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lord of the mark
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FUKCOV - Former United Kingdom Colony of Virginia
Dec 2000 time: 00:37
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quote: Originally posted by Imran Siddiqui
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Not my point to have Rockstar leave by itself. My point was to do away with the entire ****ing ESRB and have parents involved in their kids purchasing decisions. It'd be hard? So ****ing what?! Parents can't just drop their kids off at the interactive highway and except that the world will take care of them. Get involved with what your kids are doing! If they ask for a game, do some research.
I mean my believe in personal responsibility means that you can't just blame it on someone else when you aren't keeping tabs on your kids. |
I think parents should be watch what their kids buy and play (though its not always possible - you cant monitor everything that happens at other kids houses). But to expect them to play through every game, to see whats in it, is absolutely unreasonable. Not every parent wants to play games, and not everything shows up till you get to certain levels, etc. I mean parents deserve to have a life too, ya know. They could rely on unofficial ratings by game review sites, but I dont know how that makes the situation any better than the ESRB ratings - it just makes it less convenient for parents.
If there were no ESRB rating, some parents might be more inclined not to allow their kids any games at all. Many would lean on the cautious side, and only allow those few games they knew to be ok. And of course the less responsible ones, who are just responsible enough to not buy their kids an M game, might abandon all control whatsoever, and let their kids have whatever they want (which may be what some posters prefer all parents did)
Im happy that this is rather academic for me - POTM isnt very interested in games, and the ones she is interested in I know and can judge (and are NOT violent)
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Imran Siddiqui

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The Potterverse
Jan 1970 time: 00:37
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quote: I think parents should be watch what their kids buy and play (though its not always possible - you cant monitor everything that happens at other kids houses). But to expect them to play through every game, to see whats in it, is absolutely unreasonable. Not every parent wants to play games, and not everything shows up till you get to certain levels, etc. I mean parents deserve to have a life too, ya know. They could rely on unofficial ratings by game review sites, but I dont know how that makes the situation any better than the ESRB ratings - it just makes it less convenient for parents. |
They don't have to play the games, they just have to read the back of the box! Games aren't shy about what they are about back there. If they have gore or sex, they make a point to put it back there (it's a big selling point). Parents should get more involved in buying games. If your kid wants $50 for a game, you should be there with them to see if the game is suitable for the kid. Or, spend 5 minutes (at least) watching them play the game to see if it's ok. If you want to abrogate your responsibilies as a parent, don't call for the heads of the game industry.
quote: If there were no ESRB rating, some parents might be more inclined not to allow their kids any games at all. Many would lean on the cautious side, and only allow those few games they knew to be ok. And of course the less responsible ones, who are just responsible enough to not buy their kids an M game, might abandon all control whatsoever, and let their kids have whatever they want (which may be what some posters prefer all parents did) |
Yes, many would lean on the cautious side and actually BE PARENTS! They would do their homework for once and not really on the X-Box to be a babysitter.
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Carolus Rex
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Sweden
Jan 1970 time: 06:37
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quote: Originally posted by lord of the mark
Ive tried to avoid saying anything about the specific content of GTA, as i havent played it. It would be nice if those who havent actually parented would show some humility in regards to whats involved in parenting.
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Well... Why shouldn't you be entitled to have opinions about GTA even if you haven't played it? I haven't played it either and any view I have on its gameplay (well, I have none) is necessarily less initiated than someone that has...
But we're talking about general principles here (censoring/rating games or not; the extent of parents' responsibility for their children's gaming habits etc)... We have the same right to participate in that debate as the worst GTA addict...
Carolus
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Imran Siddiqui

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The Potterverse
Jan 1970 time: 00:37
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quote: for all the ESRB ratings have been problematic, I cant see that box art is a clear guide to content - i mean thats a couple of pics, and a brief description, of sometimes huge game worlds. I mean i dont usually buy this kind of game, but my general experience is that box are leaves alot to be desired in really understanding what a game is all about.
And of course doesnt help at all if youre buying a jewelcase edition, or whatever. And i hardly see how reading the marketing material on a box means being an involved parent - its not time spent interacting with your kid.
Also i fail to see how it addresses the issue in question here - the material that Rockstar failed to inform the ESRB about, it also failed to describe on its boxes, I presume. |
I see you happened to neglect the second part of what I said (coincidentally?). Parents should be around at least a few minutes to see what kind of game their kids got. See if it is suitable for them. If not, you take it away.
In the case of GTA, if a parent is buying it for a 13, 14 year old, then they have failed as parents. I'm sorry, but when the box talks about being in a gang and engaging in gang wars. And then when you sit down for 10 minutes with the game you hear every curse word and drug usage and killing of civilians/cops/whoever, that should clue you in.
Rockstar's "mod" is also something that requires people to download a key to unlock.
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