29-01-2004 22:52									#1
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ok lets keep this clean...
but i want to know...


wheres the line these days between being considered loose and just being normal..

if you found out that someone you were dating
had been with .... x number of people...
when would you say.... "holy cow"

whats the magic number for you?

	29-01-2004 22:59									#2
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I don't care about how many partners a person has had, but may be an indication of more serious problems. Those are what would worry me.

	29-01-2004 22:59									#3
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I've heard "normal" is around 7, but that includes all the "non-pretty people".

The pretty people probably get a lot more azz.

	29-01-2004 23:50									#4
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wondering if age is also a factor.
i mean if your only 20 and youve been with 30
then ... well thats a lot to me for that age.
but if your 70 and 30 is your number... well
i don't know... i think it wouldn't matter so much..
what do you think?

	29-01-2004 23:54									#5
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as long as there aren't diseases, I don't care...

	29-01-2004 23:55									#6
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perhaps...but people probably sleep with more people before they're 25ish than they will for the rest of their lives; so bear in mind the 70 year old was prob just as 'promiscuous' or whatever when they were younger - they've just aged badly.

	30-01-2004 01:20									#7
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If they've been with 10 and they're 16 years old, it's different than being with 10 and being 70 years old.

Again, perspective.

	30-01-2004 01:21									#8
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well...not necessarily...the 70 year old may not have been with anyone since they were 16

	30-01-2004 02:28									#9
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or he might have had a wild time around 40
when that mystical thing called mid life crisis
kicked in

	30-01-2004 02:37									#10
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very true...itd be worse to be with a 40 year old who was sleeping around than a 20 year old....it seems more natural when they're younger!

	30-01-2004 04:53									#11
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quote: wheres the line these days between being considered loose and just being normal..

Standard of society, or my own standard? Never actually had this question come up.

	30-01-2004 05:06									#12
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Me and Angela talked about this a couple of weeks ago. I was a bit embarssed when I had to stop and count and a little more so when I had to correct myself because I had left out a girl. I mean it's not really super high but I'm 29 years old and I've been single for most of that time so I've been around some.

	30-01-2004 05:07									#13
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quote: Originally posted by Verres perhaps...but people probably sleep with more people before they're 25ish than they will for the rest of their lives; so bear in mind the 70 year old was prob just as 'promiscuous' or whatever when they were younger - they've just aged badly.

Yeah I hate those guys that are around 30 or so and go after those 18 year olds

	30-01-2004 05:18									#14
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Ive only had 1 so far, she's had a number I dare not mention. But Im sure it made losing my virginity that much more enjoyable.

	30-01-2004 05:33									#15
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quote: Originally posted by Ben Kenobi Standard of society, or my own standard? Never actually had this question come up.

your own.
i think society is a reflection of everyones personal...
which is the reason for the poll

	30-01-2004 05:44									#16
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Well, I'd like a virgin.

I'm unsure though how to answer your question as to what would 'shock' me? I've never had to deal with the answer to that question, because I don't bother asking them. Of course, I have been asked, and I always end up saying, I'm a virgin, and that I want to stay one until I'm married. I have yet to meet a woman willing to admit how many she's had after I give that answer.

	30-01-2004 07:13									#17
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its been posed to me that men prefer women lie about it. what do you all think about that?

	30-01-2004 07:25									#18
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quote: Originally posted by boann its been posed to me that men prefer women lie about it. what do you all think about that?

That person is wise indeed

	30-01-2004 07:56									#19
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ummm......
How many people have you ever slept with that you really, well......, liked a lot?
If that answer is more than five I woud be more upset than if you had slept with one hundred.
There is, obviously, a real difference between love and finding someone sexually attractive.

	30-01-2004 08:20									#20
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quote: Originally posted by boann its been posed to me that men prefer women lie about it. what do you all think about that?

I thought everyone lies about it.

There's the old rule that for men, take the number they say and divide it in half. For women, double the number.

	30-01-2004 08:22									#21
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Any woman who is not a virgin shouldn't be touched.

	30-01-2004 08:24									#22
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I don't think I've met a virgin in a long time. At least not one that was of suitable age.

	30-01-2004 11:12									#23
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quote: its been posed to me that men prefer women lie about it. what do you all think about that?

Boann:

I'll answer if you answer the reverse, do women prefer the truth?

Depends on the man. I'm pretty standard for brutal honesty, so I'd say I'd rather hear if she slept with 10 guys rather than her lie to me about being a virgin. She needs to be able to tell me the truth, especially when it is uncomfortable.

	30-01-2004 11:15									#24
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Virgins are great because they're so submissive........

......

* Asher eyes Ben.

	30-01-2004 11:20									#25
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it doesn't really matter

this is a stupid question to bring up in a relationship

the discomfort and soul searching you are doing about it illustrates that point

you will always be comparing your number to his number for the rest of your life

	30-01-2004 11:22									#26
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quote: Virgins are great because they're so submissive.. * Ben Kenobi eyes Ben

Dude, I've seen your picture. My gf has more hair on her chin than you.

Dominant? Don't make me laugh!

	30-01-2004 11:25									#27
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quote: Originally posted by Ben Kenobi My gf has more hair on her chin than you.

Don't know if your girlfriend would appreciate that!!!

	30-01-2004 11:28									#28
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Ted...

You don't know Asher. He's real soft and smooth.

	30-01-2004 11:39									#29
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quote: Originally posted by Ben Kenobi Ted... You don't know Asher. He's real soft and smooth.

I'm afraid to ask how you know this

	30-01-2004 11:53									#30
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Calgary ain't all that far away.