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Albert Speer is offline Albert Speer
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Mar 1999
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Yall do know I havent posted a love life thread in well over a year at least... but this isnt as bad as any of those.

See now theres a girl that i swear if you met her, you'd think shes perfect. i could go on for a whole thread about everything so great about her but i wont.

see the problem is that a lot of guys like her. My guess is about ten guys like her right now and these arent losers either. She's not interested in any of them nor me because she's too concerned with her school work and church activities etc. She's also not interested in me, but she feels sorry for me because as she put it, 'no one reciprocates your feelings back to you.' She obviously tries to be nice to me probably cause she's sorry for me and i try so hard to please her, but she's also scared i'll mis-interpret her niceness so she tries to avoid me now and then.

now i like her a lot so im not just going to back off, especially since I think that she might be interested in me once she's ready for a boyfriend. And a few of her friends have said that i'm probably the best and nicest guy of those who like her. But how can i assure she'll like me eventually?

and please nobody post bullshit...


thanks

November Adam is offline November Adam
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I'd go with blackjack... or maybe poker.. but with no wild cards... wild cards suck in poker.

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Exactly. Dealer's choice.

BlackStone is offline BlackStone
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That sounds like a funny competition! was it from one of those tird world countries

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Speer, how come you post this **** when you donīt wanna listen to the answers? IIRC people on Poly have given you tons of advice on a variety of subjects, but you just keep whining. Why is that?

Albert Speer is offline Albert Speer
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i'm not whining... and this doesnt have to do with other threads i posted...

and damn i knew i should've taken account for poker card jokes...

BlackStone is offline BlackStone
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and please nobody post bullshit...
thanks


sorry i didn`t see this bit.

Advice.. the only advice i can give is try to have fun when you are with her and don`t be too full on. It may push her away or she may take you for granted, girls like to chase as well. The problem with these advice things is that it is also better for you to act naturally no go second guessing everything you do.

So she hnows how you feel, and you try and relax and have fun be a friend for her. Then if it is meant to be it will happen.

PS Bear in mind that we have all been there (i don`t mean her.. ....sorry i could not resist that one), and that its ok to say the wrong thing or f@ck up on occasion, everyone does it, its how you come back that counts.

Relax enjoy the time you have with her.

Best of luck...oh and perhaps you should be caught helping out at the church as well - though try not to make it obvious.

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Yes Speer, you whine. Thatīs all you ever do, granted you havenīt whined so much in this thread (yet) but in the end thatīs what youīll do. Sometimes I think you get a kick out of it

BlackStone is offline BlackStone
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Originally posted by Albert Speer
i'm not whining... and this doesnt have to do with other threads i posted...

and damn i knew i should've taken account for poker card jokes...



Get a grip of yourself man be more assertive For practice you should probably go and pick a fight with one of the other posters...say one with emperor of modulator after their name they ussually think alot of themselves. SO go out there and show them whose boss....ps don`t forget to swear and be generally abusive.

and if you want to thank me you go ahead and mail me my names Eli

Albert Speer is offline Albert Speer
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blackstone:

thanks for the advice. my personality isnt very 'playful' to girls and she knows this but ill probably joke with her more often or try to.

and how am i supposed to fight another poster?

BlackStone is offline BlackStone
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Are you the one that started all this Banana bollax?

sorry this question was for Kamrat X

Asher is offline Asher
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Any ideas on winning a girl's heart?

Judging from what you seem to be like from Apolyton, I'd recommend doing the opposite of whatever you think is best.

Albert Speer is offline Albert Speer
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Blackstone:

nah i was always wondering about that banana ****. it just seemed to crop up recently. i dont get whats so funny about it but people still use it.

BlackStone is offline BlackStone
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blackstone:

and how am i supposed to fight another poster?


Just tell them that their ideas are sh1t that ussually does the trick. Or maybe cast doubt on their parentage you know the ussual stuff.

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Judging from what you seem to be like from Apolyton, I'd recommend doing the opposite of whatever you think is best.




Cruel so damn cruel

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Speer - if you back off she may like you more. Don't hang on her, just say hi once in a while, gradually build your way up to asking her out, take no for an answer if that's the answer, and just say that if she'd ever like to go out, you'd love to do something with her....

then let that be that. If nothing happens, nothing'll happen. So just let it goooooo.......

Best advice I can give you.

And stop trying to do everything you can to please her.

"You look nice today" tends to lose it's meaning after 1000 times, hearing it once a day every day or more...no matter what simile or metaphor you use.

devilmunchkin is offline devilmunchkin
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be honest and be yourself
all lies and facades you put over yourself will eventually come out into the open anyway

Tuberski is offline Tuberski
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Teh way it always seemed to work for me........get a diferent girlfriend, then you won't be able to keep her away.

Caesar the Great is offline Caesar the Great
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ask for a ****... whats the worst that can happen? she'll say no....

Lazarus and the Gimp is offline Lazarus and the Gimp
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...accuse you of sexual harrassment, take out an injunction against you and get your name of a sex offenders register.

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quote:
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i was always wondering about that banana ****. it just seemed to crop up recently. i dont get whats so funny about it but people still use it.


It's tradition.

It is our moral obligation to keep it going, for all those that have left Apolyton.

Goodluck with your (to be) girlfriend.

monolith94 is offline monolith94
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What is she, a raffle???

My advice? Be really laid back. relaxed. I'm talking MELLOW. The worst you can do is worry; the worst you can do is become neurotic. See "Play it again Sam", for elaboration.

November Adam is offline November Adam
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Exactly. Dealer's choice.


Kay Slowhand I'll see your kidney, and raise you an eyebrow!

(Body part Poker.... Albert started it! )

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Just be you If it is going to happen and stay happening just be you...

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Ask her out on a date. If she says no, move on to another one. She will respect that. Don't mope. Just go out with the ones who say yes.

Oh and grow some nads, leather jacket boy.

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Ha! Ha!
*Is this by any chance the same girl that I know

Dont worry, Albert, some of us were meant to be pitiful.
Expect to be disappointed and you won't be disappointed.

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see the problem is that a lot of guys like her. My guess is about ten guys like her right now and these arent losers either. She's not interested in any of them nor me because she's too concerned with her school work and church

Exactly my problem

You could try the same thing I have been- just wait and DONT ASK HER OUT AGAIN and hope that she will eventually come around to you... She probably won't, but, remember, if she doesn't really like you- then she wont have any fun with you if you go out on a date and then you won't enjoy it either and there will be no future (marriage, etc.)

Just let things take care of themselves.

Oh- and If you get any omens- try to follow them... If you want any more explanations on THAT subject, please ask me to post a follow up

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....(marriage, etc.)


Top ten ways to muck it up completely and scare her away for ever...

1) Mention the word "Marriage" on the first date

Worthingtons is offline Worthingtons
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Well the last girl's heart I won was when I said 'You dont want me to spend the night alone in a double bed do you?' . Felt good about that ever since... even if it was a cheesy thing to say.


No, I'll come up with a cruel yet serious suggestion - Lower Your Standards!
If she's perfect mate then it's only natrual that'll be able to get someone 'perfect' herself, and however nice you may be, it probably wont be enough. Best thing is to find somebody else more in your range, and then she'll probably find it a lot easier to talk to you anyhow. Although dont set out to do that exactly as it's not really 'fair' on the other person.

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Well this was a shock. Speer is on the boards again, and not 3 days later we have a moaning, whining, teen-angst thread.

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Quantity over quality, eh Rothy?

 
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