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Rufus T. Firefly
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is one way of saying it, though I prefer "mensch"
Sep 2000 time: 07:28
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I've spent 15 years teaching university students; I've taught at large American universities (including Shi's), small colleges, and now overseas. And here's one thing I know:
Girls are, quite simply, much much better students than boys. I think the reasons include:
- Girls are socialized in the skills necessary to do well in school: paying attention to authority, sitting still, following rules. The socialization of boys tends to de-emphasize, if not discourage, all of those things. Broadly speaking, girls are taught to succeed within a system, while boys are taught to scorn systems and be "individuals." So if you're looking at success within a system (school), guess who's doing better?
- Girls are raised to be more detail-oriented than boys. One of my favorite stories from WWII is how factory owners fought the entry of women into factory work, only to discover that women were better at it than men; years of learning to sew, cook, and even apply make-up had made them more naturally focused on details than guys are. I find the same is true of students -- and in school as in architecture, God is in the details.
- Girls are raised to assume that, if they fail, it's their own fault and they should try to improve (Think of Cosmo headlines: "20 ways to make him howl in bed!"; "15 tips for a slimmer, trimmer you!" etc.). Boys are raised, I think, to believe that changing is the same as "selling out"; this is one reason that therapy, for example, is considered emasculating. Girls, in my experience, get a "D" on a paper, then come by my office and ask for advice on how to improve it; boys get that "D", feel dissed, and call me a bastard under their breath, and very occassionally to my face. Guess who does better in school?
All that being said, I think the one advantage boys have is that they ar more likely than girls to be taught to "think outside the box." For that reason, while the vast majority of my best students have always been girls, the VERY best students -- say, 8 out of 10 truly great ones in my career so far -- have been boys. But those 8 boys are very lonely (or lucky) faces in a vast sea of girls.
Final point, to Shi: you might want to rethink the concept of the "useful degree." If you take a good look at the world, and a good look at who's running it, it tends to be a bunch of people with so-called useless degrees, at least at the undergraduate level.
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MRT144
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Seattle Washington
Oct 2002 time: 21:28
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shi, just say technical degrees
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Buck Birdseed
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Khoon Ki Pyasi Dayan (1988)
Nov 2000 time: 05:28
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The article misses the point. The boys don't need to be better- what they learn to do is dominate, to have their agenda take up more of the shared time, to feel entitled to recieve more. The quiet, studious girls take the back seat and do extremely well eductaion-wise, but it's the boys - the boys who take up over 90% of classroom discussion time, the boys who're the class clowns and attension seekers, the boys who demand more of the teacher's time - who nevertheless are the ones who eventually succeed.
All of it, of course, enforced by a patriarchy of older men. Girls have been doing better at school for thirty years, but once they reach the workplace do more of them get promoted? Of course not. Their "natural" place is to lean back and be supportive and quiet. The old men promote like, even if not entirely based on sex then on the ability to grab power, to push themselves ahead, to make people pay attention.
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Sikander
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Boulder, Colorado, United Snakes of America
Jan 2000 time: 22:28
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quote: Originally posted by Buck Birdseed
The article misses the point. The boys don't need to be better- what they learn to do is dominate, to have their agenda take up more of the shared time, to feel entitled to recieve more. The quiet, studious girls take the back seat and do extremely well eductaion-wise, but it's the boys - the boys who take up over 90% of classroom discussion time, the boys who're the class clowns and attension seekers, the boys who demand more of the teacher's time - who nevertheless are the ones who eventually succeed.
All of it, of course, enforced by a patriarchy of older men. Girls have been doing better at school for thirty years, but once they reach the workplace do more of them get promoted? Of course not. Their "natural" place is to lean back and be supportive and quiet. The old men promote like, even if not entirely based on sex then on the ability to grab power, to push themselves ahead, to make people pay attention. |
Did you turn in your penis to your Women's Studies professor yet?
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Traianvs
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Belgium, land of plenty (corruption)
Jan 2000 time: 06:28
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I'm not in high school anymore but... it is true that girls do whatever they're told, always do their homework and always write down stuff during class, whereas the boys in my class (it was actually about 18 girls and 6 boys ) never did any of those things, except for one secluded and quiet guy...
It's all about attitude: In the ol' days, in boarding schools etc,.. boys did make their homework and so forth because there was harsh discipline. They were raised with punishment in case of failure to hand in homework, not social guidance or whatever it's called these days...
Well that was the case over here anyway
Girls don't need punishment etc do to their best, it's just the different attitude between girls and boys..
In the end it doesn't matter shite how you do in high school though, for example my teachers always said I wouldn't succeed in anything, and that I should try a less hard degree 
I proved them wrong at uni!!! 
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The Templar
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People's Republic of the East Village
Oct 2001 time: 00:28
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quote: Originally posted by Rufus T. Firefly
I don't think this is true, actually. Engineering salaries tend to start high but level off quickly; they look good when you're 22, but not so good at 40. The opportunity for continually-climbing salaries tends to be on the business side of things; and business leaders, believe it or not, actually prefer liberal arts grads, especially for positions beyond middle-management. |
Thanks for pointing this out. Now a hypothetical - if you were building a society anew, who would you put priority on - engineers or businesspeople? Probably engineers because they do serious intellectual work. Businesspeople merely perform logistic tasks - they work to allocate the resources that engineers, technicians, and the rest of people with actual skills turn into products and services. Unfortunately our society values paper-pushers, aka businesspeople, over the people who actually create society. This is reflected in the fact that given the preeminence of money in our society, the highest salaries go to businessmen.
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The Templar
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People's Republic of the East Village
Oct 2001 time: 00:28
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quote: Originally posted by Imran Siddiqui
That's because the businesspeople decide what the engineers should do . The engineers, by themselves, normally wouldn't be in the right place at the right time if it were for the businessman steering him. As much as we disdain the paper pushers, they definetly are very useful in deciding where to allocate assets more efficiently. |
We will always need someone to do the logistical tasks. I'm saying that our societal priorities are misplaced.
Moreover, we don't need businessmen to make resource allocation choices. Engineers/scientists/doctors/sociologists/artists/etc. are equally capable of making these descisions. In fact, I would argue that experts in the field are more competent to make allocation descisions. In my view, businesspeople should be secondary players who free up the more technical, artistic, and creative types to do their thing. In health care, the doctor should be at the top of the hierarchy with the executive making it happen - freeing the doctor to do medicine, research, whatever. Capitalism is a failure in this respect.
Agathon:
I used to teach philosophy at a university (grad student instructor), and yeah I saw some of the worst writing ever, and even some shoddy reasoning, from science and engineering students. On the flip side, when I was teaching formal logic, I'd get these theatre people who took the course for a math credit - thinking a philsophy course would be less rigorous. Complete dumb@$$es! You are exactly right.
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Agathon
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Leafs 4TW!! - CPA
Dec 2002 time: 00:28
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quote: Originally posted by The Templar
Moreover, we don't need businessmen to make resource allocation choices. Engineers/scientists/doctors/sociologists/artists/etc. are equally capable of making these descisions. In fact, I would argue that experts in the field are more competent to make allocation descisions. In my view, businesspeople should be secondary players who free up the more technical, artistic, and creative types to do their thing. |
I think he's saying that business people aren't necessarily uncreative. Of course there is your average pen pusher. But these people rarely have the intuitive vision to be really successful.
quote: In health care, the doctor should be at the top of the hierarchy with the executive making it happen - freeing the doctor to do medicine, research, whatever. Capitalism is a failure in this respect. |
But all the doctors keep saying that theirs is the most important research. Someone has to make an allocation decision somewhere.
quote: Agathon:
I used to teach philosophy at a university (grad student instructor), and yeah I saw some of the worst writing ever, and even some shoddy reasoning, from science and engineering students. On the flip side, when I was teaching formal logic, I'd get these theatre people who took the course for a math credit - thinking a philsophy course would be less rigorous. Complete dumb@$$es! You are exactly right. |
This is my current job. I have a hundred exams to mark this afternoon. Where were you an instructor?
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