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DRoseDARs
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"My god, it's full of peas..."
Jul 2002
time: 21:32
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http://www.planetout.com/pno/news/a...te=2003/12/01/4
Boy says mom is gay; school rebukes him
Ann Rostow, Gay.com / PlanetOut.com Network
Monday, December 1, 2003 / 05:33 PM
In an extraordinary case of discrimination by public school officials, a 7-year-old Louisiana boy was scolded by his teacher, sent to the principal's office and required to attend a discipline session after he told a classmate his mother was gay.
According to the American Civil Liberties Union, Marcus McLaurin was in line for recess on Nov. 11, when a classmate asked about his parents. Marcus explained that he had two mothers, because his mother was gay. When asked what that meant, the boy replied "gay is when a girl likes another girl."
Later that day, Marcus' mother, Sharon Huff, was concerned after receiving a call from the assistant principal, who informed her that Marcus was in trouble for using a word so bad that it couldn't be repeated over the phone. But her concern, Huff said, "was nothing compared to the shock I felt when my little boy came home and told me that his teacher had told him his family is a dirty word."
Marcus came home with a "Student Behavior Contract" for his mother's signature, where he had been obliged to detail his transgression. "I sed bad wurds," wrote the second-grader under the heading, "What I did." Under "What I should have done," Marcus wrote: "Cep my mouf shut."
At the top, teacher Terry L. Bethea wrote: "He explained to another child that you are gay (underlined twice), and what gay means."
On a separate form for the Louisiana Department of Education, Bethea said Marcus "told the other child that gay is when a girl likes a girl. This kind of discussion is not acceptable in my room," she continued. "I feel that parents should explain things of this nature to their own children in their own way."
Marcus's final humiliation came during a one-hour "behavior clinic," where he was obliged to write repeatedly: "I will never use the word 'gay' in school again," the ACLU reports.
"At the ACLU, we often deal with schools that mistreat gay children and children who have gay parents," said the ACLU's Ken Choe in a press release. "But this is beyond the pale."
On Monday, the ACLU sent a letter to Virginia Bonvillain, principal of Ernest Gallet Elementary School in Youngsville, demanding that Marcus's disciplinary record be expunged, and that officials apologize to the boy and his mother. Further, the ACLU asked for "assurances that (school officials) will neither engage in such censorship and discrimination in the future, nor retaliate against either Marcus or Ms. Huff."
"To tell a 7-year-old boy that he can't talk about his family not only makes that child feel confused and hurt," said Choe, "it violates his constitutional right to free speech and equal treatment."
Although the ACLU told Principal Bonvillain that it seeks "to work with you to resolve this matter without resort to litigation," the cases cited in the ACLU's letter suggest that the law is on Marcus' side.
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It's one thing to attack an adult for their lifestyle, but to approach a child in this manner, no matter how lightly, without conferring with the parent(s) first? Wow.
"Cep my mouf shut."
A lesson in social discourse that will stay with him, for better or for worse, for a long time... 
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Comrade Tassadar
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And which side are you on Ned?
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Enigma_Nova
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Pssht crazy Louisiana
These crazy folk don't seem to understand morals all that well... nor child psychology.
"Kept my mouth shut"?
In any given circumstance I would attack those that think they know better for me than I know for myself, and attack those that try to prevent me from doing what I see as best.
Then again a 6 year old with the literary skills of a 1.5 year old (Can't spell 'mouth') probably does not deserve to have their thoughts represented...
Silence demands vengeance. Let the principal be fired, and the gateway to alternative ideas opened.
Bad move on the part of the Principal. Some people are just homophobes, I guess.
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mrmitchell
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So, the summary is he said his mom was gay and then explained when asked that it's when "a girl likes a girl?"
There is NOTHING wrong with that. Now, had he started describing hot gay action, that would be an issue, but not only is saying "gay" okay, but he described it in a damn good way too.
The school staff only made it obvious that they're a group of raging homophobes.
Well, add Lousiana to the list of states to laugh at.
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Starchild
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a raving alcoholic drama queen with a penchant for the biosciences
Jan 1970
time: 00:32
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quote:
Originally posted by Ben Kenobi
Strongly torn on this case.
This is what I would have done if I were the teacher. I would either have given a note to the child to take home, or called the parents expressing my concerns about the child. I would have said that such discussion would be inappropriate for children in kindergarten.
I would not have involved the child at any point. |
"Dear Sir/Madam (which ever one pretends to be the man in your little 'relationship'),
Today I caught your child explaining to another child the nature of your sin. Your satanic spawn, err, child said that being 'gay' was when a girl 'loved' another girl. He expressed this with tolerance, even love, as he was refering to you, his ab-mum-ination. He he, I made a funny. These are not traits I want present in my class room as they may lead to other children learning to accept things that, while holding a strange fascination for me, are wrong! The image of two women, locked together in passion so fills me with disgust I almost mistake it for passion and longing to embrace my true nature. I fight a daily battle to repress it and so should you! In the future, please teach your child that only our narrow worldview can him what a normal relationship is. This will help me get back to my job of crushing their spirits and making them useful sheep and cannonfodder for the future.
Sincerly,
Little Boy's Teacher
(ps, call me!)"
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Ben Kenobi
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McGregornobi!
Oct 2002
time: 21:32
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Starchild:
No, it would probably have been more along the lines of:
As a teacher of your son's kindergarten class, certain comments he made have raised my concerns. Just yesterday, when asked by another child as to his family, he responded that he has two gay moms.
While I do not agree with this arrangement, it is every parent's right to have a say in their child's welfare. Just as I would not wish to interfere with the arrangements of other children, I will not interfere with yours.
That being said, I feel discussion of what it means to be gay as inappropriate for a kindergarten class and will raise the ire of many other parents who wish to protect their children. Therefore, I ask that you instruct your child to talk about his adopted family, because, as we all know, your sexual preferences ought to have no bearing on your child rearing.
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