19-11-2003 12:27									#1
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Ok, I am a white guy who is marrying a Chinese girl.

Lately I have noticed an increase of this mix. Is there any specific reason why this has happened?

	19-11-2003 12:34									#2
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Congratulations!

White culture seems to idealize Asian women. I'm not really sure where it comes from though.

	19-11-2003 12:35									#3
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I have no idea what it's like in New Zealand.

but this is fairly common in the southwestern U.S.

now asian men and white women is more uncommon, but not unheard of.

	19-11-2003 12:35									#4
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quote: Originally posted by Jaguar Warrior Congratulations! White culture seems to idealize Asian women. I'm not really sure where it comes from though.

because Asian women aren't all *****es like american women

	19-11-2003 12:39									#5
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I'll just listen to your sig Dissident.

	19-11-2003 12:40									#6
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White men stealing Asian women disgusts me.

	19-11-2003 12:41									#7
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Actually, there are a few things I have noticed in my very seemingly short 24 yr life.

And that is that white girls are turning into naieve sluts, who are now more wrong than men are.

Asian girls are just as slutty, but at least there are an equal opposite amount of asian girls around.

And of course, white guys preferring asian girls - probably because of the 1st reason!

	19-11-2003 12:43									#8
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I didn't steal her! we were friends for 6 years first!

We m e r g e d, neither of us said "I'll take him/her"

	19-11-2003 13:04									#9
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quote: White men stealing Asian women disgusts me

get used to it, ever wonder why Ive begun to use Shu Qi as my avatar?

	19-11-2003 13:06									#10
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quote: Originally posted by Dissident because Asian women aren't all *****es like american women

haha, but asian american women are!

	19-11-2003 13:22									#11
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Nice to see a thread with lots of enlightened comments.

	19-11-2003 13:48									#12
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quote: White men stealing Asian women disgusts me.

If this is a serious comment, than you are a complete idiot.

	19-11-2003 13:53									#13
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quote: If this is a serious comment, than you are a complete idiot.

yeah! no, wait the white women should be upset about the asian women stealing thier men. no wait, white women have black guys, so the black women should be pissed about it, no wait the black guys are such pimps that they can do both white and black, so that leaves the asian guy pissed at the black guy but he can do anything about it because all of those years of programming have made the asian a skiiny nerd compared to the black guy who has spent his life picking cotton and milking the cows. Where does that leave the Slavs? To themselves of course.

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quote: because all of those years of programming have made the asian a skiiny nerd

you should see the movie Better Luck Tomorrow

	19-11-2003 14:12									#15
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quote: you should see the movie Better Luck Tomorrow

you should see Diss's Sig

	19-11-2003 14:26									#16
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quote: Originally posted by Sn00py Ok, I am a white guy who is marrying a Chinese girl. Lately I have noticed an increase of this mix. Is there any specific reason why this has happened?

Congrats!

This stuff is pretty old news in Canada. One of my grandmothers was English (she was with an Asian guy back in the 30s). About half my C-C relatives are married to whites or blacks.

You probably just notice it now cause your wife-to-be is Asian.

The big plus for white-asian marriages is that Eurasians are smarter and better looking than most.

	19-11-2003 16:06									#17
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quote: Lately I have noticed an increase of this mix. Is there any specific reason why this has happened?

Because its often a damn good mix?

<--- s his korean gf silly...

quote: the white women should be upset about the asian women stealing thier men

The flames wars about this issue on the Korean ex-pat forum make for great reading. The females get a bitter and angry from too many men gushing about Korean women and then accusations of yellow fever start flying and I reach for the popcorn.

quote: Where does that leave the Slavs? To themselves of course.

Of course not, there's insane number of russian "dancers" all over East Asia. I don't know were this leaves slav men though.

quote: The big plus for white-asian marriages is that Eurasians are smarter and better looking than most.

Well all of the Eurasian women I've known have been more attractive than average while all the Eurasian men I've known have been less attractive than average.

	19-11-2003 16:14									#18
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I came to China to secret smuggle all the asian women out. I still expect it'll take about 5 years after I've finished before they notice. Vietnam, you're next.

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quote: The big plus for white-asian marriages is that Eurasians are smarter and better looking than most.

Ha! You wish! East Med, G!

	19-11-2003 17:31									#20
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Im married to an Indian girl (Im white English) .. and our daughter is a wonderful mix.

There are still some people who have the old attitude of "different Kinds".. Both white and Indian.

Personally, humans are humans, and the sooner people stop thinking that the colour of your skin makes you a completely different kind .. the better ..

There are always cultural issue's to be considered, but personality always is a much stronger issue.

Can't say ive seen more Indian/English mixes here since ive married, but im sure as time goes on it will increase.

I think I read somewhere that by 2100ad, white people will be almost extinct (using a "kind" metaphore ) .. don't have any link for that though.

do I care ?? Not a bit.

	19-11-2003 17:42									#21
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quote: The flames wars about this issue on the Korean ex-pat forum make for great reading. The females get a bitter and angry from too many men gushing about Korean women and then accusations of yellow fever start flying and I reach for the popcorn.

I was just being sarcastic, but nonetheless.

Link?

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quote: I think I read somewhere that by 2100ad, white people will be almost extinct (using a "kind" metaphore ) .. don't have any link for that though. do I care ?? Not a bit.

Depends on how do you define 'white'. Am I 'white'? ( for the people who saw me )

I do like white girls. I think they look nice.

Plus, BLONDS!!!

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Congrats Snoopy!

	19-11-2003 18:21									#24
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quote: I do like white girls. I think they look nice. Plus, BLONDS!!!

I dont know whay but over the years (all 17 of them) Ive become less and less attracted to white women, they just don't have the same appeal as an Asian/Pacific Islander or Indian (either Ameircan or Asian)

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quote: Originally posted by Space05us I was just being sarcastic, but nonetheless. Link?

The best ones got killed by the mods but here's a couple that are at least passable:

http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/korea...opic.php?t=4410
http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/korea...opic.php?t=7237
http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/korea...opic.php?t=2121

but, of course, nothing could possibly match the glory of this thread:
http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/korea...der=asc&start=0

	19-11-2003 18:33									#26
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that makes one of us. Personally, I don't place good looks and any particular ethnicity together ( I do, however, find it hard to be atracted to girls that are extremely pale or extremely dark, for some reason, pro'ly has something to do with visual contrast, and stuff like that)

However it's nice to have a wide variety of choices and looks.

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quote: -A guy who slept on the office sofa because his filipina wife would beat the crap out of him on a monthly basis.

ouch it hurts!!!!!!! How can a Filipino woman beat the crap out of anything!!?? They're all so small.

	19-11-2003 18:39									#28
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you haven't hit the best stuff yet, not even close

	19-11-2003 18:44									#29
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congrats, sn00py!

quote: White culture seems to idealize Asian women. I'm not really sure where it comes from though.

the harshest explanation?
it stems from this notion that asian women are exotic, submissive, kinky, sensual, a sexual, willing to be the ****toys of any white man, while asian men are neutered and andyrogenous, asexual beings.
you have two stereotypes of the asian woman: the submissive sexual slave, and the domineering dragon-lady.

so when a non-asian guy gushes on and on about how great asian women are, how is one able to tell when it's yellow fever or not?
one isn't always. that's the problem.

what's worse is that the girls are then always asking themselves whether the guy likes her for who she is, or because a genetic lottery placed her in the best ethnic group period.

'course, i tend to take a stance of giving the guy the benefit of the doubt; i think mixed marriages can work, and i've been steady with a white girl for years now, so, it's possible... but yellow fever is something most asians and americans of asian extraction are very wary of, and it's hard to completely ignore the tiny little voice in the back of the head...

	19-11-2003 18:47									#30
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White ones, black ones, brown ones, yellow ones. Makes no difference to me.