .

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That is the purpose of the state, to regulate individual freedom, to ensure collective harmony. Complete individual freedom produces anarchy.


. So a libertarian state where certain actions are forbidden, cannot occur where it still allows for individual freedom to do anything but harm another (as the law should be in my opinion, the variable comes as ones definition of harm but you all know my views on that). In such a state individual freedom is maintained and protected by the state, not limited. You need to diffentiate between individual freedom and chaos. Nonetheless, if we are dealing with societies that are not run by an organised religion, you point has no merit.

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Very true! Which is why I am arguing that gay people have no right to impose their desires which impose a burden upon the rest of us, without our consent.


There is no direct impositional burden as there is with something like assault or the imposition of a moral view of one upon another. You can make a case for there being a consequential, interpretative harm caused by public display of gay relationships to homophobes, but one will always offend anyone in all but the most mundane of pursuits so we can't find consistency there, especially since the issue of offense is with the offended, not the person who causes it (like a swimmer blaming the tide, not his error, for drowning). Now in terms of taxation, society agrees to afford certain benefits to marriage. We are not arguing for marriage to be extended to all human beings, since it already is, we are arguing for marriage to allow for same-sex couples, and I can see no reason why that should not happen, except perhaps a risk to public homosexuals from homophobes, but then that hardly constitutes a good reason . If society does not want to pay those benefits, then it neednt, but note that your argument would conclude that any marriage without the consent of the populus is imposing its burden upon the rest of us without its consent, so no dice.

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Again, if marriage is a public issue, then the mass does get to have a say.


It is an issue of public recognition, not public business. It is akin to me wearing what I like in public, so thus displaying myself to all those who would look, expressing my identity, but that is none of the publics business in a proactive manner.

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Some lynchmob! What gay person ever did die at the hands of the state? What black person did the same?


How many have suffered at the hands of the state? Before homosexuality was legalised in the UK, many. Afterwards and today they still face institutional discrimination as highlighted by MrFun in his post earlier.

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In terms of their health they would be better off chaste. There are many dissatisfied gay men, who want out, and who cannot find help. Even Mr. Fun acknowledges this.


Ergo we must discourage homosexuality?

Fez actually makes very coherent and intelligent posts when he's with a liberal cause!

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Some people seem to be able to argue against gay marriages in a reasonable and civil fashion... you aren't one of them. So enough with the bigoted crap. You are one more bigoted comment away from yet another restriction.


Would you care to point out which of his statements was bigotted? It certainly seems to me that PA has been taking a lot more **** than he has been thrown in this thread.

But I am sure it isn't your fault. I am sure that someone has complained to you about PA expressing his opinion. So, in the cause of fairness, let me make an officail complaint about the following posts (I didn't have to go far back either):

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Arsehole.


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So seeing "Dykes on Bikes" or a bunch of queens gets you all hot and tingly? Seeing more of it is going to turn you?


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Stew, you are so full of sh*t...


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Evidently that is secondary to you being a ****.

the obsessive cult is generally composed of people who seem to fear anal sex, the cause of that fear can be the subject of much enjoyable speculation, PA, I'm looking in your direction.




Anyway, I noticed no-one answered my question. The point I was making is that what is acceptable behaviour in public is subjective. There are plenty of things which 'harm no-one' which I am sure the vast majority of posters on this board would object to being done in public. PA has admitted that he is uncomfortable with some behaviour and you lot ridicule him even though you too would find certain other behaviours uncomfortable (even if not the same one). What a bunch of hypocrites

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PA just isn't right. First thing is first, I should be allowed to hold my bf's hand in public and be allowed to kiss him, if heterosexual couples are granted that. Only the bigots here are against allowing homosexual couples to do the same thing as heterosexual couples can do in public. Kissing and holding hands. That doesn't harm anybody. So the only hypocrite here is you, Rogan.

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But I am sure it isn't your fault. I am sure that someone has complained to you about PA expressing his opinion. So, in the cause of fairness, let me make an officail complaint about the following posts (I didn't have to go far back either):


Your complaint is noted, and will be given the attention it deserves...

PA has continued to be restricted and warned about his bigoted comments in the past... he is on a far shorter leash when it comes to this matter. So while you are welcome to your opinion on the subject... your opinions are based on only part of the facts...

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There are plenty of things which 'harm no-one' which I am sure the vast majority of posters on this board would object to being done in public. PA has admitted that he is uncomfortable with some behaviour and you lot ridicule him even though you too would find certain other behaviours uncomfortable (even if not the same one). What a bunch of hypocrites


Well, I have seen people having sex in public and I don't really mind, but that's not the point here. One point is that one thing is being uncomfortable with something, another thing is wanting to legislate accordingly.

Secondly, it's one thing to at least try to debate something and an entirely different case if all the person in question is doing is repeating hateful statements, possibly because one thinks it's cool to see people all worked-up afterwards. In conclusion, we can agree fully that people shouldn't be calling each other full-of-**** *******s, but I must say I sometimes understand exactly why they do it.

 
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