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How long? (Time out:0 days after 27-03-2005, 05:34)
0-6 Months
6 Months - 1 Year
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5 - 6 years
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Kirnwaffen is offline Kirnwaffen
Warlord
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Jul 2000
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Italian wins in court after husband's 'sex strike'
Court awards damages, says 7-year campaign was unfair
Updated: 10:45 a.m. ET March 25, 2005ROME - An Italian woman whose angry husband refused for 7 years to have sex with her was awarded divorce damages by Italy's high court this week.

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Francesco launched his "sex strike" in the early 1990s to punish his wife, Piera, for taking sides against him in a family dispute over money, according to details of the case reported by local media.

They bitterly separated in 2000 and Francesco, still convinced that she was responsible for the broken marriage, refused to make support payments demanded by Italian courts and repeatedly appealed against them.

But the highest court ruled that Francesco's sexual punishment did not fit the crime, and doomed Piera to perpetual frustration.

"The refusal of affection or sexual attention must constitute the blame for the separation," the court ruled.

For Piera, "satisfaction in life (was) impossible ... along with fulfillment of marriage in its deepest sense." Beyond support payments, Francesco must pay court costs of several thousand euros.

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Seven years is just a bit much in my modest opinion. I'm thinkin' more like a couple of months, maybe. I mean, they couldn't have really been happy all that time if he was actually refusing to do the deed. So, how long?

Ted Striker is offline Ted Striker
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Pekka is offline Pekka
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marriage > sex.

Kirnwaffen is offline Kirnwaffen
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marriage > sex.


Understood, but he refused to have sex with her for 7 years. Sounds to me like a relatively serious falling out.

Atahualpa is offline Atahualpa
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Mar 1999
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Bosh is offline Bosh
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I LIKE sex.

Pekka is offline Pekka
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Kirnwaffen, true, that means there were some serious problems if someone could hold out for so long just because.
So it makes me think, that the sex part wasn't the real problem, just a side product of it all.

I don't believe in divorces. I mean, if there is no abuse in the relationship, I dont believe in divorce. Simple as that. You are pledging to be together forever until death aparts you. How can you pledge, and not keep your words? I don't understand that. I know a lot of people understands it and don't understand my position on it, but I guess I'm not like most when it comes to some things. You pledge that you are together for the better and for the worse. So there were some bad times. But the idea was to work it out, and if both want to work it out, it works out. But if the other one is a traitor like that, then it's for the worse for the rest of their lives. Too bad. I guess they married the wrong person. That's why I also don't believe true love exists, and I do believe marriage is built on love, trust and respect. It's a bit complicated, yet very simple. That's why I would not marry a girl if we knew each other for a year and she was really pretty and rich too and pledging alliance to me, because I don't trust another persons pledging. One pledges one day and another day that pledge is taken apart. That's not how it works in my mind. I'm not getting married ever and be alone forever? So be it. I get married and it works out? Even better. But I'm not pledging anything, until I'm rock solid 100% sure. And I don't trust anyone.

Atahualpa is offline Atahualpa
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I don't believe in divorces.


Hear hear!

Spiffor is offline Spiffor
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Nov 2001
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Dunno. I've held for 22 years without having sex, but ever since I met my girlfriend, I crave for sex after a mere two weeks of separation (we're often geographically separated).

So, it's banana for me

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Oct 2002
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3 months after having sex for the first time

KrazyHorse is offline KrazyHorse
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May 2001
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The longest I ever went after first breaking the seal was 5 weeks.

Odin is offline Odin
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Sep 2000
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You can get sued for refusing to have sex? WTF!?!

Spiffor is offline Spiffor
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This is Italy

Spiffor is offline Spiffor
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You can get sued for refusing to have sex? WTF!?!


More seriously, this is a divorce case, whre the man claims the divorce is the woman's fault. I suppose that in the Italian law, it is important to know whose fault a divorce is. As he witheld sex for years, the man denied his wife her right to live a fulfilling family life. As long as justice intervened in their couple (apparently, in divorce procedure), it is normal that justice didn't ignore such an important part of it.

Sava is offline Sava
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Mar 2001
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shoot them both

Boris Godunov is offline Boris Godunov
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Aug 2001
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Realisitically--3 days. Not that any one has been able to resist my seductive charms for more than a few hours. This couldn't happen to me, actually.

Odin is offline Odin
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This is Italy


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Skanky Burns is offline Skanky Burns
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Aug 2001
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Perhaps a week if they were deliberately refusing.

Dis is offline Dis
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err wait a minute. The man witheld sex? How did he manage that?

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0 to 6 months for me. I would only allow longer for a major illness or disability. And if my wife was permanently disabled, I'd get it elsewhere (with her acknowledgement of course).

Uncle Sparky is offline Uncle Sparky
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If I were married to an Italian man, I'd prefer we never have sex.

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I can abstain as long as necessary. I´m too lazy to get me some...

Drogue is offline Drogue
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Well, as soon as someone said out of spite that she'd never sleep with me again, then the relationship would end. Sex isn't a weapon to be used to settle disputes, and if someone was that full of hate, it wouldn't be a proper relationship. However if it was just them not being able to/wanting to to have sex, then probably quite a while.

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If there isn't any lovin' in the marriage then there isn't any love in the marriage.

Verres is offline Verres
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7 years without sex is ridiculous.

She must have been getting it somewhere else.

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7 years without sex is ridiculous.

She must have been getting it somewhere else.


That's why it's so ridiculous for the court to get involved. Either both sides or at fault or no one is at fault. Just do the divorce and be done with it. They obviously should have divorced 7 years sooner.

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Damn, I now see I misunderstood the poll. I thought it was about abstaining in general. In this case I´d give it a few weeks...

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