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Nov 2001 time: 06:22
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quote: Originally posted by Wycoff
The thing about youth "ageism" is that we all outgrow it. Plus, I don't know one person who doesn't think that they were an insufferable *****/***** when they were teens. |
I considered teens to be unsefferable *****/***** (what do these * mean anyway? ) when I was one, and to some extent, I still do . Yet, I still consider that I and many others were perfectly nice people, so I don't exactly how age impacted my PoV.
I do see how I've grown in maturity since teenagehood, and I see what still awaits me to reach full maturity (= full fincancial independence, and making a family). However, this maturity is not precisely function of age, but of the extent of freedom I'm having.
Age only contributes to it insofar as "growing wiser" requires to learn from the experiences of autonomy and duty. Experience takes time, but the main condition is to have the opportunities to live them.
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I'd agree that most persons under the age of 18 aren't exactly mature enough to vote. Hell I know of somebody over the age of 18 who voted for the person with the longest name. And yes people that generally still live with their parents generally vote the same way as their parents, I know I did and once I moved out of home my political opinions and opinions on much else has changed somewhat significantly. I know of others who still vote according to what was hammered into them from their parents.
I do like the test idea for being allowed to vote though. The majority of people are vastly ignorant of matters in politics. If you can read an article called The Unpolitical Animal by Louis Menand, very interesting.
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Oct 1999 time: 00:22
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quote: Originally posted by Spiffor
I considered teens to be unsefferable *****/***** (what do these * mean anyway? ) when I was one, and to some extent, I still do . Yet, I still consider that I and many others were perfectly nice people, so I don't exactly how age impacted my PoV.
I do see how I've grown in maturity since teenagehood, and I see what still awaits me to reach full maturity (= full fincancial independence, and making a family). However, this maturity is not precisely function of age, but of the extent of freedom I'm having.
Age only contributes to it insofar as "growing wiser" requires to learn from the experiences of autonomy and duty. Experience takes time, but the main condition is to have the opportunities to live them. |
Exactly Spiff. Our current system denies all opportunities to youth and then blames young people from not learning from them. Its like adopting "why are you hitting yourself" as a national policy toward youth.
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quote: Originally posted by OzzyKP
Our current system denies all opportunities to youth and then blames young people from not learning from them. Its like adopting "why are you hitting yourself" as a national policy toward youth. |
Denies all opportunities That's hyperbole.
What opportunities? Every juvenile is given the right to a free public education. Children are allowed to speak in schools. I don't know where you went to school, but in my school (I'm also from MD, by the way, so I know we weren't in radically different situations) kids talked so much that they impeded the ability of students to learn, with teachers often being powerless to regain control of their classroom. Its not like kids aren't allowed to have and express informed opinions of their own ;most teachers would love that. Its the fact that most teens don't care about any issues that are outside the dramatic highschool life and the ones who do care tend to merely parrot either what's on MTV or what their parents tell them.
The "conformity" that all the whiners that I knew as a teen complained about was the fact that people didn't appreciate them for being unique snowflakes and free thinkers just like the other 20 people who wore black lipstick and Slipknot t-shirts to school that day. I couldn't relate to the people who whined incessantly about high school back then, and I don't understand them now.
I think the fact that I was a teen so recently is what makes me disagree so vehemently with your viewpoint. Teenagers haven't changed over the past 5 years. They don't deserve the vote, and I don't understand what other rights you're claim you're missing. You need to make a contract? Get your parents to make it. The laws preventing minors from making contracts is designed to protect uneducated kids from being ripped off.
Your project is an impressive feat, and will look great on a college resume. It shows that you are intelligent, ambitious, dedicated and that you enjoy a challenge. It's impressive that you've been on FOX News to debate an issue that you so strongly care about; the best I've done is get an editorial published in a newspaper. However, as a 22 year old, I am utterly unsympathetic to your cause. I don't relate to your arguments at all, and I would have disagreed with them when I was 17.
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quote: Originally posted by Spiffor
A 16 year old that brutally becomes independent will quickly understand his need for a regular income in order to pay the bill and the rent. And he'll manage as well as an unskilled adult with the same contraints. |
I can agree with you on that accoun, Spiff, but I don't think that that's what Ozzy is talking about. He's not saying that you should give adult rights to 16 year olds that suddenly are forced to become independant because of some tragedy. He's saying that 14 year olds are oppressed because they don't have the same rights as adults, and that almost any 14 year old is as capable as an adult. This includes your average 14 year old, fresh out of middle school. They'd probably develop the necessary tools to survive if tossed on the street (and the majority would likely turn out dysfunctional, but that's another story), but that's not what's at issue here. He thinks that giving an average 14 year old all the freedoms of an adult would make them act like reasonable adults and capable of handling adult responsibility. I think that's crazy.
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BTW, here's a website that shows the joys of being a child with adult responsibilities:
http://www.childrenofleningradsky.com/
These kids aren't being oppressed by parents or teachers!
Sure, Spif, these kids are surviving (barely), but is this a life worth living? How many of these children will survive to become functioning adults?
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Spiffor
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CPA - Evil Clone brigade
Nov 2001 time: 06:22
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quote: Originally posted by Wycoff
I think that's crazy. |
While I disagree with Ozzy's extremism, I think there's a real merit in what he's saying.
Many teenage problems stem from the difference between the ney life expectations they have upon entering teenagehood, and the continued childhood expectations that are put on them by families and schools. In less obscure words many problems come from treating teenagers as children.
In my experience, pretty much every angsty teen was highly coddled by their parents, and had an extremist averse reaction to authority, and to what is "good". Even in our small 'Polyverse, we have at least one parent who continues to treat his teenage son like a child, and was pretty adamant about it when we discussed it. Useless to say, the son is pretty rebellious (duh).
I don't think full adult rights should be automatically applied to 14-year olds. However, I do think that emancipation procedures should be possible when the parents are too strict on their teenage kids. Because an excessive strictness is bad parenting, and ends up being bad for the kid, for the family, and for pretty much everybody in the end.
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Wycoff
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quote: Originally posted by Spiffor
In less obscure words many problems come from treating teenagers as children.
In my experience, pretty much every angsty teen was highly coddled by their parents, and had an extremist averse reaction to authority, and to what is "good". Even in our small 'Polyverse, we have at least one parent who continues to treat his teenage son like a child, and was pretty adamant about it when we discussed it. Useless to say, the son is pretty rebellious (duh).
I don't think full adult rights should be automatically applied to 14-year olds... Because an excessive strictness is bad parenting, and ends up being bad for the kid, for the family, and for pretty much everybody in the end. |
True, as a child grows, he should be given more freedom. That's what happens in most families, and the state recognizes that older teens deserve more responsibility by allowing them to drive at 16. It's true that some parents give their kids less freedom than others, but very few would fall in the range of "oppressive." Parents who don't allow their children greater measures of freedom produce children who aren't as well adjusted to life on their own as they should be. They are the "college break out cases" who get to college and becmoe party animals, because they don't have enough experience monitoring themselves. That being said, its not that common of a phenomena, at least not as common as you'd expect if many kids were being raised in households that were too "oppressive" to allow them to develop a sense of independency. Should the state get involved in highly strict households? Only in the most extreme cases (as I'll explain below)
However, I don't see how giving the kid the right to vote would make his parents treat him more like an adult, and I don't see how an emancipated teen could move out on his own without a full time job, which would negatively effect his education. Overall, I think that too much freedom would have a far more detrimental effect on most teens than would too little freedom.
As for school being oppressive, I find that idea laughable. It's been my experience that teens didn't have enough restraints on their behaivior, and usually ran roughshod over the teachers.
quote: However, I do think that emancipation procedures should be possible when the parents are too strict on their teenage kids. |
This would be incredibly hard to prove unless the kid could prove that he's been physically abused. What kind of measurable standard could you impose that could say that you're babying your kid too much?
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Oct 1999 time: 00:22
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quote: Originally posted by Wycoff
I can agree with you on that accoun, Spiff, but I don't think that that's what Ozzy is talking about. He's not saying that you should give adult rights to 16 year olds that suddenly are forced to become independant because of some tragedy. He's saying that 14 year olds are oppressed because they don't have the same rights as adults, and that almost any 14 year old is as capable as an adult. This includes your average 14 year old, fresh out of middle school. They'd probably develop the necessary tools to survive if tossed on the street (and the majority would likely turn out dysfunctional, but that's another story), but that's not what's at issue here. He thinks that giving an average 14 year old all the freedoms of an adult would make them act like reasonable adults and capable of handling adult responsibility. I think that's crazy. |
I do think the average 14 year old could opperate on a reasonable level as adults if allowed. And for almost all of human history this has been the case. Teens have not been permanently altered by the experiences of the last 100-200 years. Many cultures still do consider people around this age to be adults.
"Tossing them out on the streets" however is a wild mischaracterization.
I find it incredibly interesting, and in fact disturbing in an Orwellian way, that people equate allowing someone the freedom of choice with forcing someone to do something, and taking away the freedom of choice with giving someone more freedom. 
Am I saying at 14 or 7 or whenever that kids should just be thrown out in the gutter with nothing but the shirt on their backs? Hell no. That's absurd, and you are simply trolling by suggesting that. Considering many 18 year olds still live at home with their parents, despite being legal adults, I don't think things would change massively.
Again, giving the option of emancipation to folks under 14 (and these numbers are just rough examples for this discussion, I don't have a hard fast number for anything) doesn't mean they will all be emancipated and thrown out on their own. It just gives the option. Especially since emancipation would still require a determination by a judge that the individual is capable of handling increase responsibility and freedom. If kids don't meet that standard then its not an issue. The only folks who would get emancipated would be determined, on an individual basis, by a professional to be intelligent and competent.
So if you oppose that, you are really saying you are afraid of letting competent, rational people make decisions for themselves. If that is your position, then why let anyone make decisions for themselves, adults or youth?
Of course your position, and most youth rights detractors, is honestly not about rationality or competence, but instead purely a function of age. Age is supposed to be a secondary trait chosen simply because it is believed to predict the one relivant trait, namely competence. However when competence is removed from the equation entirely and age remains, then using age as a determiner for granting rights becomes unjust and unfair discrimination.
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Nov 2001 time: 06:22
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To put the incoming threadjack of the cow thread where it belongs ...
quote: Originally posted by OzzyKP
quote: I reject all platforms of rights based on ability. |
How would this apply, I wonder to youth rights?
If ability is a non-issue, then upon what basis are rights denied to youth? Shouldn't then, their common humanity warrant them equality before the law? |
I can understand why someone would reject all platforms of rights based of ability. That's not relelvant to what Elok was talking about, but I would imagine there is a very valid "slippery slope" argument: if you grant rights based on ability, you basically grant rights to the population you want. For example, I take it that you Ozzy wish a test that every adult American without mental deficiencies would complete easily. But imagine that an "ivory tower liberal" decides that politics actually belong to those who are somehow articulate enough for it... The test would change to be much more difficul, actually impossible for the uneducated and the ignorant... Yet such a measure would be fairly popular among the educated.
Or differently, imagine that some troglodyte in power decides that only "men with real cojones" get to vote (and women with real ovulas ): the vote will be granted only to those who have some high physical ability that many of us wouldn't reach.
There's something good with having arbitrary limits about rights. Now, I'm all for these arbitrary limits to correspond well to reality, but it's good that rights are granted to everybody (at some point in life) rather than on an individual basis. Because if you do it on an individual basis, there'll be plenty of such individuals that will be completely removed of their rights.
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Nov 2001 time: 23:22
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quote: Originally posted by OzzyKP
So if you oppose that, you are really saying you are afraid of letting competent, rational people make decisions for themselves. If that is your position, then why let anyone make decisions for themselves, adults or youth?
Of course your position, and most youth rights detractors, is honestly not about rationality or competence, but instead purely a function of age. Age is supposed to be a secondary trait chosen simply because it is believed to predict the one relivant trait, namely competence. However when competence is removed from the equation entirely and age remains, then using age as a determiner for granting rights becomes unjust and unfair discrimination. |
Lord.
Each and every individual is different, and once you reach consensus on what it is to be an adult, you all of a sudden find out that you need to decide how to strucutre the law such that you can best balance people's rights and responsibilities with their abilities.
Given there are 290 million individual levels of maturity in the US, the law must remain sane and come up with level at which the greatest possible number of people get rights without giving them to those not ready. So the age of 18 was chosen because it currently, under our current definition of adulthood, is the best balance out there.
I have seen no evidence, including that provided by Ozzy, that change has been such to make moving the age downward makes sense.
And the fact is that teens have far more opportunies than ever before. Perhaps the simplest thing to say though it that any teen smart enough to be an adult would be adult enough to see how good they have it, and they might as well wait a couple of years before the full weight of adulthood hits them right smack in the head.
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quote: Originally posted by OzzyKP
I do think the average 14 year old could opperate on a reasonable level as adults if allowed. |
Define reasonable. Could they survive? Most probably could; the link I provided shows that they can. Could the average teen act in a manner that would be the same as a reasonable adult? I see no evidence of that whatsoever. What in your life experience makes you think that the average 14 year old could?
quote: And for almost all of human history this has been the case. Teens have not been permanently altered by the experiences of the last 100-200 years. |
All this shows is that children had to take on adult responsibilities in pre-industrial and early industrial socieites; it does not show that they were ready for them. If children were ready for such responsibilites, and handled them as well as any average adult, then why have all of the modern societies imposed laws protecting children,( child labor laws being foremost amongst them)? It's not like those laws always existed, as you point out. The fact that they were adopted speaks to the need to protect children in our modern societies from expoitation. Were children able to handle things as well as adults? No. They were forced to work by their families and forced to do dangerous jobs, until the legislatures decided that something had to be done to protect them.
quote: Many cultures still do consider people around this age to be adults. |
Yes, the primitive ones. Which cultures are you referring to?
quote: I find it incredibly interesting, and in fact disturbing in an Orwellian way, that people equate allowing someone the freedom of choice with forcing someone to do something, and taking away the freedom of choice with giving someone more freedom. 
Am I saying at 14 or 7 or whenever that kids should just be thrown out in the gutter with nothing but the shirt on their backs? Hell no. That's absurd, and you are simply trolling by suggesting that. Considering many 18 year olds still live at home with their parents, despite being legal adults, I don't think things would change massively.
Again, giving the option of emancipation to folks under 14 (and these numbers are just rough examples for this discussion, I don't have a hard fast number for anything) doesn't mean they will all be emancipated and thrown out on their own. It just gives the option. |
What is the need for this option? Why should 14 and unders be emancipated? What is the need? So you can live on your own? Why? If the minor is being abused, social services can intervene. If not, why does the minor need to live on their own (if that's what you're advocating)? You're always complaining about the loss of freedom, but not depicting the freedoms that are actualy being withheld, other than the right to vote at a younger age.
BTW, I take the fact that many 18 year olds still have to live at home to survive as more of an example that 18 is too young of an age of majority rather than as proof that the age of majority should be lowered. How does that possibly support your argument, that 14 year olds, if given freedom, would be resopnsible, independent adults if a significant number of 18 year olds can't live on their own?
quote: Especially since emancipation would still require a determination by a judge that the individual is capable of handling increase responsibility and freedom. If kids don't meet that standard then its not an issue. The only folks who would get emancipated would be determined, on an individual basis, by a professional to be intelligent and competent. |
Again, what is the need? This creates an incredibly hazy standard. What do you need to determine whether a 12 year old is capable of being emancipated? What are the repurcussions of his emancipation? This is what I envision: Our clogged court system being further burdened by kids who, after arguing with their parents, want to go to the court house to "show their parents how grown up I am." The legal system then has the burden of setting up criteria for what exact qualities make a 12 year old as capable as an adult, setting standards to ensure that no incompetent minor gets emancipated, change the application of minor laws in both the Criminal and Civil arenas, figure out what do to about children petitioning for majority that can't afford independent legal assistance, etc.
All this effort for what gain? What are minors losing out on by not being "emancipated?" (you've yet to define what you mean by that, BTW) The overwhelming amount of cases (I'd say all of them) will go against the minors, wasting valuable court resources.
quote: So if you oppose that, you are really saying you are afraid of letting competent, rational people make decisions for themselves. |
There is an insignificant number (I'd say none, but I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt) of minors 14 and under who would be found in courts as being as competent as an adult. Besides, what "decisions" aren't 14 year olds allowed to make for themselves? You don't want to go to school? Tough. Modern states need educated citizens. You want to be able to live in your own place? Besides being unrealistic, its unessessary and would interefere with the minor's education, which should be society's chief concern.
Minors are given ample opportunities to express themselves at school. That's an incredibly weak rationale for your poistion. I've never experienced that a kid was forceably prevented from stating an opinion in a polite manner, no matter how crazy the opinion is. The kids who tend to blame their problems on "oppression" and "censorship" are the ones that cannot express themselves in a polite, reasonable manner.
Don't like dress codes? Tough. Professional adults must also deal with dress codes. Its not "squelching your expression", its creating proper classroom decorum ao a teacher can attempt to teach class (too bad many classes are ruined by "oppressed teens" that can't keep their mouths shut while the teacher is teaching)
If you're complaining about overbearing parents, what will emancipation do for the kids? You're saying that these kids will still live at home (that's what you're alluding to with your 18 year old reference, I take it). Do you think the fact that these "emancipated" kids won't still have to listen to their parents if they still live in their parent's home? If so, then you're awfully mistaken as to how that goes. An 18 year old must still abide by his parents if he lives in their house. If he doesn't his parents can legally evict him. If the bratty 14 year old gets emancipated and thinks that he doesn't have to listen to his overbearing parents, his parents could legally throw him out of the house. That'll give the kid the ultimate freedom, as shown by that link I posted.
quote: Age is supposed to be a secondary trait chosen simply because it is believed to predict the one relivant trait, namely competence. |
Fair enough. Age can be used to predict that there is a statistically insignficant amount of young minors who would be judged as being legally as capable as average, prudent adults. Why go through the expense and trouble of changing the legal system? Why invite the inevitable flood of spoiled, angry teens taking their parents to courts after a fight with the parents? Why waste the resources trying to prove that these kids meet some standard when, in the end, it would only benefit a handful of kids at most. That's an illogical waste of resources, especially when the "emancipated" kids that you seem to be envisioning wouldn't be gaining much anyway (they'd still live at home, they'd still go to school. Minors of a certain age can still get a work permit and get a parttime job. What else do you want?). I can't see how this would be a positive change at all.
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quote: Originally posted by chegitz guevara That was the same argument given against granting women the right to vote, that they'd vote the way their husbands told them to vote. As we've seen historically, that's far from the case...
It's not a valid argument for denying someone the right to vote. |
I'd like to see reliable figures on the voting patterns of spouses. I bet that they're closer than you imply, simply because economic status is a strong predictor of voting behavior, and people in the same household have the same economic status. I'm sure you've heard the cliche "You stand where you sit."
I guarantee that this would be much more powerful for teen voters. By and large they haven't had the experience of leaving home and really evaluating their beliefs. The haven't yet had the educational experience provided by finishing high school, let alone the intellectual awakening most people experience in college. Their parent's intellectual influence is especially strong at this age, because its the view that they have the most experience with. Experience with teenagers has shown me that most hold basically the same beliefs and religions as their parents. The others tend to hold the exact opposite beliefs just to spite their parents. Few have a reasoned, principled outlook different from their parents. Combine that with the fact that their parents (authority figures who are trusted and loved by most kids) are probably telling them that putting another party in power could cost their parents their jobs or that voting for a certain candidate would be sinful and you have a situation that would be conducive of children voting largely the way that their parents do.
Granted, there will be some "rebellious" kids that will vote the opposite way that their parents do just to assert their individuality. Is that a good basis on which to vote? Why encourage even more uninformed voting?
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Jul 2003 time: 06:22
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quote: Originally posted by OzzyKP
There are many possible solutions out there, all will take some effort to bring about. General principles that guide finding solutions are:
- Teens (over 13-14 or so) are generally as capable and rational as adults, thus shouldn't suffer unequal treatment. |
I shan't pretend to be an expert on the subject, but what I've read on the subject says that aint so. Reference?
quote: - The current list of oppressive laws are unjust no matter who they affect, diminished capacity or no. |
Those laws being?
(You mentioned curfew laws. I agree they should be repealed.)
quote: - A greater emphasis both in policy and in interpersonal interactions should be put on seeing youth as individuals and no pre judge them based on their class. |
Ie. we shouldn't treat them as adults. 
quote: So perhaps a solution would look like this:
Age of majority moved down to 14, upon which full adult rights are granted, and for those 7-14 (or everyone under 14 perhaps), they have a right to petition for and choose to be emancipated and thus be granted adult rights (and responsibilities). A judge, or some other authority would decide on a case-by-case basis whether the individual petitioner is ready and mature enough to accept adult rights and responsibility. |
Call me a pessimist, but I'm convinced any such test would work out as more unfair in practice than an arbitrary age line.
quote: Plus in general we start seeing youth as citizens and as people. I assume things are better in Europe, but in the US teens are often derided as out of control criminals, and face prejudice and stereotypes everywhere they turn. And I do mean everywhere. |
I don't think it's safe to generalize across the Altantic here. On one side, you've got curfew laws that would be unthinkable here. On the other, you try very young people as adults; that to would be unthinkable here.
quote: Drinking laws need not be an outright ban, but encourage a more relaxed, European approach to youth drinking. |
Be careful what you wish for. European youths are notorious binge drinkers.
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OzzyKP
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Oct 1999 time: 00:22
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quote: Originally posted by Wycoff
You're always complaining about the loss of freedom, but not depicting the freedoms that are actualy being withheld, other than the right to vote at a younger age.
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I'll address the rest of your points in a moment, but first, since you mentioned it a few times, I will answer this question of yours. And although you, and others may laugh at this list, or consider it insignificant or trivial, I am certain that if even a fraction of these restrictions were applied to any group of adults (adult women, adult blacks, adult homosexuals) you'd be marching in the streets in opposition. It is this double standard that is the most disagreeable factor in this whole debate.
In any event, Youth Cannot:
vote, run for office, drink, smoke, gamble, have sex, control their schooling, own property, choose who to live with, be out after dark, be out during the day, sign contracts, own guns, drive cars, rent cars, enter certain businesses, see certain movies, play certain video games, buy certain music, decide what clothes to wear, decide what to eat, decide when to eat it, decide when to sleep, decide who to spend time with, decide who to love, get access to public services, get equal pay for equal work, get tattoos, get piercings, get abortions, get married, make medical decisions for oneself, choose to take drugs, refuse to take drugs, get jobs, get fair treatment in court and many other things.
Additionally, because of their sub-citizen status in society youth are subject to rape, beatings, abuse, murder, and have little or no legal voice to protect themselves. Youth get sent to “Gulag Schools” where they are abused, indoctrinated, violated and ultimately broken. Youth are talked down to, belittled, ignored, and patronized at every opportunity. Youth don’t even enjoy the integrity of their own minds as they often have someone else’s religion, politics, morals, and standards forced upon them.
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