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korn469
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Poetic Justic
Apr 1999 time: 00:30
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SlowwHand
My opinions about abortion come from first hand experience (one of close friends got an abortion) and rational thought about it.
I think that abortion is in most cases a traumatic event for the woman who had it. I think that abortion is the last, and poorest choice for family planning, which usually results from a lack of planning. I don't see abortion as a good thing, and in a perfect world there wouldn't be any need for it. However, as bad as abortion is, I think that it is better than the alternative, which is to ban abortion, which would in turn criminalize it.
One reason that we have so many abortions is that birth control is still a fairly undeveloped field. Condoms have existed for hundreds, if not thousands of years. They are not 100% effective, and they have a number of drawbacks that cause people not to use them. The birth control pill has been around for about 50 years and has a number of side effects, and it is easy to forget to take the pills at the right time. In fact about the highest effective rate is 98 or 99% effective for any current birth control method, and they all either have disadvantages.
here's a list
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/bc/cchoices.html
something to think about is that sterilization is the most popular form of birth control in America
Another reason is that children are hella expensive! The USDA says it will be around 190,000 dollars. So that is over 10,000 dollars per year, per child. Then there is the cost in terms of time, effort, oppertunity cost, etc. Children are a major undertaking
http://aol1.bankrate.com/aol/calc/raiseChild.asp
Then you have social mores that look down on single moms, unwilling fathers who refuse to help, families living barely within in their means (i've heard that married women in their late 20's-early 30's get more abortions than anybody else, maybe somebody could check this for me), career aspirations, etc.
All of that adds up to a number of reasons why a person wouldn't want a child. Then some people simply don't want children, and some people aren't capable of taking care of them (drug addicts come to mind here). All of that present a number of realities for me on why there is a need for abortion.
If I lived in a better world there would be a third approach to abortion that finds a new path between the prochoice, and prolife sides. A side that recognizes that prochoice is needed, but only as a stop gap measure until society no longer needs abortion. It would focus on better forms of birth control, changes to society that would make it easier to raise children in, easier adoption, along with a number of other changes. I would like to see abortions drop to zero, and hopefully it will one day. However, I'm not in favor of locking up women who feel they don't have any other choice than to get an abortion, or subjecting them to illegal unsafe methods of abortion. To me that is worse than the abortion itself.
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