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Lancer
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Oregon Coast, USA! or Bohol, Philippines!
Apr 1999 time: 05:13
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Well, I wasn't being mature either. I want ppl to know that what I said about AH, well I really don't know or care one way or the other. What has bugged me in the past is being called names, (and on the internet that doesn't take alot of balls) and replying with quotes from AH for the most part. Well that built up and came out last night. I wanted AH to sleep on insults that he could not reply to man to man, simply because of the distance, show him how it feels. I don't like being called names AH, and now maybe you know why.
So I'm done calling names, I withdraw the insults I threw at AH last night, and I will voluntarily withdraw myself from posting for a week because I see clearly now where I could have been alot more mature.
Mark has judged well in my opinion. When I read Mings instructions to take it to PM, I did. AH put that PM in public, and so put everything back in the open. I did try, Mark is right. My decision regarding not posting has nothing to do with Mark's decision, it has to do w/ my desire to share w/ AH his week because I'm not pleased with myself, not because I feel that I broke a rule of Apolyton, more like a rule of personal decency.
I'd guess Mark would agree with me on that.
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Fair enough Ming. Yes, it's an assumption of mine - albeit an assumption that's been implicitly there in most of my posts so far on this, without MarkG denying it directly before his disappearance earlier.
I'll stick with my assumption (which I'm sure I'm not the only one who's embracing), but I'll refrain from further 'slandering' until MarkG will hopefully address my concerns again.
I will say however that slander was not intended by me, I merely expressed the concern I had for future incidents, given my earlier assumption.
Sorry for any offense.
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Ming,
The quote you gave from MarkG in your last post, doesn't even begin to adress the concerns I have for a miscarriage of justice here. They both displayed insults and mild flaming, and they both posted after they were told not to. So the question remains, what underlying reasons did MarkG have for punishing one clown and not the other?
But as we agreed on earlier, it's probably more appropriate to save the assumptions until MarkG will hopefully be back to explain - or reverse his decision, which I'm still hoping for!
In the meantime, speak up Apolytoners! Voice your opinion on this. Did MarkG meet the standard of impartialness that we could reasonably expect from the good people who built this site for us? Or did he show bias in applying one kind of justice to the troll and another to the good Samaritan?
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Legman,
Ming explained in an excellent way how my decision was made. He did that by reading what was posted by the two, and what I posted in the specific thread and in this thread. Since i doubt that he has any mind-reading powers, i fail to see how you can not come to the same result. the only "assumption" i can make is that you are the one with the bias, given that you agree with AH on the matters of the sticky threads and of threads about Karen
btw, i also fail to see how you expect me to deny that i'm totally unbiased. this would be ridicullous...
and something else: why on earth would i want to "shut up" AH? did i "shut him up" the last time that we had a whole thread in this forum(where it should be)?
Lancer,
thank you for your post and for your decision
<font size=1 face=Arial color=444444>[This message has been edited by MarkG (edited December 06, 2000).]</font>
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Whoa....excuse the latecomer here but I want to just get something clear.
How much of a problem is that sticky thread? It's an ongoing sage that we're all familiar with, and it might just achieve a highly worthwhile result. What harm does it do having that there?
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<center><table width=80%><tr><td><font color=000080 face="Verdana" size=2><font size="1">quote:
<img src=/forums/"/images/blue1.gif" width=100% height=1>
</font><font size=1>Originally posted by Lazarus & the Gimp on 12-06-2000 04:02 PM</font>
How much of a problem is that sticky thread? It's an ongoing sage that we're all familiar with, and it might just achieve a highly worthwhile result. What harm does it do having that there?
<img src=/forums/"/images/blue1.gif" width=100% height=1></font></td></tr></table></center>it goes against the rules of nature as AH understands them... 
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So MarkG, I take it you don't agree with my view that
a) they both posted insults and mild flaming to virtually the same extent
b) they both posted to the thread after they were told not to
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If you don't agree, then please tell me where AH's actions differed sufficiently from Lancer's actions for him to be restricted as the only one.
If you do agree, then what reasons did you have for banning AH?
If you answer this in an honest and non-manipulative way, I will assure you I will draw my own conclusions from your answer and not raise the matter any further, except for the option of one reply to your answer.
BTW, I don't think I'm biased on this matter - other than I was apparently the one outraged enough at your decision to start this thread inquiring why you did what you did.
Note also that almost everyone who posted to this thread share my view of you handing out punishment in an unjust fashion in this case. How can so many people with all the evidence readily available have the same - wrong - view of one man's decision? Isn't it more likely that you made a bad call - something nobody's gonna blame you for if you reverse your decision?
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Ming
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<center><table width=80%><tr><td><font color=000080 face="Verdana" size=2><font size="1">quote:
<img src=/forums/"/images/blue1.gif" width=100% height=1>
</font><font size=1>Originally posted by Legman on 12-06-2000 04:39 PM</font>
So MarkG, I take it you don't agree with my view that
a) they both posted insults and mild flaming to virtually the same extent
b) they both posted to the thread after they were told not to
<img src=/forums/"/images/blue1.gif" width=100% height=1></font></td></tr></table></center>
Answer to A: Yes, they were both bad boys and engaged in mild flaming.
Answer to B: First, they were NEVER told to not POST to the thread. They were told to chill, and then continue their "discussion" by MP.
As I discribed before (please reread it again if something is still unclear to you), the posts immediately after the warning to chill and take it to PM were ignored because neither had seen the warnings yet. Once it was obvious that they both HAD seen the warning... then what happened?
Lancer posted that he had sent a PM to AH. Fine, a little testy in the nature of it, but it was to alert AH he had a PM on the subject.
AND NOW, ONE LAST TIME, AH then posted what was sent by PM "INCLUDING A QUOTE FROM LANCER" (a big break against the rules since he/they were told to take it to PM) This was like throwing gasoline on a fire that had been put out, in an attempt to start the fire all over again. FOR THAT, HE WAS RESTRICTED... THAT WAS THE STRAW THAT BROKE THE CAMEL'S BACK!
Lancer's next post was simply trying to end it. He told AH that he was done with the discussion, and that AH should think about what was said. Go back and read it.
There is a big difference in their actions AFTER they were aware of the warnings. Before than, Yeah, they were both bad! But the before has nothing to do with the restriction.
I hope this helps... 
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Speaking of straws: Pardon me Ming, but if that's the reasoning behind restricting only AH and not Lancer, that's the tiniest straw I've ever seen an admin or mod cling to when trying to justify a ban. 
If MarkG posts once again that he agrees with your description of it, I'll know which one of my assumptions from before I'll go with. And it ain't pretty for the prospect of Apolyton Justice!
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Lefty Scaevola,
I'm sorry, I fail to see the humour in this. The course of events as Ming described them simply isn't enough to ban one poster and not the other. Something else is the real cause here, I know what it is, it's a profound disagreement on the whole charity deal. And I must admit that such actions from MarkG is nothing I can associate myself with. I feel the deep love and affection I've come to feel for this place dwindling away at an alarming speed. 
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Lefty Scaevola
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San Antonio TX USA
Oct 2000 time: 23:13
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. I trying to nudge you out of increasing OBSSESION with a minor issue. I feel MarkG & Ming have clearly explained the official position three times, and you just don't believe and agree with it. BUT there is NO remedy available for you, and pursing it is in vain. Back when I practiced law I had to advise clients commonly, Give It Up. No court is going to give you what you want, and the more your tye your ego to a losing fight, the more you lose. Even if an Admin were to pronounce "I don't like the way you use the subjuctive in Latin, A H, you are banned, it would be uniportant. This is a voluntary social association, buufered through a computor, enjoy what you like and ignore what you don'nt
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Gaius Mucius Scaevola Sinistra
Pontificator Pendanticus
older richer & wiser than you
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Lefty Scaevola,
I hear you. You make several valid points and I appreciate your taking the time to write it. I just can't believe that it's the way things are run here - I've been here for nearly two years and never before have i seen such hypocrisy. Pardon my French, but that's exactly what it is! 
After having thought this over for the umteenth time, I've come to the conclusion that nothing MarkG could say or do will make me change my mind now. It's all too clear to me what went through his mind when he restricted the troll clown and let the Samaritan one go free.
I have nothing further to say here. I'm going to bed now. Don't hang around for any posts by Legman in the near future. And the Location FAQ is now a project of the past. If you have a problem with it, tell it to MarkG.
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Ming has used his incredible mind-reading powers to explain the situation once again...
<center><table width=80%><tr><td><font color=000080 face="Verdana" size=2><font size="1">quote:
<img src=/forums/"/images/blue1.gif" width=100% height=1>
</font><font size=1>Originally posted by Legman on 12-06-2000 05:07 PM</font>
that's the tiniest straw I've ever seen an admin or mod cling to when trying to justify a ban.
<img src=/forums/"/images/blue1.gif" width=100% height=1></font></td></tr></table></center>actually, it's a clear case of someone continuing to do something after being ordered not to. it has happened a gazillion times in the past
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I've got to say that I'm disgusted at hearing an issue being made about the Karen thread. For the sake of about 10mm of vertical screen space this is something that can have a dramatic beneficial effect on the life of someone who's had a rough ride. I can't believe anyone could get so anal about it.
If you do have an issue with the sticky thread- merry ****ing christmas to you too.
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