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st_swithin
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10069
Nov 2002 time: 05:31
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I just got one of those 'something to think about' quotes that says "Death is nature's way of saying howdy."
Nature sucks.
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JohnT

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Capitalist
Mar 1999 time: 00:31
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quote: There's death everyday, so I don't mean that kind of death. I mean deaths that are very close to you. By this I don't even mean a relative etc.. I mean you, yourself. How do you feel about that? Yes, we are all going to die, so are you and me. |
I deal with it precisely the way your last sentence implies.
Everybody is going to die, myself included. Why worry about something that is inevitable and unsolvable? I'm kind of like that with childrearing - billions of other couples have successfully raised children, why should I expect myself to be any different?
The big issue, as far as I'm concern, is what are you going to do with the time you have, and more importantly (to use a business analogy here), what are your balance of accounts going to look like when you die?
Did you give more love or take it? Did you create more wealth or destroy it? Did you spread happiness or angst? Were you wasteful or a spendthrift? Of the people you know, have their lives been enriched by your existence or impoverished by it?
Sorry if all I did was answer your question with seemingly more questions, but imho the big fear one should have is not death but the possibility of spending ones life in unhappiness, fear, and anger, and forcing others to do the same by sheer dint of personality and repetition.
Death is easy, it's life that is hard. Worry about that instead. 
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st_swithin
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10069
Nov 2002 time: 05:31
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"This controversy began in 1974 when two Princeton economists created a model to forecast suicidal decisions."
Hey, what a coinkidink - my parents were Princeton economists, and I began in 1974 too! Maybe I'm up for a promotion!! I've been a model employee.
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Jethro83
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Newcastle, Australia
Mar 2002 time: 15:31
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In terms of my own death, I would be lying if I said I had no fear of death at all.
However, I face that fear with the realisation that death is just the completion of a cycle.
I simply strive to be the best person I can be, striving for a life where I make the most of my time, and can look back when I'm on my deathbed and have no major regrets.
Maybe the dead have a heaven or hell to look forward to. Maybe the dead only face oblivion, a complete end to their existance. Maybe there is rebirth or reincarnation to start the cycle over again (I personally believe in rebirth)
As for the death of family, friends or even of a person I simply knew within my community, I also face that with the realisation that death is the completion of a cycle.
I also foster the hope that the cycle will begin again for them in rebirth. And that when they are reborn, they'll have things better than their previous life.
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