18-03-2005 22:51									#181
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quote: Originally posted by Alexander's Horse I don't have the energy to be unfaithful.

that's sound advice. it takes alot of time and energy to do so. coming up with shady cover stories and the like.

	18-03-2005 23:11									#182
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@ "I don't cheat coz I am lazy".

	18-03-2005 23:36									#183
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quote: Originally posted by Verres If she sleeps with you then decides to not marry him, then yeah, you ruined a potential 'home'. But if she just wants sex while he's elsewhere....you haven't wrecked anything.

Unfortunately she will most probably marry him in the autumn.

BTW he is probably also cheating on her. When I met him for the first time, at some point in our conversation he told me jokingly (there is a lot of truth in these kind of jokes) to keep her bussy so that she doesn't think of his cheating.

	19-03-2005 02:03									#184
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quote: Unfortunately she will most probably marry him in the autumn. BTW he is probably also cheating on her. When I met him for the first time, at some point in our conversation he told me jokingly (there is a lot of truth in these kind of jokes) to keep her bussy so that she doesn't think of his cheating.

Bulgarian Sailors have no honor. Why, here the caucasus, one would never allow that to happen.[/my father]


Seriously, this is ****ed up....

	19-03-2005 05:46									#185
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She is going to marry him mostly because of pressure from her parents. They want her to have a family, kids etc...... She doesn't really love him, she only thinks he would be an OK husband and a father.

The worst part in this mess is that she is the best thing that ever happened to me so far in my life.

Oh and when he told me to keep her bussy he ment to keep her occupied at work(we work together), not to **** her.

	19-03-2005 05:51									#186
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quote: Originally posted by Sir Og She is going to marry him mostly because of pressure from her parents. They want her to have a family, kids etc...... She doesn't really love him, she only thinks he would be an OK husband and a father. The worst part in this mess is that she is the best thing that ever happened to me so far in my life. Oh and when he told me to keep her bussy he ment to keep her occupied at work(we work together), not to **** her.

If this is true why are you letting her mary somebody else?

	19-03-2005 09:57									#187
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don't take that sh!t from him, kick 'is ass!

	19-03-2005 10:04									#188
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quote: Originally posted by self biased don't take that sh!t from him, kick 'is ass!

Who is getting an ass kicking?

	19-03-2005 12:37									#189
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quote: Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski If this is true why are you letting her mary somebody else?

It seems that from her POV this is a decision that can not be changed. She has told everybody (especialy her parents) that she is going to mary him long before we met and she is going to do it because everybody expects her to do it.
And maybe she realy thinks that he would be a good husband and father and her feelings towards me are not the same as mine.

	19-03-2005 20:19									#190
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quote: Originally posted by self biased that's sound advice. it takes alot of time and energy to do so. coming up with shady cover stories and the like.

That's why you should have an open relationship. You don't have to worry about lies.

	19-03-2005 20:23									#191
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quote: Originally posted by Sir Og It seems that from her POV this is a decision that can not be changed.

You could always anonymously let the guy know she's cheating on him. Then he'll break it off. Course, that might lead to violence.

	19-03-2005 20:28									#192
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quote: Originally posted by chegitz guevara That's why you should have an open relationship. You don't have to worry about lies.

but you have to still worry about the feelings of jealousy.

Ive been talking with my girlfriend about it and neither of us really wants to be without the other and she is way to jealous to let me be with other women, but the way things are going, and the fact were so young...its just ****ed.

	20-03-2005 12:34									#193
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quote: Originally posted by Alexander's Horse I don't have the energy to be unfaithful.

This has always boggled me!!!

How can someone have that much time to live a double life!!!


I AM seeing this right now, however, there is this loser guy who spends the week with one girl and the weekend with the other.


Unfortunatley for him! The weekend girl walked in on him during the week!!! It was a scene straight out of Cops!!!

	20-03-2005 12:37									#194
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I don't cheat, but I have been guilty of facilitation on more than one occasion.

	20-03-2005 12:42									#195
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quote: I don't cheat, but I have been guilty of facilitation on more than one occasion.

That's where I draw the line, as well.

	20-03-2005 13:15									#196
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quote: I don't cheat, but I have been guilty of facilitation on more than one occasion

What do you mean by that?

	20-03-2005 13:17									#197
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I don't cheat on my own partners but have displayed surprisingly little aversion to being the other man.

	20-03-2005 13:18									#198
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quote: Originally posted by Azazel quote: I don't cheat, but I have been guilty of facilitation on more than one occasion What do you mean by that?

I was confused by that word too


I think what they mean is that there was an opportunity for them to cheat. Even though they didn't cheat, they knowingly got into a situation which would have made it easier for it to happen.


Kinda like what JohnT was saying, it's better to never put yourself in a situation that could lead to cheating. (Going to bars and alcohol are the first things that come to mind).

	20-03-2005 13:19									#199
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quote: Originally posted by KrazyHorse I don't cheat on my own partners but have displayed surprisingly little aversion to being the other man.

Looks like I was wrong!

	20-03-2005 13:20									#200
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Wrong way around, striker.

Facilitation is when you help somebody else do something.

	20-03-2005 13:21									#201
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quote: Originally posted by Ted Striker Kinda like what JohnT was saying, it's better to never put yourself in a situation that could lead to cheating. (Going to bars and alcohol are the first things that come to mind).

When I get drunk I always call up my girlfriend and tell her how much I love her. She loves it when I booze.

	20-03-2005 13:25									#202
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The only time my woman believes a word I say is when I'm drunk. Smart girl...

	20-03-2005 13:27									#203
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quote: I don't cheat on my own partners but have displayed surprisingly little aversion to being the other man.

Well, I had something else in mind. I don't know how I feel about this.

	20-03-2005 13:50									#204
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When we were newly married and seperated by a fair distance - 3.5 hour drive - relationship, I told my wife not to worry about me cheating on her, the only women I find attrative would never cheat with a married man. She didn't get it back then. Now she does, and finds it hilarious (I don't drink/bars so I'll never have that excuse).