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Jon Miller
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it and caffiene do lower your desire to eat
that won't make you thin however..
JM
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Jon Miller
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I have never claimed to be mature..
JM
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Jon Miller
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aww shucks..
JM
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C0ckney
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Big Up The Macedonian Massive
Apr 2000
time: 05:18
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diss, much as i hate to ever be serious on this forum, you seriously need to sort your life out.
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shawnmmcc
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Diss - your letting yourself get spooked by the bad examples. Count the number of times you see a couple yelling, and then look at the number of times you see a couple holding hands or kissing. Relationships can be good. It's not easy.
You have to be ready to compromise. Compromise consists of
1) communicating. You need to know what the issue is.
2) negotiating. This means you must genuinely be willing to give up some of what you want - that doesn't mean always giving in, but it also mean you can't always have your way
3) follow-through. If you say you are going to do something, or stop doing something, then you have to try, extemely hard.
If you are not ready to do this, you are probably right in that you are not ready for a relationship, and that you are being ethical/moral avoiding one right now. The fact you can realize that fact, though, makes you at least closer to being ready for a relationship then many people.
The other thing you have to be willing to do is DO NOT rush into relationships. Talk, go on a few light dates, do not rush into bed. Let her do most of the talking. You may find out that she want no children ever, and you do someday. Or vice-versa. She may be devout and the member of another religion, and expect you to either convert or as a minimum raise any children/live the lifestyle of that religion. If you don't have that kind of strong religious tendency, avoid that lady. She may expect you to take care of you, and yet still be in charge. I detest those.
One lady wrote that someone looking for the right person should go on several hundred dates a year. What she meant by that, though, was something as simple as talking to somone on a bus, while evaluating them for follow through. She strongly suggested a very hard, consistant set of initial critieria to evaluate someone by, so you could winnow out those who you should never start going out with. Good luck, and I hope
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Spiffor
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CPA - Evil Clone brigade
Nov 2001
time: 06:18
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quote:
Originally posted by Dissident
how so? |
Well, you're alone, and you don't seem to enjoy it. Your loneliness affects your self-esteem, as you seem not to feel that you're worth anything to anybody. You're not content with your situation, as you often say that whores are clearly inferior to girlfriends.
A few months ago, you were interested in a girl, but it didn't work out. For the while it lasted, however, you looked like you were having a renaissance, with greater happiness and self esteem. You looked like you had something to strive for.
Now, it's possible that you didn't feel like that at all. Maybe I was just projecting. But the impression was strong, and I think there was much more than projection in any case.
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