17-03-2005 23:42									#91
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quote: Originally posted by Spiffor That's bull. It's perfectly possible to be sexually attracte by other people, and yet be in a healthy relationship. A relationship is much more than merely monogamous sex. Now, a unhealthy relationship may have the consequence of you being tempted. But it's not the only cause of such behaviour.

im going to agree with you. Even in a healthy relationship you would be tempted, but you would DECIDE NOT TO DO ANYTHING because you really care.

	17-03-2005 23:43									#92
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ben, what happened to that one girl you were dating for a long time, or is that this one?

	17-03-2005 23:46									#93
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No, not her.

First girlfriend from before I was a Christian.

History of bad boyfriends.

	17-03-2005 23:47									#94
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Denise is the one who I'm trying to get back with, since she seems to be letting me back in again.

	17-03-2005 23:48									#95
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BK: Why the urge to get out of the relationship?? Is it just that you don't love her, or has she hurt you in any way?

Asmodean

	17-03-2005 23:51									#96
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With Denise or Amanda my first girlfriend?

	17-03-2005 23:52									#97
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quote: Originally posted by Ben Kenobi With Denise or Amanda my first girlfriend?

Your current one...the 6 month one you mentioned

	17-03-2005 23:52									#98
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Denise broke up with me, not the other way around.

I haven't even seen anybody else in the year since.

	17-03-2005 23:53									#99
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She's been seeing another fellow for 6 months.

	17-03-2005 23:54									#100
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Okay...I get it now. I though that the 6-month relationship you were trying to break was your own

Asmodean (who is suddenly a lot less confused)

	17-03-2005 23:54									#101
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not enough sex

	17-03-2005 23:56									#102
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Does that make me a homewrecker, though?

	17-03-2005 23:56									#103
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quote: Originally posted by MRT144 im going to agree with you. Even in a healthy relationship you would be tempted, but you would DECIDE NOT TO DO ANYTHING because you really care.

That's actually my situation. I'm fundamentally a big libertine, and I see no moral problem with having several sexual partners at the same time. However, my girlfriend does see a huge problem with that idea. That's because I care of her that I pledged I wouldn't cheat on her. So far, the pledge has held very well.

	17-03-2005 23:57									#104
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quote: Originally posted by Ben Kenobi Does that make me a homewrecker, though?

I'd say no, but I've been hurt in the past, which may be clouding my judgement.

In my book, if she was once your partner, and she broke up the relationship, then to hell with the guy, if you can win her back.

Asmodean

	17-03-2005 23:58									#105
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quote: Originally posted by Sikander I'm 44, monogamous for over 7 years now and only tempted a few times to sleep with someone else, in every case when directly propositioned by rather attractive women. I never succummed though, and I don't even flirt or otherwise make myself seem available. I've done it all before, whereas each day in my relationship is a new milestone for me. Sleeping around didn't make me happy, it just kept me from being bored.

AMEN.

	17-03-2005 23:59									#106
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That's what I thought.

To hell with him.

	17-03-2005 23:59									#107
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quote: Originally posted by Ben Kenobi Well, I am currently in the process of trying to break up a 6 month relationship, so I don't know if that makes me a homewrecker or not. What do you say Mrs. Tubes?

The whole thing sounds shady to me!!!


If you want to look at it on a practical level, it's bad karma. What goes around definitley comes around.

Plus, this girl dumped you in the first place.

	18-03-2005 00:00									#108
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quote: Originally posted by Asher You two bring in random boys for sex?

Paid Performances.

	18-03-2005 00:02									#109
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quote: Originally posted by Ben Kenobi Does that make me a homewrecker, though?

Yes. She stopped dating you on her initiative, and went with another man. You are now completely disregarding her couple's welfare for your selfish desires. That's a clear-cut case of homebreaking.

	18-03-2005 00:03									#110
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I've stood by for 6 months watching the two of them together, and have actually helped to keep them together, rather than trying to break them apart.

If she's changed her mind about him, then I'm not going to wait around.

	18-03-2005 00:04									#111
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Proceed with caution

	18-03-2005 00:05									#112
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quote: Yes. She stopped dating you on her initiative, and went with another man. You are now completely disregarding her couple's welfare for your selfish desires. That's a clear-cut case of homebreaking.

Maybe it's about time I started standing up for myself. If she invites me back, then I don't see a problem with any of this.

	18-03-2005 00:05									#113
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quote: Originally posted by Oerdin Paid Performances.

haha, thats not true. we havent had a threesome on camera, yet. this is all for our own fun, mostly hers.

	18-03-2005 00:06									#114
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Screw him. If you want the girl then go after her. Just be sure you really want her.

	18-03-2005 00:07									#115
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quote: Originally posted by Ben Kenobi Maybe it's about time I started standing up for myself. If she invites me back, then I don't see a problem with any of this.

But you originally said you were trying to break them up. Actively sabotaging is very shady.

	18-03-2005 00:07									#116
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quote: Originally posted by Ted Striker Proceed with caution

If he's still in love with her, then he's probably not going to listen to that anyway.

I'd say go for it, but be ready to get hurt again. If you can handle that (which you can, 'cause you did before) then don't deny yourself the chance.

Asmodean

	18-03-2005 00:08									#117
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quote: Just be sure you really want her

No doubt.

Seeing her tonight after we spent all of last night together.

	18-03-2005 00:09									#118
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quote: Originally posted by Ted Striker But you originally said you were trying to break them up. Actively sabotaging is very shady.

Not in this case, it isn't. They were together, she broke up for another guy. After that, it's weapons free.

Asmodean

	18-03-2005 00:10									#119
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If you say so.

	18-03-2005 00:11									#120
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what's the old saying? "all's fair in love and war?"