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Brundlefly
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Nov 2001 time: 00:36
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quote: Originally posted by The diplomat
the truth is that one of the reasons, I started this thread was to see what kind of advice you guys had. I am kinda inexperienced when it comes to dating. I tend to hesitate a bit on dates because I am not sure about the signals. Make a move when the girl isn't interested and you ruin the date, but fail to make a move when the girl is interested and she might lose interest. |
Dude, you think too much. While you're sitting there with gears spinning in her head, she is getting impatient. Be bold and decisive. That's what turns women on. Just make a move and deal with the consequences. Whether you ruin the date or you score you have gained knowledge that will help you deal with your next girl better.
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If only girls just said what they wanted, what a perfect world that would be, albeit a more boring one. |
Stop living in a dream world! It is man's responsibility to initiate everything - the pickup, the conversation, the first date, the first kiss.
Women, especially young women, often do not know what they want. They just know they want to be with a guy that makes them feel special. Lots of times they dont know what makes them feel special - they are just looking for a guy that can make them feel a certain way. Women are all about feelings. It is up to you to find out what makes them feel special through conversation.
example:
Diplo: "What kind of qualities do you look for in a guy?"
chick: "Um, I dont know.. I like tall guys.."
Diplo: "Tall guys. How does that make you FEEL when you are with a tall guy?"
chick: "Safe. Secure.."
So, obviously, being with a guy that makes her feel "Safe and secure" makes her feel special. It doesnt matter if the guy is tall. Any guy who makes her feel safe and secure is 'in'. So tell her stories about times when you have made people (preferably other girlfriends) feel safe and secure.
This is how you find out what a woman truly wants...
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