05-10-2003 21:20									#1
	Are quarrels bad or good for a relationship? Inflate your Upload Space

Some people I know assert that they never quarrel with their other half.

Is this good or bad for a relationship?

	05-10-2003 21:21									#2
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Good if both learn from them IŽd say.

	05-10-2003 21:24									#3
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Is that from personal experience BeBro?

So it is good not to have quarrels? Since it is inevitable to have conflicts, I'd thought quarrels are like safety valves.

	05-10-2003 21:25									#4
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Unfortunately, yes.

	05-10-2003 21:26									#5
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No, if all they can do is scream. Yes, if they can both listen to each other.

	05-10-2003 21:45									#6
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No quarrels means either no involvement or one member allways ending up drawing the short end of any deal, leaving a lot of frustration.

	05-10-2003 21:46									#7
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yes, or to be more precise, testing times are good for relationships. If they're for good, they'll last, if they'll collapse, did you really want it in the first place?

This is nice in theory, of course. Reality is quite different.

	05-10-2003 21:48									#8
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It's all about how they're fought, how they're resolved, and what they're about. In general, when they aren't screaming affairs in which truly hurtful things are said, there is satisfactory resolution, and they aren't about nitpicky details, they can really strengthen a relationship. Otherwise, I think they serve as a demonstration of why that couple shouldn't be together.

	05-10-2003 21:49									#9
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quote: Originally posted by Osweld No, if all they can do is scream. Yes, if they can both listen to each other.

	05-10-2003 21:51									#10
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Never listen, just pretend, remember they are trying to brainwash you

	05-10-2003 21:53									#11
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Are relationships without fights and quarrels less passionate, or is it just a matter of characters of the persons involved?

	05-10-2003 22:20									#12
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too many is bad, but too few is as well.

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matter of charaters. my gf and i don't have many fights, and usually whatever ones we do have aren't anything that lasts a long time.

	05-10-2003 23:05									#14
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Question is pointless, since all relationships will have quarrels.

	06-10-2003 00:11									#15
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they can be good or bad

if both sides are just talking at each other, bad

if each person is willing to compromise and help the other get what they want, good

	06-10-2003 00:15									#16
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Been with my wife nearly 12 years, married for 7 of those. We've never quarreled.

If you think that's unusual, my parents have never quarreled in 40 years together. Assuming there are quarrels in every marriage is a fallacy.

	06-10-2003 00:25									#17
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good example laz

	06-10-2003 02:23									#18
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Quarrels are bad. Discussions are good.

	06-10-2003 02:57									#19
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Are squirrels good or bad for a relationship?

	06-10-2003 03:30									#20
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They may come useful at bed

	06-10-2003 03:35									#21
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But gerbils are prefered.

	06-10-2003 03:41									#22
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Why do you think a country famous for tentacle porn rapes created Hamtaro?

	06-10-2003 03:51									#23
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UR, with all these threads you've started these last few days, are you trying to tell us something??

And btw, Laz may be lucky but quarreling is perfectly healthy

	06-10-2003 03:55									#24
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What are your definitions of quarrels?

I can't imagine myself getting into a quarrel... I'm too mellow.

	06-10-2003 04:20									#25
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Quarrels are normal, but they don't have to be. If you pay attention to each other, stick to your committments, and talk things out before potential problems arise, then you should have quarrels. For those of us in the real world, however, there are going to be times when we aren't perfect and things blow up. Just try not to be hurtful and work to resolve, not win.

	06-10-2003 05:43									#26
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Quarrels are AWFUL! They mean that the wife hasn't accepted God's sovereign ordainment of her husband as her superior. She should shut up and obey, and the relationship would be perfect. Even in dating, before marriage, a woman should understand what her role should be. If she argues with her husband, she disgraces herself.

Husbands should love their wife/s, but be firm when the wife/s start to complain.

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I sincerely hope that was a joke, because it was funny.

	06-10-2003 06:02									#28
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quote: Originally posted by Hueij UR, with all these threads you've started these last few days, are you trying to tell us something??

Yeah what's going on man?

	06-10-2003 06:04									#29
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Who wants to start a pool on a "my friend wants to know about penis enlargement" thread?

	06-10-2003 06:04									#30
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quote: Originally posted by FrustratedPoet Are squirrels good or bad for a relationship?

As if the question needed asking....