29-09-2003 20:08									#91
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quote: Welcome to korean romance Waaay different expectations, especially when they start pushing 30 (I believe the word for someone who is more than a year or two past 30 and unmarried translates to roughly "unmarryable"). You get things like one of my students going through 49 blind dates to find his wife, you can't look at this seem through a western perspective or things look a lot creepier than they seem to both participants.

plenty of good movies with that subject.
try "marriage is a crazy thing (crazy marriage)", or "i wish i had a wife too...".
the first one is definitely rated r, though. definitely.

	29-09-2003 20:09									#92
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quote: Originally posted by Alinestra Covelia I had another question for all you guys out there. Does it matter if you're not her first?

Wouldn't make a difference to me. A bit of experience would likely make her better in the sack. In fact I'd probably prefer it if she'd been with someone else. Having said that .. there is a limit. Noboy wants to go out with a slut.

Me and my g/f were both virgins the first time we were "together" so neither of us knew just how crap the sex was at the time. Learning how to do it right and experimenting with someone has sure been fun, but if we ever split up and I got together with another girl I'd prefer it if she'd had a partner or two (but not 10 or 15) in the past.

	29-09-2003 20:12									#93
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I maintain that counting cycles is too weird. If you suggest making things more serious, and she declines by making it clear that she can't at the moment then that's fine - you just have to wait. But to stalk her so that you know when her cycles are is too damned freaky! It's not the sort of thing that you might overhear her saying on the bus now is it?

To prove how good they are, I'd just like to pre-emptively cancel Sonic Undermind gigs at my house, my local and my workplace! Though if they're up for noodles than they're welcome round! When you're on your next tour perhaps.

	29-09-2003 20:16									#94
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quote: It's not the sort of thing that you might overhear her saying on the bus now is it?

Yes.

	29-09-2003 20:20									#95
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quote: Originally posted by Alinestra Covelia I had another question for all you guys out there. Does it matter if you're not her first?

Yes. Who wants to have sex with a virgin? They have no idea what they're doing.

	29-09-2003 20:20									#96
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So you were stalking her!

She wouldn't say it, even to her mates, if she knew you were there! Eating noodles.

	29-09-2003 20:21									#97
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I heard a couple of girls (14-16) having a sickeningly graphic discussion about their periods on the bus once, actually. The words "flow" and "soaked" plus the phrase "on the blob" featured several times. Charming young ladies there were.

	29-09-2003 20:23									#98
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quote: Originally posted by duke o' york She wouldn't say it, even to her mates, if she knew you were there! Eating noodles.

Depends on the girls.

	29-09-2003 20:28									#99
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But wouldn't you then think "Charming young ladies" and make your excuses. If you were to pursue such a creatively descriptive type then it may well be you she'd discuss with her mates on future bus journies. I don't know about you, but that would get my noodles in a twist.

	29-09-2003 20:29									#100
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quote: Originally posted by Alinestra Covelia I had another question for all you guys out there. Does it matter if you're not her first?

First what?

First boyfriend? Preferably not. First murder victim? Definitely not. The person to keep her "first night?" Doesn't matter to me, but SO insists that it will have to wait until after marriage.

	29-09-2003 20:29									#101
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One of my exes was a generally really nice guy all round but he liked a few weird things. I'm not sure how I'd go about describing this on a public forum, but suffice it to say that he liked to earn his Red Wings by dining out at the Lazy "Y" when the painters were in redecorating, and his favorite dish was the tuna taco with cranberry relish. Usually when he'd finished, he'd actually try to kiss me afterwards but the prospect of getting a faceful of pasata grin or Mexican lipstick after a bout of crimson tide was just too sickening for words.

It made me want to call Huey, it did.

	29-09-2003 20:33									#102
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You know, that's one of those things that you really didn't need to share with us.

	29-09-2003 20:33									#103
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quote: Originally posted by duke o' york But wouldn't you then think "Charming young ladies" and make your excuses. If you were to pursue such a creatively descriptive type then it may well be you she'd discuss with her mates on future bus journies. I don't know about you, but that would get my noodles in a twist.

I know some charming young ladies who don't feel it's wrong to discuss having "the scratchy beavers in".

	29-09-2003 20:34									#104
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quote: Originally posted by Alinestra Covelia I had another question for all you guys out there. Does it matter if you're not her first?

Nah, inexperience can be downright painful at times...
*shudders*

	29-09-2003 20:34									#105
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Ali:

Oh. My. God.

I don't know whether to vomit or applaud you for such a masterful description. I'd do both only I think I'd get spew all over my hands.

"tuna taco with cranberry relish". ****ing genius! (although gross)

	29-09-2003 20:37									#106
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It would appear that Sonic Undermind have only the best selection of groupies.

	29-09-2003 20:39									#107
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We wish.

	29-09-2003 20:42									#108
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The groupies do at least have the good grace to appear in photographs hugging a certain rhythm guitarist so that said guitarist can show the picture to his geekoid mates in the hope that they'll assume he got to **** her as well.

	29-09-2003 20:44									#109
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FP, there's only one g in hug and I doubt that you needed to star it out - it wouldn't have been censored.

	29-09-2003 20:44									#110
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I never posted that picture without qualification that nothing of the sort happened.

	29-09-2003 20:50									#111
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quote: Originally posted by Alinestra Covelia I had another question for all you guys out there. Does it matter if you're not her first?

You mean if the guy isn't a virgin but the girl is? Well, it depends. If you dating a deeply religious girl then yes that could cause big problems since religious people aren't supposed to have sex until they are married. For most normal people I just don't see the guy getting upset about it. In fact I'd bet most guys would really like it if they were the only guy his fiance had ever been with.

	29-09-2003 20:56									#112
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quote: Originally posted by chegitz guevara Yes. Who wants to have sex with a virgin? They have no idea what they're doing.

There is the problem of her being a starfish (i.e. just lays there doing nothing) but on the upside you get to break her in and train her just the way you like it.

	29-09-2003 20:56									#113
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If she hasn't been with anyone else then how can she tell you you are better than they were?

	29-09-2003 21:02									#114
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True, true. Of course she's also not lieing when she tells you your the best she ever hap\d.

	29-09-2003 21:11									#115
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Definitely not, and I'm not lying when I say that it's all down to her because she's so hot.

	29-09-2003 21:13									#116
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Pictures? We'll need proof to verify your claim.

	29-09-2003 21:14									#117
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I thought this was a theoretical discussion. And no way.

	29-09-2003 21:23									#118
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Okay, clarification.

Guys:

Does it matter to you that the girl you're about to sleep with is, or is not, a virgin? If it does, then do you prefer to sleep with a girl who has already had sex, or not?

There we go.

	29-09-2003 21:25									#119
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quote: Originally posted by Oerdin I'd bet most guys would really like it if they were the only guy his fiance had ever been with.

Most guys are idiots. Sex with someone who nkows what she's doing is infinately better than with someone who doesn't. Trust me.

	29-09-2003 22:08									#120
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you know, i honestly don't care if i'm not her first.

as long as she and i are as one, then it's fine by me, so long as neither of us stray.

then again, i've only been with one, and she and i have been together for years, so...

and since we were each other's firsts, so it was a tabula rasa situation: we've kinda learned each other's, ah, desires.