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Pekka is offline Pekka
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I want you all to confess how you made it to the winner circle. I think, for a long time I was a loser. I didn't want to be, but my attitude was hindering me, and it made my whole package of what is me stink. Everyone knows the cornerstones of success, but very few actually drive for them 100% day in day out. You have to be SUPER talented and have great fortune to ever make it if you don't follow those rules, and even then it's a stretch. Most people try some, but give up early, so they think they didn't have it, when they just needed to be more persistent on their dreams.

Now, when did the shift happen to you? I think mine happened.. about a.. year ago maybe. I was doing a lot of searching as to what I want, all I knew was that I'm going to get it, I just need to focus on something first. Now, it's starting to roll in.. slowly, but steadily. And I'm just starting, this is a building thing, step by step, getting more hungry, more confident, working more angles, making double and triple checks.

From what I have gathered is, that sometimes a bit of weirdness goes a long way. The.. it's a weird mix really. Hard for me to explain, but from my postings, you would not think my passion is mathematics and computer science. But what that requires is some sort of organized thinking and logical thinking patterns. When you bring a bit of weirdness into it, well you got me. So what's my key? The combination. I mean, there's fools luck, which I definitely have. But you have to be a bit out there to have it. It's like drunk luck. Drunk people never get hurt, everyone else does. From being super broke and not being able to chase my dream to chasing the dream, getting a career started already and finally maybe meeting someone who I think is special and we like each other, with a low rent nice single flat room and.. what can I say.. lady fortune has been on my side lately, and a lot!!

Tell me your recipe, and how your shift happened from the loser side to the winner side. And yes I made a thread about me, because ultimately, I'm an egomaniac. But hey, better that than sadistic satan worshipper, right?

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I'm downshifting gears

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oh ps, I didn't mean we're moving together. And no I do not love her either.

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Diss, man, you're a tough cookie to break. My opinion, honest opinion, is that you're in the wrong place. Somehow you're not getting what you deserve. I really do think that, even when I don't know you very well but from what I have learned. You should be getting a lot more, and I don't j ust mean in terms of money. I mean in everything. Something is holding you back, what that is, I do not know.

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I'm downshifting gears


I turned the engine off years ago, I've got the top down, the radio on full tilt, freewheeling down hill nice 'n' steady and loving it!

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How did I become a winner?

By posting on Apolyton OT, of course.

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Glad to hear you're doing good Pekka

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VetLegion, thanks Yeah definitely. I feel blessed. I truly do.. very lucky. Had some series of misfortune, but then it came double fortune back to me, so hey.. you win some you lose some, but it's better to be winning more. And I'm soon maybe fighting too, so I feel very good right now.

The downside is, I cry like once a month.

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I've never been a loser, thankyou very much

It's all pure luck of course

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I've never been a loser, thankyou very much

It's all pure luck of course


So that *WAS N'T* you starting the borderline suicide threads a few years back?

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I am being sarcastic and the killer was the ability I possess and being completely underutilised and unrecognised...

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RIght, mr. I can never get a job

Nah, I'm glad that PH is also doing great.

One thing about finally rolling to the right direction is that you can be genuinely happy about others success.

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I turned the engine off years ago, I've got the top down, the radio on full tilt, freewheeling down hill nice 'n' steady and loving it!


exactly. . I got a nice slack job, and I like it. It gives me time to focus on the important things in life like computer games.

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One thing about finally rolling to the right direction is that you can be genuinely happy about others success.


Very true - if your friends are doing well and you are stuck in a rut you get a bit resentful...

Careerwise things are looking very bright, constantly on the up and my skills and talents are well recognised. But I also know you can never rest on your laurels either.

As for women (the other part of my previous dilemma) well there's still not a lot that can be said about that, but that doesn't seem as important any more anyway. A lot of my problems have also been sorted out with antidepressants which coincided with a definite upturn in my life...

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killer was the ability I possess and being completely underutilised and unrecognised...


I think everyone feels that (I do), the secret is not to care (and I dont).

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Every weekend, I beat the sh1t out of rowdy drunks and townies.

That makes me feel like a WINNER.

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PH, yeah it's true, and then you feel guilty about being jealous. And when you are OK, and your friend is not getting his/her goal, you kind of want to help them and REALLY wish that they make it, and be even more nervous than they are!

It's like any team sports.. the biggest fanatics are the parents of kids who play, adn they are on each other throats ready to kill and maim.

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It's like any team sports.. the biggest fanatics are the parents of kids who play, adn they are on each other throats ready to kill and maim.


And that's a fact too...with the stress I have felt over the past few years, my mother has felt it too...

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yeah it's very real.. and it's worse because they can't control what you are doing, and they want you to have the best in what ever it is, and it's even worse if they know you have the skills and all, but something just isn't going right.. or maybe just pure lack of luck. It's the worst. It's like one of my friends.. he's been trying to get into this school for 3 times already, and now this will be his 4th attempt. This means, he's been dreaming but not doing for 4 years. I had the same pressure when I was trying to get in, but my buddy is really having it the worst.. it's like the 'be factory worker for the rest of your life making **** money and nto liking it' or 'live your dream'. It's just so raw and tough, and last time he got SO close and blew it at the last second so.. it sucked. I hope he makes it this time. I've been calling him all the time, making sure he studies and is doing the right things. He's not even drinking for like two months, only studying and trying to get in. IF he fails this time.. man I don't know.. but on the other hand, if he makes it, we're going to have a helluva party!!!

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The first part was a breeze, always had the talent, got to a very good uni, graduated, perhaps with not as high a class as I should have got, but this is depression, made it very hard for me to concentrate or focus. And then the brick wall - went into research although I was paid an absolute pittance and that didn't work, and then the unemployment and still crap pay. The main change in my financial status was when I moved out of Hull and moved to the South East.

Well I'll give your friend something - he has patience...

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moving to another environment, cool stuff.. I did the same when I went to uni as well. Did me wonders.. kind of .. getting a new start.. fresh. No one knows you yet so..

yes he has. He wants it. He is not stupid either.. it's been close every single time.. it's popular place, so it's tough to get in.. really tough. In here.. I think the average tries until you get into a uni is 2.7... meaning almost 3 years . It's painful. Talk about pressure. What are you going to do in the meanwhile? Remember, you live in Finland. You can always get depressed and stab someone. That's a choice.

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Actually Pekka for me it's pretty easy

It was all about outlook

When I was a teenager all I thought about was the crap I didn't have. I EXPECTED it to just fall into my lap. That's having a sense of entitlement and it's a character flaw. Then at one point I hit rock bottom and said, "**** THIS," and started taking pride in having accomplishments. Once I got one little taste of success, everything after that was gravy.

A couple of years later I stopped complaining about the things I didn't have and realize I had it really good. So I appreciated the things I had around me, and for some reason, after that, things just started falling into my lap. It's weird how it works that way.

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Yeah, I feel I am doing pretty well now with a record time turnaround...it makes me feel very optimistic about the future, who knows where I could be in just another years time!

But I don't think I'd have ever got anywhere without moving out of Hull...

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Yeah it's weird.. it's like I tried harder earlier, nothing happened.. I mean something happened but not to the extent I was hoping for. Now that I'm just winging it, things seems to work out, no matter what it is, I seem to benefit from it and things just bump into me and I don't have to run anymore. Weird indeed.

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I've also found that when the opportunities are there I have an ambitious streak larger than...erm...Greenland

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I want you all to confess how you made it to the winner circle.

I moved to Korea.
For some strange reason people here think I'm cool

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I think, for a long time I was a loser.


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