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bayraven
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quote: Originally posted by JohnT
Dude, I am an excellent father.
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Yeah, me too, when my oldest was three. By the time he was 16 he was in jail and I didnt feel so excellent. My best intentions and perfect plan for his life met with teenage rebellion and I lost.
That's when I sought out my own supernatural fairytale crutch. A few years later my middle son rebelled right into Islam. He is now the worship leader in another small church here in TN., and my olsdest wants to take over our family business.
All that to say this; the more you love them, the more they will seek to stand and think on their own. She will probably be a teenage Christian, and as a young adult she will give credibility to whatever you truly believe.
Since I'm dealing with a fairytale, you don't mind if I pray the teenage Christian thing sticks, do you?
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bayraven
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Who said mindless? There were inconsistancies in my approach to both sons. The rebellion was intentional and directed squarely at me.
The rebellion I see in the kids I deal with now is far from mindless
Jesus aint to popular with most kids, not even in the bible belt
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bayraven
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true, and parental rebellion is a teen phenom that isolates whatever they see as excessive/inconsistant in mom/dad and they do a 180
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bayraven
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quote: Originally posted by Last Conformist
What percentage of kids do much of a teenage rebellion at all?
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any answer is subjective, ie what constitutes rebellion, is it relative to the behavior of their peers, etc.
The reason I think rebellion relates to this thread is the mix of the passion / restriction by the parent(s).
Stomping out copyright infringes for the purpose of saving a three year old the exposure (as was listed to be the nobles oblige) sounds quite passionate. My guess is, to a ten or twelve year old that approach would cause extreme curiosity for what's being censured, and fodder for a teenager seeking independence. No different from the stereotypical 'preachers kid' breaking as many commandments as possible.
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bayraven
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I would say that everyone has some degree of need for non-comfomity. But that is the consequence of forty years of watching people be people, not a spontanious observation.
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