26-07-2003 10:28									#1
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What are you mf'ers up to tonight?

	26-07-2003 10:29									#2
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I'm angry as hell because my ex is such a *****, but aside from that I'm fine.

	26-07-2003 10:31									#3
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hahaha i've been there

what the hell is her problem?

	26-07-2003 10:34									#4
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You have an ex Inram? Did you breajk up with you grilfriend? Or is thiz another chickk?

	26-07-2003 10:35									#5
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i think it's the one he was with for a long time

no offense but you can do alot better than that siddiqui

	26-07-2003 10:39									#6
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Well she was all pissed off because one of her other friends called her 'manipulative'. She suddenly thought then that ALL her friends thought horrible things about her. So I called her to kinda cheer her up.

She told me that if I really thought good things about her, then why did we break up? Either I had to stop loving her or think less of her. I thought this was silly, so I said some of the mistakes I made at the end of the relationship was because I didn't think in general, not because I thought less of her (remember, I was trying to cheer her up because she was down). Anyway, we got to talking about our relationship and I admitted, that yeah, I took her for granted a few times (not like there is a relationship on Earth where both partners don't take the other person for granted once or twice during it), but I wasn't happy I did it.

So her other friend came back in town today. I guess something bad happened because she was pissed off online and didn't care about what her other friend thought. So during it she said 'I mean this in the nicest way possible, I'm too tired and angry to talk to you right now'. So I asked if I was to blame for her being angry (I said after she told me, I'd leave her alone).

She got all pissed, and wouldn't answer. She said I have no right to demand anything from her because 'I took her for granted and walked all over her' (huh, when did I say that?!). She was willing to work on still being friends (instead of still willing to BE friends?) but I have to leave her alone tonight.

What a *****. I mean, really, if she wants to be my friend, she can't go off like this.

I'd totally write her off right now, except she is supposed to drop of the rent for me (next week) and pick up my mail from time to time while I'm away for the summer... so I've been being nice and having her as my friend as all.

I think I might not be as good friends with her when I get back though. If this is the way she wants to treat me, then I don't need her as a friend or this ****!

	26-07-2003 10:40									#7
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Same, Drake.

quote: no offense but you can do alot better than that siddiqui

Looks wise? Or just personal wise?

Because I think I'd agree on both counts.

	26-07-2003 10:41									#8
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You are all boring Brenton!

	26-07-2003 10:42									#9
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quote: Same, Drake.

Sorry to hear that.

Ted is right, though, you can do a lot better.

	26-07-2003 10:42									#10
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i thought she dumped you ?

you dumped her ?

	26-07-2003 10:42									#11
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that's kinda wack though that you are keeping her around as a friend just to pay your rent and watch the place though

	26-07-2003 10:43									#12
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Yeah, I think I can. She can be nice at times... but I know now that she isn't a very nice person. She has only a few friends, and now she's convinced that most of them think bad things about her. Well the way she acts is that any surprise?

	26-07-2003 10:44									#13
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Brenton - I **** goats!

Are you not entertained?!?

	26-07-2003 10:44									#14
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quote: that's kinda wack though that you are keeping her around as a friend just to pay your rent and watch the place though

No it wasn't like that at all. I wanted to keep her around as a friend to be friends, because we were best friends before, and she was pretty cool then. But now, more and more, I'm thinking I'd rather just keep her as a friend to do these things for me... because she's progressively been a ***** this summer.

	26-07-2003 10:44									#15
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quote: Originally posted by Imran Siddiqui I think I might not be as good friends with her when I get back though. If this is the way she wants to treat me, then I don't need her as a friend or this ****!

Ever had a shitty day? My guess is she's just unloading on you at the moment. Ain't no thang, unless it gets under your skin because some element of it is close to home.

Don't attach that much importance to it. Going from being together, to being friends after the breakup, ain't a smooth process.

	26-07-2003 10:45									#16
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I finally watched shakespeare in love, after being one of three drunk people out of 10 at a friends house...good thing was he was too...

now i'm sober and typing on apolyton...yeah

	26-07-2003 10:46									#17
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ted doesn't do the post relationship friends thing

i cut that **** off period

	26-07-2003 10:47									#18
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The whole "let's stay friends" thing never works out, Imran. Keep her around to get your mail, but don't lose any sleep over not being friendly with her anymore. It's inevitable.

	26-07-2003 10:47									#19
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quote: Originally posted by The Emperor Fabulous I finally watched shakespeare in love, after being one of three drunk people out of 10 at a friends house...good thing was he was too... now i'm sober and typing on apolyton...yeah

how was it?

	26-07-2003 10:49									#20
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quote: Originally posted by Imran Siddiqui quote: that's kinda wack though that you are keeping her around as a friend just to pay your rent and watch the place though No it wasn't like that at all. I wanted to keep her around as a friend to be friends, because we were best friends before, and she was pretty cool then. But now, more and more, I'm thinking I'd rather just keep her as a friend to do these things for me... because she's progressively been a ***** this summer.

alright then.

but I like what drake said

I have a friend who LITERALLY has been friend with this girl he broke up with for 10 FREAKIING YEARS. NEITHER ONE OF THEM has had a girlfriend or boyfriend since then because they have never really moved on.

It's the most wack situation I've ever seen.

	26-07-2003 10:49									#21
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quote: i thought she dumped you ? you dumped her ?

She dumped me... but of course, blames everything on me.

quote: Ever had a shitty day? My guess is she's just unloading on you at the moment. Ain't no thang, unless it gets under your skin because some element of it is close to home. Don't attach that much importance to it. Going from being together, to being friends after the breakup, ain't a smooth process.

True that, but I was just trying to help. I've been trying all summer, with varied success. Sometimes it's been really good and sometimes very bad. Even if she had a shitty day, I don't think it was very fair to unload on me when she really didn't want to be alone, she just didn't want to talk to me (otherwise why come on Instant Messenger?).

	26-07-2003 10:50									#22
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it was really really good

written by tom stoppard, perhaps the greatest play/screenwriter since Billy himself

	26-07-2003 10:50									#23
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quote: I have a friend who LITERALLY has been friend with this girl he broke up with for 10 FREAKIING YEARS. NEITHER ONE OF THEM has had a girlfriend or boyfriend since then because they have never really moved on. It's the most wack situation I've ever seen.

Wow, that's not just wack. That's wiggity-wiggity wack.

Boi.

	26-07-2003 10:51									#24
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quote: Originally posted by Imran Siddiqui quote: i thought she dumped you ? you dumped her ? She dumped me... but of course, blames everything on me.

that sucks dog

sounds like you are doing the right thing in putting some distance there

do you want to make a completel break or do you still love her too much?

	26-07-2003 10:52									#25
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Thanks guys . I'm starting to agree with you more and more as the summer rolls along.

It just pisses me off, especially because I was TOTALLY truthful with her, saying stuff I never would have said because I wanted to tell her for her sake, and she flips out... no gratitude.... Hell, that kinda is what happened during the relationship (no gratitude) .

Don't worry Drake... I'll move on! One of my other friends just got a house (instead of an apartment) and I'm going to make use of it often during the drunken parties .

	26-07-2003 10:52									#26
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I saw half an hour of Jackie Chan's Accidental Spy today... i turned it off after a woman approached jackie chan saying, "I'm an american reporter from US inquirer monthly"

that movie was done after that...

	26-07-2003 10:52									#27
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quote: Originally posted by Imran Siddiqui True that, but I was just trying to help. I've been trying all summer, with varied success. Sometimes it's been really good and sometimes very bad. Even if she had a shitty day, I don't think it was very fair to unload on me when she really didn't want to be alone, she just didn't want to talk to me (otherwise why come on Instant Messenger?).

Remember that bit from "White Men Can't Jump" about being thirsty and the glass of water?

Keep some distance for a while and let her initiate if she wants to talk.

	26-07-2003 10:53									#28
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quote: do you want to make a completel break or do you still love her too much?

I didn't want to before. I mean, I thought we could still be friendly, hang out once in a while, be civil to each other.

Now, not so sure.

Still Love her, but, now, so what?

	26-07-2003 10:54									#29
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quote: Originally posted by Imran Siddiqui True that, but I was just trying to help. I've been trying all summer, with varied success. Sometimes it's been really good and sometimes very bad. Even if she had a shitty day, I don't think it was very fair to unload on me when she really didn't want to be alone, she just didn't want to talk to me (otherwise why come on Instant Messenger?).

Yo I know you probably already know this, but don't put it on yourself to take responsibility for the way someone else feels. Sometimes if they are being jackasses just let them be a jackass and go about your business.

Sorry man I am not talking down to you just trying to share some sh1t I've learned over the years.

	26-07-2003 10:54									#30
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quote: I've been trying all summer, with varied success. Sometimes it's been really good and sometimes very bad. Even if she had a shitty day, I don't think it was very fair to unload on me when she really didn't want to be alone, she just didn't want to talk to me (otherwise why come on Instant Messenger?).

It's nice that you're trying to help her out, but watch your step. You don't want to end up as the gay friend, believe me. There's nothing worse than being the gay friend once she goes out on the prowl again.