18-03-2005 01:46									#151
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Wild horses couldn't drag me into a relationship with someone already involved with another. The dictionary definition of "monogamous" reads "see Laz".

	18-03-2005 01:50									#152
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quote: Originally posted by Oerdin Where are you living now anyway?

in a house, with a bunch of other guys

	18-03-2005 01:54									#153
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quote: Originally posted by Verres In a healthy relationship I would cover evey inch of flesh and avert my eyes from the male species. I would also only leave the house with my partner in tow and not frequent typically 'male' habitats such as bars

So Arabs had it right all along.

	18-03-2005 01:55									#154
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being tempted is one thing, but succumbing to that temptation is another altogether.

	18-03-2005 02:07									#155
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selfbiased

	18-03-2005 02:15									#156
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Would sleeping with someone who is not married but intends to marry her sailor boyfriend when he returns from his current assignment on sea be considered homewrecking?

	18-03-2005 02:19									#157
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If she sleeps with you then decides to not marry him, then yeah, you ruined a potential 'home'.

But if she just wants sex while he's elsewhere....you haven't wrecked anything.

	18-03-2005 02:19									#158
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Yes.

	18-03-2005 02:32									#159
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what do you think the chances are verres will find a happy relationship? what are the chances she actually wants one?

	18-03-2005 02:34									#160
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It's not good to pass judgement on people you barely know on the internet. There are no doubt lots of things involved which she hasn't/doesn't want to discuss with strangers.

	18-03-2005 02:35									#161
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Besides MRT, you wouldn't want people passing judgement on your unconventional career choices would you?

	18-03-2005 02:37									#162
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i know, but from what she says, it seems like she doesnt have a clue, or the desire to have a relationship that lasts.

	18-03-2005 02:38									#163
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people pass judgement anyway, what can i do?

	18-03-2005 02:40									#164
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I don't think we have here at poly.

	18-03-2005 02:42									#165
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well i know 2 people, but they have vendettas upon me!

	18-03-2005 03:34									#166
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quote: Originally posted by JohnT In a healthy relationship, you wouldn't put yourself in a position to be tempted in the first place.

Well, that may be true, but you can always be surprised by a sexual temptation you didn't expect

	18-03-2005 03:53									#167
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quote: Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski Thats good then, I never owned up to the rat bfs wife after she called me again. I told her that we were just friends. Course after she called his ass was out of my life and house.

How do you know she was really his wife and not some stalker?

	18-03-2005 04:05									#168
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In my halcyon youth days, I slept with two married women, and tried to sleep with a third in an unhappy marriage. I fooled around with a woman who was enaged, and another one who was in a love triangle. I never cheated on anyone I was with, however.

	18-03-2005 04:18									#169
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That's why you're commie bastard Chegitz - no real personal morals, just pretend ideological ones.

	18-03-2005 04:24									#170
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quote: Originally posted by MRT144 what do you think the chances are verres will find a happy relationship? what are the chances she actually wants one?

Probably quite small. I had a happy relationship, and ended it because for me the grass is always greener. Part of me regrets it, part of me is glad I had the confidence not just to settle for what I had.

As for whether I want one or not....I don't know. Therefore all bets are off. I never thought I wanted one, but when I had it it was brilliant. Now I'm unsure. I always thought I wasn't 'relationship material' and i suppose this was a case in point.

I am aware my morals don't sit well witht he people here...but as Oerdin said, there are other issues to take into account I suppose. Please, feel free to insult my opinions, but don't judge me as a person.

	18-03-2005 04:25									#171
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I am a; commie bastard and I wouldn't wreck a home.

	18-03-2005 04:26									#172
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quote: Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski Has anybody ever wondering why they call it homewrecker. Most of the time its the married or taken person seeking out the affections of another. Seems to me the home is already wrecked if you need to look else where.

In many cases the "homewrecker" aggressively pursues married person. Seen it many times. Perhaps it is the aggressiveness that forms part of the attraction for the married person. I dunno.

I do know that a friend of mine introduced me to a woman whom I dated for a while. She was too aggressive for my taste (which is decidedly monogamous when married and celebate until then). Later the guy apologized and explained that he introduced her to me because he suspected she was angling on drawing him into an extramarital affair.

	18-03-2005 07:11									#173
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quote: Originally posted by Alexander's Horse That's why you're commie bastard Chegitz - no real personal morals, just pretend ideological ones.

I wasn't a commie then. I was a Republican and a Christian.

	18-03-2005 09:07									#174
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quote: Originally posted by chegitz guevara How do you know she was really his wife and not some stalker?

Because the ass fessed up after she called and I got a hold of him. He tried to lie about her at first but fessed up that she wanted to get back with him. I tried to explain that it didnt matter he was still married and please leave my house.

	18-03-2005 11:54									#175
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I don't have the energy to be unfaithful.

	18-03-2005 14:49									#176
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quote: Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski Wow thumbs up to that lady for not spreading the wealth. She knew she had aids and didnt let you sleep with her. Some others would have just done and not said a word.

Yea, she's a sweety. She wasn't even sure that she was infected, but she knew that she had been exposed. She was too afraid to get tested until she got really sick.

	18-03-2005 14:49									#177
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quote: Originally posted by MRT144 dont date crazy girls. or date them and be equally crazy. use their craziness as leverage.

Not dating crazy girls = not dating for me.

	18-03-2005 15:39									#178
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It's not just for you. Dating girls = dating crazy (at least some of the time) girls

	18-03-2005 17:32									#179
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'dating' and 'dating' cancel out, thus:

"girls = crazy ( at least some of the time) girls"




then, of course, "girls" cancel each other out.

	18-03-2005 18:08									#180
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How such flawed logic can lead to a completely correct answer is beyond me...