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LTEC!
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...and ICE CREAM!
Feb 2000
time: 21:27
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Originally posted by connorkimbro
ok, here's one for you.
say there are 3 different girls (all are of a different nationality, and speak a language that you "sort of" speak) and they each work at different bars (one of them actually owns her own bar.
and they all expect you to come to THEIR bar. one of them kind of likes you, one of them kind of likes someone else, and one of them is dating someone else, but they ALL flirt with you and ask you to come to their bar. also, the one that kind of likes you has a friend that kind of likes your friend, and THAT girl called him up last night and said "hey, let's all hang out and get drunk together" but she meant last night. and tonight when my friend and i went to that bar, the girl that kind of likes me already had plans (with other female friends) for tonight, but the other girl went to meet my friend.
uhh, sorry that's confusing. |
Sorry to shoot you down, Connor. But they just want you to come to the bar and spend your money and hang out.
ALL barkeeps flirt. Its a good marketing strategy. 
The girl that really likes you will rearrange her plans to go out with you (maybe).
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connorkimbro
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Seoul Korea
Jan 1970
time: 23:27
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the one that likes some one else, and the one that is dating someone else, yes.
the one that likes someone else and I are friends (good friends) and have known eachother for a while, so it's a bit more than "just wanting to make money" though admittedly, that's part of it. the one that is dating someone else, i just met her, and we'll probably be friends, though of course she does want to make money as well. the other one, she JUST started working at the bar, and so she much less motivated by making money. plus, her bar is already one of the more popular bars. she (and I) are already interested in hanging out apart from just at the bar.
why is it a question? i don't know. things aren't going badly yet. but they probably will, so i just wanted to get the situation out there, so when things DO go badly, i won't have to explain as much. 
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LTEC!
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...and ICE CREAM!
Feb 2000
time: 21:27
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Originally posted by Spiffor
I'm with my first girlfriend for two months now. We have a relationship based on trust and dialogue, and it is bliss. However, the more the time passes, the more I want to use my newly discovered self-confidence on other girls. It is purely egoistical, since I only want to know wether many girls find me attractive / a good lover.
I told about it to my girlfriend, of course, and I have no intention to cheat her or to dump her for that. However, this 'lust' for other girls is growing, and my past (unrevealed) crushes are resufacing.
What should I do ? |
Nothing to boost up your ego like an ongoing relationship, and i have to tell you, it happens to most of us.
There are two roads you can take.
a) Dump your girlfriend and go scout
b) Cheat on your girlfriend and go scout.
Of course, when you dump your girlfriend, your girlfriend will be annoyed and dump your ass. And then you'll have no relationship and your newfound ego will go out the window with it because you'll be needy and crap.
But if you cheat on your girlfriend, you will be foundout (for sure) and you will be dumped anyway.
Theres another way to go. If you're constantly wondering what it would it be like to see other people, go ahead. Just be fair to the person you're seeing and tell her so.
Just remember you have to live with the desicions you make, and their consequences.
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SlowwHand
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of The Cooler
Sep 1999
time: 23:27
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Oil Change instructions for Women:
1) Pull up to Jiffy Lube after driving 3000 miles since the last oil
change.
2) Drink a cup of coffee.
3) 15 minutes later write a check and leave with a properly maintained
vehicle.
Money Spent:
Oil Change $20.00
Coffee $1.00
Total $21.00
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Oil Change instructions for Men:
1) Wait until Saturday, drive to auto parts store and buy a case of oil,
filter, kitty litter, hand cleaner and a scented tree, write a check for
$50.00.
2) Stop by 7 - 11 and buy a case of beer, write a check for $20.00, drive
home.
3) Open a beer and drink it.
4) Jack car up. Spend 30 minutes looking for jack stands.
5) Find jack stands under kid's pedal car.
6) In frustration, open another beer and drink it.
7) Place drain pan under engine.
8) Look for 9/16 box end wrench.
9) Give up and use crescent wrench.
10) Unscrew drain plug.
11) Drop drain plug in pan of hot oil: ! splash hot oil on face and arms in
process. Cuss.
12) Crawl out from under car to wipe hot oil off face and arms. Throw kitty
litter on spilled oil.
13) Have another beer while watching oil drain.
14) Spend 30 minutes looking for oil filter wrench.
15) Give up; crawl under car and hammer a screwdriver through oil filter
and twist off.
16) Crawl out from under car with dripping oil filter splashing oil
everywhere from holes. Cleverly hide old oil filter among trash in trash
can to avoid environmental penalties. Drink a beer.
17) Buddy shows up; finish case of beer with him. Decide to finish oil
change tomorrow so you can go see his new garage door opener work.
18) Sunday: Skip church because "I gotta finish the oil change." Drag pan
full of old oil out from underneath car. Cleverly dump oil in hole in back
yard instead of taking it to recycle.
19) Throw kitty litter on oil spilled during step 18.
20) Beer. No, drank it all yesterday.
21) Walk to 7-11; buy beer.
22) Install new! oil filter making sur! e to app ly a thin coat of oil to
gasket surface.
23) Dump first quart of fresh oil into engine.
24) Remember drain plug from step 11.
25) Hurry to find drain plug in drain pan.
26) Remember that the used oil is buried in a hole in the back yard along
with drain plug.
27) Drink beer.
28) Shovel out hole and sift oily mud for drain plug. Re-shovel oily patch
of ground and avoid environmental penalties. Wash drain plug in lawn mower
gas.
29) Discover that first quart of fresh oil is now on the floor. Throw kitty
litter on oil spill.
30) Drink beer.
31) Crawl under car getting kitty litter into eyes. Wipe eyes with oily rag
used to clean drain plug. Slip with stupid crescent wrench tightening drain
plug and bang knuckles on frame.
32) Bang head on floorboards in reaction to step 31.
33) Begin cussing fit.
34) Throw stupid crescent wrench.
35) Cuss for additional 10 minutes because wrench hit Miss August (2002)in
the left boob.
36) Beer.
37) C! lean up hands and forehead and ban dage as required to stop blood
flow.
38) Beer.
39) Beer.
40) Dump in five fresh quarts of oil.
41) Beer.
42) Lower car from jack stands.
43) Accidentally crush remaining case of new motor oil.
44) Move car back to apply more kitty litter to fresh oil spilled during
steps 23-43.
45) Beer.
46) Test drive car.
47) Get pulled over: arrested for driving under the influence.
48) Car gets impounded.
49) Call loving wife, make bail.
50) 12 hours later, get car from impound yard.
Money spent:
Parts $50.00
DUI $2500.00
Impound fee &nbs! p; &! nbsp;&nb sp; $75.00
Bail $1500.00
Beer $40.00
Total-- $4165.00
--You know the job was done and you know the job was done right!
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DaShi
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The Taste of Japan
Sep 2000
time: 05:27
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LTEC!,
It's been two years since we've seen eachother. During that time, she had a big crush on me, but I took a while to warm. By the time we departed, we were both sad to see eachother go, but made no promises. We still kept in contact. One year later she developed a crush on a guy that she never pursued. He did one nice thing for her (gave her an umbrella in the rain) and she thinks that she may be in love with him. She doesn't know much about him or even his name. However, she was scared by her feelings and avoided him for the next year. Now she has seen him again and still feels nervous and excited around him.
I have planned to return to see her. Now she has begun telling me about this other guy and her insecurities. I still like her a lot, so I try to remind her of the times we spent together: I tell her how she didn't give up on me and how beautiful I think she is. However, despite that I tell her that I plan to return to where she is, I have only hinted that we could get back together. I have not asked her directly, but only said things along, "I'm looking forward to seeing you again." The only other thing I've done is sent her an umbrella myself as a gesture of my feelings. I've tried to be very careful about the situation because I don't want to pressure her. I won't be back there until August at the earliest. Is there anymore I can do?
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LTEC!
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...and ICE CREAM!
Feb 2000
time: 21:27
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quote:
Originally posted by DaShi
LTEC!,
It's been two years since we've seen eachother. During that time, she had a big crush on me, but I took a while to warm. By the time we departed, we were both sad to see eachother go, but made no promises. We still kept in contact. One year later she developed a crush on a guy that she never pursued. He did one nice thing for her (gave her an umbrella in the rain) and she thinks that she may be in love with him. She doesn't know much about him or even his name. However, she was scared by her feelings and avoided him for the next year. Now she has seen him again and still feels nervous and excited around him.
I have planned to return to see her. Now she has begun telling me about this other guy and her insecurities. I still like her a lot, so I try to remind her of the times we spent together: I tell her how she didn't give up on me and how beautiful I think she is. However, despite that I tell her that I plan to return to where she is, I have only hinted that we could get back together. I have not asked her directly, but only said things along, "I'm looking forward to seeing you again." The only other thing I've done is sent her an umbrella myself as a gesture of my feelings. I've tried to be very careful about the situation because I don't want to pressure her. I won't be back there until August at the earliest. Is there anymore I can do? |
Besides being yourself? I wouldn't worry too much.
What is happening is that she is in love with the idea of a person she built up in her mind, and that is dangerous only until she really gets to know that person.
Can you love who or what you don't know? Not really. Infatuation, or love at first sight is only a temporary state that is ment to pass once you get to know someone. Some people can back it up, most don't.
This happens in everyday life. You never know who you're going to meet the next second. It might be just someone in passing or the most important person in your life. You would run the same risk of losing a girlfriend whether you're an inch or a 1000 miles away if it is ment to happen.
Only herself is responsible of her feelings, and there's nothing you can do to change them. Maybe when you both meet you'll find that you still care in the same way, or deeper, or not anymore. Its a tossup.
Good luck.
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Zylka
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How can I get my painfully fat husband to TAKE A F*CKING JOG now and again?!?!
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