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Ben Kenobi is offline Ben Kenobi
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The modern day Don Quixote

I suppose every one has heard of their favourite man of La Mancha, and his faithful sidekick, Sancho Panza. Do we not all chuckle at the foibles of Don Quixote: tolling at windmills, and even imagining the local inn as a respendent castle, with stone battlements and crenallated ramparts? Do we not all laugh when he expresses his love for his noble lady, a simple peasant serving the inn?

Whereas Don Quixote is the dreamer, what about Panza? He represents the firm realist for whom everything is as it is perceived, that the eye indeed sees the truth. What is a windmill but a windmill or an inn an inn? Nothing can be more than the senses, which after all cannot lie.

This is the most fundamental difference between the prolifer and a prochoicer; the prolifer is a dreamer chained to an ideal, while the prochoicer is a realist, grounded to pragmatism.

Yes, your view is wider, through the perspective of the eyes, but it is far more narrower from the perspective of the soul. Is it not the dreamers who inspire while the realists are exposed? Who would have imagined travelling to the moon, or communicating to anywhere in the world in a matter of seconds? Any who suggested these ideas 200 years ago would have been a dreamer, or worse, a possessed madman.

So as it was, so it is today. Like Don Quixote, prolifers defend ideals that many have forgotten, discarded and rejected. We see the unborn as a living person, equal in dignity and worth to her far more physically substantial mother. We see all persons as intrinsically valuable, regardless of their current capacities. Is that not like Quixote; do we not see what our eyes tell us does not exist?

I just have one more question, to curtail the length of this exposition. If we laugh at Quixote, is not the joke on ourselves? For who does not desire a world of romance, of honour of wonders yet to come? While many hinder Quixote, few reject his views outright. Rather than expressing them with such embarrassing passion, he should restrain himself. We all should dream quietly, as not to offend those with smaller dreams.

"We are the magic makers
And the dreamers of dreams
Wand'ring by lone sea breakers
And sitting by desolate streams

World losers and world forsakers
On whom the pale moon gleams
Yet we are the movers and shakers
Of the world forever it seems."

-Arthur O'Shaughnessy

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Like Don Quixote, prolifers defend ideals that many have forgotten, discarded and rejected.

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Comparison is not an argument.

From this letter, everything that is not empirically grounded is a noble dream that makes the world more beautiful or better. This logic is flawed :

- While the pro-choice movement is more pragmatic than the anti-choicers, both ideas are very grounded into a kind of morals. Pro-choicers believe that life must be as painless as possible, while anti-choicers believe that life must exist no matter what.

- the belief of a different society in the future (and as such the speculations on the future) are completely different with defending different values about a current issue.

Sorry, but it hadn't me convinced at all

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a girl I know has had many many terrible things happen to her in her life, worse than being born disabled or some of the other extreme arguments I have heard from prochiocers

she is happy right now and is glad to be alive, despite the pain she went through

the whole pain thing is a lie, so that prochoicers don't see the truth in their selfishness

Jon Miller

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Is it the selfishness of the prochoicers that causes prolifers to kill doctors who do abortions?

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I fail to see the selfishness in being a prochoicer, except when you consider abortion only when it comes to you personally.

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If the entire argument is about wasting potential life, prolifers should demand people have intercourse as much as possible. After all, the fewer sperm and eggs we waste the better.

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those people are screwed up (and few in prolifer circles)

prochoicers are selfish, for some it is just subconcoiusly

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The "selfish" argument is extraordinarily poor, a sign of a poor position to be sure.

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You need to expans Jon. Saying "prochoiocers are selfish" alone won't make me understand how so, and won't make me see the light

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Could we please use " pro-lifer?

I keep reading it profiler!

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If she'd been killed as a distinct human being without her consent, that would be a problem.

Obiwan - what one would hope to see one's own view of an ideal world, and what one intends to compel others to do by means of state power, are two different things.

I'm opposed to abortion, but I'm also opposed to state power being used to enforce reproductive choices unless there's enough fetal development to realistically assert a protective interest. I personally think that standard (wrt the state's right to impose power) is quite a bit earlier than the Roe v. Wade standard, but not as early as conception. That doesn't mean I favor abortion, or view it as moral. It means I favor limits on the state's ability to impose itself into matters of personal morality.

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the people who I here about getting abortions

get abortions because they don't want a baby screwing up their life

killing someone else so that your life is easier, is selfish

life (especially human life) is special

Jon Miller

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If the entire argument is about wasting potential life, prolifers should demand people have intercourse as much as possible. After all, the fewer sperm and eggs we waste the better.

Yea, Ashie! Beat the living **** out of that strawman!!

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Could we please use " pro-lifer?

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the people who I here about getting abortions

get abortions because they don't want a baby screwing up their life

killing someone else so that your life is easier, is selfish

life (especially human life) is special

Jon Miller

That's interesting, Jon.

So people who use condoms and birth-control pills are also selfish, since they are actively preventing the life in the same way that abortion happens. The difference is, your religion finds it convenient to ignore contraceptives and just concentrate on abortion. The net effect is the same, if you think about it.

Also, have you considered the people who agonized over the decision, but decided that the child could not be provided for adequately? Like a teenage mother who is in school, working to support her family, and in an abusive relationship? Or how about the mothers with HIV? Would you like to give birth to a child with HIV?

If anyone's being selfish, it'd be the people who demand everyone else abide by their beliefs and their morals.

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That's interesting, Jon.

So people who use condoms and birth-control pills are also selfish, since they are actively preventing the life in the same way that abortion happens. The difference is, your religion finds it convenient to ignore contraceptives and just concentrate on abortion. The net effect is the same, if you think about it.

Killing the baby when it pops out has the same net effect, too. Would you advocate that?

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Killing the baby when it pops out has the same net effect, too. Would you advocate that?

Certainly not.

AFAIK, studies have only shown sentient life to appear in the last trimester (or is it 2nd last trimester?)

Whatever, I only support 1st trimester.

Before then, the fetus is more of a giant abscess inside someone. Or a parasite.

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Whatever, I only support 1st trimester.

Then why the **** am I arguing with you? Same.

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Sorry, but it hadn't me convinced at all


A bit of background, this is a copy of a letter I wrote in response to a hostile letter. By the tone of their letter I knew there was no way I would convince them, so this is what I wrote. It's not much of an argument, it's something much different, a comparison, an analogy.

Now what I really want to hear is do people consider the comparison valid? Is there a bit of truth in these words?

MtG

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I'm opposed to abortion, but I'm also opposed to state power being used to enforce reproductive choices,


The situation is quite different in the US than from Canada. In Canada, we have full government support for abortions, abortions are funded by the medical system. In a very real sense, all taxpayers are coerced to fund abortions.

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It means I favor limits on the state's ability to impose itself into matters of personal morality.


Indeed. Does the state stay out of the bedrooms of the nation when it's a child being abused? If not, then why?

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unless there's enough fetal development to realistically assert a protective interest.


That's a curious response. Why the qualifier,
'realistically'? An embryo may look very different from the way we do, but since when have we based personhood on the way things look, and not on what they are?

Tuberski:

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Pro-choicers believe that life must be as painless as possible.


UR:

"Life is pain."

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That's interesting, Jon.

Also, have you considered the people who agonized over the decision, but decided that the child could not be provided for adequately? Like a teenage mother who is in school, working to support her family, and in an abusive relationship? Or how about the mothers with HIV? Would you like to give birth to a child with HIV?


yes

as I said

I know people who have had (especially growing up) terrible lives as a result of their birth (the family they were born into)

but all I know, are glad to be alive

I don't want to go into details (because that is private, between me and them), but stuff so horrid that I wish I could forget

Jon Miller

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The old "values" are those of opression and keeping women "in their place", nothing else.

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The old "values" are those of opression and keeping women "in their place", nothing else.


Seeing as my boss is a woman I fail to see how this applies.

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Ah-ha! You're resentful of women. Clear case of womb envy.

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