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quote: Originally posted by Thorn
I've just figured something out, I'd be more likeable if I started talking to the right people... and avoid the asses... I seem drawn to ass-holes.... dunno why, any ideas? |
We are like mirrors for one another. If you put on an evil mask, that is what others will return to you.
If you paint a smile on like a clown, peope can see it's false, so they treat you falsely.
Best move? Cautious optimism. Sniff around (not litterally - with words, body language, suggestions) how people are behaving. Are they behaving like an arsehole? Are they false? Are they happy?
Once you've got a rough idea, then it's time to make a CONSCIOUS decision. Don't let your reactions handle it - reactions are for emergencies, not everyday chatting.
After a bit of practise you get OK at it. After a while it seems "normal" to be nice, so you get flustered when people are nasty. Practise, practise practise. It's a maze to be "right" all the time - we all make mistakes. The important thing is to learn from them, and try again if we get another chance.
So much time, so little to learn... oh hang on a minute, I got that last line wrong. Tsk tsk.
So little time, so much to learn. It may not seem like it to you - time never stops, it slows down and speeds up.
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Hey You!
Mr Canadian, have you seen some Asher guy?
Im here to chop his limbs off...
Yeah...
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Cruddy
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quote: Originally posted by Thorn
You know I'm going to keep your name in mind whenever I visit canada, and I'm prolly going to beat this **** out of you... unless you appologize for misleading me so maliciously... |
Maybe you WANT to do this - and Asher can be very annoying sometimes.
However, you CAN'T. Face facts. Now what can you do to improve the situation? Not talk? Talk somewhere else? No "right" answers - but plenty to steer clear of.
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Asher, quit this thread now unless you like being embarassed.
Don't say I didn't warn you, because I am. 8itch.
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