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ajbera
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of the Cookieville Minimum Security Orphanarium
Apr 1999 time: 05:20
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I think the primary secular argument against gay marrage is that, if you define marriage as more than the union of a man and woman, where can you realistically draw the line? Why is polygamy not allowed? What about incest if neither party can bear children?
I understand the logic of this argument, and while I support gay marriage I'm not sure how I feel about polygamy, non-procreative incest, etc. I do think it's kind of silly to think that marriage between a small percent of a small percent of the population will destabilize traditional marriage.
Despite being a cynic and pessimist and all, I also think that there isn't enough love in the world, and any time that two people want to commit to one another and try to spend their lives together, we should give them our support.
I also say this as a married man who doesn't want, and won't have, kids. Yet, I still think the union of two people, even if they don't have children, is a generally stabilizing force.
Something has to be done about divorce, though. It should be harder to get married, and barring spousal abuse, harder to break the marriage. I think the ease with which folks in the US (don't know 'bout other nations) can enter and leave marriage destabilizes and undermines the institution far more than a few thousand gay marriages ever can.
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Kontiki
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Aug 2001 time: 00:20
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Never understood this "where do you draw the line" logic. Right now (or not, in some places), a line is drawn at anything past one man and one women. How does moving that line one increment make it any more arbitrary or less stable? It's like saying that the speed limit is 100km/h right now, but if we raise it to 120km/h, then surely it's going to have to be 200km/h.
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