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I was talking about seeing life's meaning as living it not what you meant by it as the perpetuation of the species.
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Drogue
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Omnipresent conscience
Oct 2002 time: 05:33
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If life only has meaning because we give it meaning, how can we console someone who is suicidal? Clearly, for him, his life has no meaning, and we ought to encourage him to off himself. |
Because their life may improve, indeed, almost certainly will, and so they would enjoy it more if they didn't commit suicide. However if it will never improve, such as someone dying slowly of cancer, or someone in a persistant vegetative state, or someone with any painful and terminal condition, then suicide/euthanasia may be a good option.
Given that life has no meaning, it would simply be a question of whether they and the world are better of with them living or dying. You can console someone by showing them how their life could change, how they affect people around them, who would miss them, how they can be happy, and make others happy.
If there is never a chance for them to enjoy life more than nothingness, then maybe suicide is an option, since it would be purely putting them out of their misery. That is why I support euthanasia. When someones life is completely hopeless, when they know they will never recover from the pain they are under, it should be an option for them.
However a lack of meaning in life does not mean that loss of life is fine, because without a meaning in life, enjoyment becomes paramount, IMHO. Loss of life almost always involves a loss of enjoyment, since life is usually better than nothingness, especially if you consider the effects suicide would have on the people close to that person.
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Flip McWho
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May 2002 time: 17:33
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quote: Have you heard the one that God exists because the Bible says so, and the Bible is true because God says so. |
Yeah nice circular argument that they have there isn't it.
Drogue: I think thats why its invalid. My memory on this subject is a bit iffy aswell.
quote: If life only has meaning because we give it meaning, how can we console someone who is suicidal? Clearly, for him, his life has no meaning, and we ought to encourage him to off himself. |
Tell him/her it's better than the alternative. Otherwise there ain't much really. Talk them through there problems and try to give find them something that is worth living for. Life has no meaning besides what you give to it. Just gotta accept it or die trying.
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Flip McWho
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May 2002 time: 17:33
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Drogue said it better.
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Flip McWho
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May 2002 time: 17:33
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You don't necessarily need a focus to life. At the current moment I'm just meanderring through life without any clear focus at the moment. I'm just cruising. I still don't think my life is currently meaningless.
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Ben Kenobi
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McGregornobi!
Oct 2002 time: 21:33
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Because their life may improve, indeed, almost certainly will, and so they would enjoy it more if they didn't commit suicide.
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But this denies the presupposition that we define what meaning we have in our lives. You are importing external criteria in order to give life meaning.
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However if it will never improve, such as someone dying slowly of cancer, or someone in a persistant vegetative state, or someone with any painful and terminal condition, then suicide/euthanasia may be a good option.
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But who decides which lives have worth and value, and which lives do not? The fundamental problem with the quality of life ethic is to deal with the conundrum. Either you decide for the person, whether their life has meaning, which is problematic because we may kill someone against their will, or you cannot rescue a person desiring suicide. You need an entire different perception of life.
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You can console someone by showing them how their life could change, how they affect people around them, who would miss them, how they can be happy, and make others happy.
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Again, to them, these have no meaning, therefore they want to kill themselves, and would be perfectly justified in doing so.
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That is why I support euthanasia. When someones life is completely hopeless, when they know they will never recover from the pain they are under, it should be an option for them.
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So who decides what counts as hopeless, and what does not? Why should we accept your perceptions over those of the actual person?
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since life is usually better than nothingness, especially if you consider the effects suicide would have on the people close to that person. |
Okay. Problem here. Usually better than nothingness is not going to bring the incumbent suicide off the bridge. You need a totally different approach.
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Flip McWho
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May 2002 time: 17:33
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Well I don't really have that much in a life long goal. I'm happy enough to see where life takes me. For now, this could change at some later point.
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Drogue
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Omnipresent conscience
Oct 2002 time: 05:33
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quote: Originally posted by Ben Kenobi
But this denies the presupposition that we define what meaning we have in our lives. You are importing external criteria in order to give life meaning. |
No, I am presuming that someone who is suicidal has defined their life as being worth less than nothingness. You can console them by showing them that that won't always be the case. if your life is less desirable than nothingness at the moment, suicide may look attractive. However unless it will always be less desirable than nothingness, then as Ming said in a suicide thread before "a perminant solution to a temporary problem". You have to show that person that their problems are temporary, and that they will feel that life is worth more than nothingness later in life.
quote: Originally posted by Ben Kenobi
But who decides which lives have worth and value, and which lives do not? The fundamental problem with the quality of life ethic is to deal with the conundrum. Either you decide for the person, whether their life has meaning, which is problematic because we may kill someone against their will, or you cannot rescue a person desiring suicide. You need an entire different perception of life. |
The person decides. You can try to council someone, talk them out of suicide, but ultimately it is their decision. The only exception I can think of being that if they had a known mental condition that meant they could not rationally look at their life and make that decision for themselves. However I would see a decision to live or die should follow the same rules as a decision to sign a contract, that they must be of sound mind and body. If someone has a known disorder, then they cannot rationally decide whether they wish ti live or die. If someone can rationally see their options, then it is up to them which they choose.
quote: Originally posted by Ben Kenobi
Again, to them, these have no meaning, therefore they want to kill themselves, and would be perfectly justified in doing so. |
They have no meaning, but they in the objective sense, but they have a desire to live or die. If they are able to rationally choose, and decide to choose to die, then they are perfectly justified in doing so. The choice to live or die is theirs, but they can be consoled, talked to, helped and shown that life will improve, so they will choose to live. If they cannot think rationally about it, then they are not in a fit state to decide their own future.
quote: Originally posted by Ben Kenobi
So who decides what counts as hopeless, and what does not? Why should we accept your perceptions over those of the actual person? |
I'm not offering my perceptions. If they have an incurable disease, and they wish to die to end their suffering, then to force them to live is, IMHO, inhumane. It is their decisions. They decide whether it is hopeless (based on what their doctor says) and they decide their fate.
IMHO, anyone who is of sound mind should be allowed to decide whether they wish to live or die. There are procedures in place to decide if they are of sound mind, such as a psychiatric report, a doctor examining them, etc.
quote: Originally posted by Ben Kenobi
Okay. Problem here. Usually better than nothingness is not going to bring the incumbent suicide off the bridge. You need a totally different approach. |
Your opinion. Showing someone that life is worth living is the only way to save someone from suicide, IMHO.
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quote: Originally posted by Drogue
I don't see it as hedonistic, although I guess it is. But what else is there? If there is no purpose in life, then surely we are free to enjoy it. If there is no reason for us to be here, surely making the most of it, being happy, is all that matters? Some may argue happiness for themselves, some for all people, but I cannot see what other possible reason there could be. What do you mean by the "metaphysical" side? If you mean some form of soul, then I would have to contend that I don't believe it to exist. |
No nothing having to do with "soul". It was a play of words. In Greek "metaphysical" means something that transcends the physical (=nature, law, science) and hence rationality laws. So I just joked with that since what I said was a "stance of life" not a rationality principle.
About the hedonistic, I think of the whole issue more like it's just "life for life" kind of thing. You are living it and that's what's important. Good or bad may come and go come again etc. But the fact that you're living it becomes the most important part in contrast with not living it, withdrawing. Actually solely hedonism pursuit could lead one to not actually "live life" since life can be seen as more to "simply acquiring pleasures". But this is again something of a stance of life.
One has of course to define hedonism. It can be being fed grapes from gorgeous women while lying on a marble bench or it can mean dying in a war for one's country. However I think the meaning of hedonism is only the pursuit of "pleasures" that are more on the physical/material and not the intellectual/spititual/cognitive side.
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