24-07-2003 12:35									#1
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I had heard something today by someone who said that viewing pornography is wrong if you are married, or seriously involved with someone.

In a way that is partially true. You are having feelings towards someone else you should be having towards your wife.

though I can't say I agree. but I have never been married, so I can't say for sure.

	24-07-2003 12:41									#2
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I've heard some girls even consider a guy to be unfaithful if he rubs on out by himself every now and then. Isn't that a little insecure? I guy can slack his lizard and still love his wife.

	24-07-2003 12:42									#3
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depends on who he is thinking about when he rubs one out

	24-07-2003 12:46									#4
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WhatEVER. The most annoying thing in the entire WORLD is to have your spouse/partner/sigOtr keep asking "What are you thinking?" every time there's a lull in the conversaton.

Particularly when 'Nothing' is NOT an acceptable response. (I mean, what the he11 else am I supposed to say, especially when it's the TRUTH?!?)

	24-07-2003 12:53									#5
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	24-07-2003 12:55									#6
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quote: Originally posted by st_swithin WhatEVER. The most annoying thing in the entire WORLD is to have your spouse/partner/sigOtr keep asking "What are you thinking?" every time there's a lull in the conversaton. Particularly when 'Nothing' is NOT an acceptable response. (I mean, what the he11 else am I supposed to say, especially when it's the TRUTH?!?)

I hate that. My wife does that all the time. She must think I'm brain dead, since there's nothing going on. What am I supposed to say, I was thinking about the baseball scores while she's talking to me? Please.

	24-07-2003 12:55									#7
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If I caught my bf in bed with another guy.. yeah it would be cheating.. I don't have a problem with porn.. honestly, me and my bf used to trade one or two pics...

	24-07-2003 12:57									#8
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Yeah, depends on the situation. If you watch porn with your mate then no problem. But sneaking around can get you in trouble.

	24-07-2003 12:57									#9
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quote: Originally posted by st_swithin WhatEVER. The most annoying thing in the entire WORLD is to have your spouse/partner/sigOtr keep asking "What are you thinking?" every time there's a lull in the conversaton. Particularly when 'Nothing' is NOT an acceptable response. (I mean, what the he11 else am I supposed to say, especially when it's the TRUTH?!?)

It's even more distracting when you are masturbating to pornography.

	24-07-2003 12:58									#10
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quote: Originally posted by Dissident depends on who he is thinking about when he rubs one out

Why would it matter? It's a fantasy it's not real. How can something which is not real constitute a real transgration?

	24-07-2003 13:03									#11
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Well your fantasy is having sex with that other girl. Maybe you would go one step ahead when there is oppertunity and noone watching?

	24-07-2003 13:04									#12
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well in fact porn helps a little when I had sex with my mate... he and I took some ideas.. lol..

Never mind! Why am I talking about this....

	24-07-2003 13:06									#13
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quote: Originally posted by DanielXY Well your fantasy is having sex with that other girl. Maybe you would go one step ahead when there is oppertunity and noone watching?

Have you seen the guys who post here? This isn't an option for the vast majority.

	24-07-2003 14:35									#15
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So then, what's viewing porn with your wife? Swinging?

	24-07-2003 14:36									#16
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quote: So then, what's viewing porn with your wife? Swinging?

I hope so. Makes a menage-a-trois an achievable goal for me.

	24-07-2003 14:50									#17
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quote: Originally posted by st_swithin WhatEVER. The most annoying thing in the entire WORLD is to have your spouse/partner/sigOtr keep asking "What are you thinking?" every time there's a lull in the conversaton. Particularly when 'Nothing' is NOT an acceptable response. (I mean, what the he11 else am I supposed to say, especially when it's the TRUTH?!?)

I would say nothing but the truth there normally is something like, "oh well, run out of stuff to say might as well have sex."

	24-07-2003 14:58									#18
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quote: Originally posted by Sikander It's even more distracting when you are masturbating to pornography.

	24-07-2003 15:35									#19
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Wieving porn isn't cheating.

Just like thinking about work-related issues during a holiday isn't illegal.

	24-07-2003 15:36									#20
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It should be.

	24-07-2003 19:17									#21
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Dating Rosey Palm and her 5 sisters is with-holding from your girlfriend.
You're a cheater.

	24-07-2003 19:25									#23
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first vote for yes!!

Jon Miller

	24-07-2003 19:31									#24
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Really?

Would whoever voted yes like to defend themselves?

For instance, is it cheating to check out clothed people if you are in a relationship? (something which we all do naturally all the time, there's science to back it up. If so, what's the difference?

What about if they are wearing revealing clothing?

What about if it's a picture that just barely scrapes into what you are allowed to show on 'poly?

Just a bit of nipple OK/not OK?

Is it OK to look as long as you don't touch (yourself)?

	24-07-2003 19:33									#25
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pornography is different than checking out cute girls (clothed or naked)

Jon Miller

	24-07-2003 19:35									#26
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You don't consider naked girls porn?

	24-07-2003 19:36									#27
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I don't know if it would be cheating or not

but I wouldn't do it

Jon Miller

	24-07-2003 19:38									#28
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quote: Originally posted by MikeH You don't consider naked girls porn?

they can be

they don't have to be

(same as clothed girls)

Jon Miller

	24-07-2003 19:39									#29
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You wouldn't look or you wouldn't kill a kitten whilst looking?

	24-07-2003 19:39									#30
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I think pornography can save relationships. It gives you a chance to "be" with someone else without actually cheating. Some people have an obsession with strange and this is a good way to get the demons out.