22-08-2005 01:52									#1
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to let us say that we're no responsible for things we've done or words we've said anymore. Does doing something when You're 16 y.o. has anything to do with You when You're 24, 32, 40? After what time can we forget about something we've done without feeling we're doing wrong?

	22-08-2005 01:57									#2
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Depends on what it is...

	22-08-2005 02:04									#3
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quote: Originally posted by Provost Harrison Depends on what it is...

AS trite as that sounds, its so true. I still have regrets about some things I did 20 years ago while other things from last week can be forgotten easily

	22-08-2005 02:07									#4
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I have no regrets. But I hate it when people who have these perfect memories can remember stupid things you said when you were a teenager, and still hold it against you. . Yeah I was typical in that I thought I knew everything back then. But now I'm sure I know everything.

	22-08-2005 03:00									#5
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A card layed is a card played.
Best you can do is learn from it, but that doesn't wipe it out of existence.

	22-08-2005 03:10									#6
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quote: Originally posted by SlowwHand A card layed is a card played.

Nice expression. I like that.

	22-08-2005 03:56									#7
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A bird in the bush is worth two in the hand

	22-08-2005 04:36									#8
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quote: Originally posted by Flubber AS trite as that sounds, its so true. I still have regrets about some things I did 20 years ago while other things from last week can be forgotten easily

Making amends might help put to rest your regrets. The person to whom you slighted 20 yrs ago may not even remember the incident but it will help you forgive yourself and put it to rest.

Making amends does not have to be something you do in person if it will be something to get you in legal trouble. Doing something annonymously to counterbalance the scales to make up for the wrong will do.

Make any sense?

	22-08-2005 04:39									#9
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quote: Originally posted by SlowwHand A card layed is a card played. Best you can do is learn from it, but that doesn't wipe it out of existence.

Better yet:

"The moving writes, and having writ,
Moves on.
Not all your piety nor wit can call it back
To erase half a line,
Nor all your tears
Wash out a single word."

...Rubiyat of Omar Kiam

	22-08-2005 04:53									#10
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quote: Originally posted by Zkribbler Better yet: "The moving writes, and having writ, Moves on. Not all your piety nor wit can call it back To erase half a line, Nor all your tears Wash out a single word." ...Rubiyat of Omar Kiam

very nice..

	22-08-2005 04:55									#11
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as to the topic... the answer is really never.
esp if you choose to live in home town where you
went to school.
moving to new city will give a fresh start..

part of the reason my son wants to move to chicago.
hes 21 and tired of running into high school buddies
or fans of the bands he has quit...

	22-08-2005 05:23									#12
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Some things stay with you forever.

Depends on your concience.

Clinical psychopaths, for example, lack sympathy and empathy, so they can do bad things and never worry about it.

	22-08-2005 06:36									#13
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quote: Originally posted by Ted Striker Some things stay with you forever. Depends on your concience. Clinical psychopaths, for example, lack sympathy and empathy, so they can do bad things and never worry about it.

Hence my suggestion to make amends and get it off your conscience if at possible.

	22-08-2005 07:10									#14
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Look inside yourself. Was it a mistake, and if so, are you going to repeat it? If not, then let it go. Why torture yourself over some stuff that happened long time ago. If it's not a murder, or similar serious crime.. then you have nothing to worry about anymore. It's not worth it. What do you gain from it? Nothing.

So .. just let it go already. People change.. good folks can become buttwipes. But buttwipes can become good folks. So just make sure what you are now and in the future is not the stupid, but good. And if you can do that, then all is forgiven. And if some person tries to give you problems from things in the past, take them out, one way or another. Simple and yet works. Simple works.

	22-08-2005 07:12									#15
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yeah, I didn't want to have anything to do with people form my highschool

and I hoped (and tried to pressure) my siblings to leave highschool behind also..

my highschool was a mess

jM

	22-08-2005 08:19									#16
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I wouldn't know...

I'm a good person

I don't do shitty things to people

can't think of any regrets

except of course, being born

	22-08-2005 10:22									#17
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We are always responsible* for things we say and do. You cannot take words back that came out from your mouth, nor can you erase the consequences of your actions. You can only come to grip with these. Understand that we are all humans and we all make mistakes.


* For those 18 years old and over

	22-08-2005 10:32									#18
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I don't think you're responsible for your actions as a child.