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Prowling in a PBEM near you!
Nov 2002 time: 00:26
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quote: Originally posted by UnOrthOdOx
Without getting drug down into this...
Perhaps I should be rethinking what I had planned for this last Gazette...
BT,
Don't mind Beta. Just get it changed, and don't think twice about it. |
'Don't mind Beta.'
Thanks UnOrthOdOx.
'Don't think twice about it.'
Maybe he should have.
Sorry to be so hard-nosed about this guys. But I feel strongly about it. (obviously). And yes, there are clearly different sensibility levels involved. But I don't appreciate, nor to be honest, do I understand, my concerns being swept away or trivialized.
When one of you feels strongly about a game or admin or membership issue - I respect your views. Even when a position one of you takes, may, to me, appear unreasonable.
I welcome any and all new members. And truly do I welcome BT as well, but with a different name. And I do admit I reacted quickly.
So - in an effort to put closure on this - I will restate my message above, and direct it to BT. And then lets leave it at that. OK.
to BT from Beta
BT - welcome to the wonderful world of Apolyton. Glad to have you aboard. I really am.
However, I find your handle offensive. My wife does as well, and she is often looking over my shoulder when I am on-line. It would be greatly appreciated if you would contact one of the administrators as soon as possible and get it changed. I'm sure you can explain to your brother the reasons why.
Thank-you. And once again - welcome.
.... sincerely .... Beta.
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UnOrthOdOx
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Hello....
Jun 2002 time: 22:26
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Beta,
I am not going to argue the pro's and con's of the subject in question.
This is a sensitive subject, I know. I was not trying to put it in a way that made you feel I was making light of your stance. Just trying to let someone know it will all be forgotten in short order with a simple fix, assuming that BT is still around to be reading. Perhaps I am suffering from some regional dialect that I try to avoid most often. Saying 'dont mind' someone usually means the equivalent of 'he is a good guy, you should really get to know him' when the person in question says something that could be considered rude. Perhaps this is a local dialect, though, and I meant no offense if you took it as me brushing you aside. I was trying to tell BT he should get to know you before judging you and/or leaving. I stand by saying once the name is changed, there should be no thought given it again.
And this is not the first time we have had problems with people "reacting quickly" to new members. You prove in the last post that you could have made your own statement in a way that was not confrontational, and constructive the first time.
"When one of you feels strongly about a game or admin or membership issue - I respect your views. Even when a position one of you takes, may, to me, appear unreasonable."
Oh, you can name me by name, no problem. I left the ISDG for reasons that most of you don't know, not what you saw in the forum. But, for the record, I reserve the right to act however I wish to accusations of myself becomming a cheater, or leaking out information, it had nothing, really, to do with what happened in public. And judging from responses made to me personally in private, most feel it was a good decision to leave, let's just leave it at that.
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Beta

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Prowling in a PBEM near you!
Nov 2002 time: 00:26
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Thanks UnOrthO. I do appreciate the clarification. And you are right, I did intepret your comments in a different way than intended.
A point of clarification though, I was in no way thinking of the recent ISDG incident when I made my remarks. I have always assumed you have your reasons and respected you for that. I was referring to other incidents in the past, where I, as MWIA did above, simply had to shrug my shoulders, try to view the matter from a different angle or someone else's shoes, and then, just, well, move on.
Which, is what I believe we are doing now.
Ready - all together now - 1...2...3... 
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