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Sikander
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Boulder, Colorado, United Snakes of America
Jan 2000 time: 22:25
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quote: Originally posted by chegitz guevara
Well, while as a 13 boy, I certainly would have persued such a relationship with as hot a teacher as this, I certainly wouldn't have cooperated with police. After all, they'd be stoppin' me from gettin' more.
However, I won't say it wouldn't have played havoc with me emotionally. I remember how stupid I acted about the woman I lost my virginity too, and I was a minor and she was an adult (17 and 23). It messed me up for about a year. At 13, I'd be far less able to handle the emotional repercutions.
Remember, kids are stupid. They want things that are bad for them. |
I agree with you. I first had intercourse at 13 years of age, and had it fairly regularly after that. There were no real relationships, just sex with girls my age who were sexually abused and now active prematurely. It messed me up. I had little desire to play hand holding games with my more normal peers, it seemed so mundane. As a consequence I ended up missing out on my normal developmental sequence which had longer term consequences. I too had a college girlfriend when I was in high school, and it was not a healthy relationship (I was completely smitten and did whatever she said). I ended up perpetually alone, depressed and with numerous sexual partners throughout my late teens and early twenties after this relationship ended.
In my early to mid-twenties I started dating younger girls in an effort to start over. It was embarrassing and difficult (learning the lesson after it is supposed to be learned is hard), but it eventually worked out. I wasn't able to have a serious, stable and healthy relationship until I was well into my thirties. It's not all harmless, fun and games. There are real consequences that are not apparent to those who have had relatively healthy "boring" sexual histories.
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