17-07-2005 13:06									#181
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I donj't want to just 'get' a women...

I want her to want me.. to like me .... to dig me...

that is a different entire beast....

JM

	17-07-2005 13:12									#182
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quote: Originally posted by Kull The whole "getting a woman ' deal comes down to a few simple points:

lets make this e3ven simpler: 'make them chase you"

remember - all else fails if THAT isn't what they are doing

	17-07-2005 13:14									#183
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none hs aever wanted to chase me!

ah, well, I should continue plan B

JM

	17-07-2005 13:16									#184
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quote: Originally posted by Jon Miller I donj't want to just 'get' a women... I want her to want me.. to like me .... to dig me... that is a different entire beast.... JM

not really. because you don't want just "any" woman, you want THE woman....the one you see that makes your heart pound. but heres the cruel truth. if she knows that, the jig is up! so when you spot, her, be cold and tactical and plan out just how to make her chase you. because she will if you game it roight.

	17-07-2005 13:16									#185
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quote: Originally posted by Kull MAJOR CRISIS! i'm ow reduced to a cold bud lite in a can since i forgot to chill my bottled lovelies....what's the fastest way to make 'em real old???

Fire extinguisher.

Lacking that, ice+water+salt bath...

	17-07-2005 13:21									#186
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quote: Originally posted by Jon Miller none hs aever wanted to chase me! ah, well, I should continue plan B JM

probly because you made it too easy for them....like many (most?) men they thrill from the chase. its your job to confuse them and make them doubt there sexuality and attractiveness. its surprisingly easy. almost every woman , when she looks in the mirror, sees only one thing....her glating flaw. so the doubt is already there (only you think shes a goddess)

and whats plan b?

	17-07-2005 13:24									#187
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quote: Originally posted by Koyaanisqatsi Fire extinguisher. Lacking that, ice+water+salt bath...

i went withg "lacking that" (minus the salt)

	17-07-2005 13:24									#188
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get in shape

and hope that there is some girl out there who wets herself when she sees me

so is willing to get to know me without me doing the right things....

JM

	17-07-2005 13:25									#189
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acutally, more then some girl out there, but enough girls so that I can get connected with one that is good for me

JM

	17-07-2005 13:26									#190
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Why is the ideal of having a woman chase you?? Im not sure that is the route to go. If i like somebody i have no problem telling them. Course I dont have to worry bout that no more.

	17-07-2005 13:27									#191
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Well, what do you look for in a girl, Jon Millier? What's the most important thing to you?

	17-07-2005 13:28									#192
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I have no problem telling someone either...

but I am not one having people return interest

like I was interested in two girls at the party tonight (although I couldn't find out enough about them to determine if they would be intersted in me in the long term, or I would bein terested in them in t ehlon gterm), but from every evidence I can see, they were not interested in me (I might turn out to be wrong.. but I doubt it)

JM

	17-07-2005 13:30									#193
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quote: Originally posted by Ben Kenobi Well, what do you look for in a girl, Jon Millier? What's the most important thing to you?

interested in me

JM

	17-07-2005 13:30									#194
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Did you talk to them?? or just try to find out about them from folks at the party

	17-07-2005 13:32									#195
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oh yeah, I talk to girls

I don't get interested in all in a girl, unless I talk to her

but it seems as if I am not interesting...

actually, as far as physics dorks are concerned, I am good at talking to girls who I don't know...

Jon Miller

	17-07-2005 13:32									#196
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quote: Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski Why is the ideal of having a woman chase you?? Im not sure that is the route to go. If i like somebody i have no problem telling them. Course I dont have to worry bout that no more.

Bingo! "i have no problem telling them" in other words, as a woman you do the choosing. the whole idea of the chase is to make the woman want to choose you when maybe she wouldn't have otherwise.

the 100% rule in man-woman relationships is that "women choose". any advice that ignores this fundamental truth is fatllly flawed.

	17-07-2005 13:34									#197
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quote: Originally posted by Jon Miller interested in me JM

Poor criterion, in that you generally don't see it initially. You need a pre-interested criterion.

	17-07-2005 13:35									#198
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she is a woman, I Am not

I have never been chosen...

and a few times when I could have been (for the most part, I think the girls in these circumstances had nothign to go on, or were looking ofr a 1night only, or something similiar) I determined that they weren't really interested.




JM

	17-07-2005 13:37									#199
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Well g'night everyone.

Thanks for being so good to me.

	17-07-2005 13:39									#200
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quote: Originally posted by Ben Kenobi Well g'night everyone. Thanks for being so good to me.

HEY! You can't leave your own drunk thread! You started this thing, the only moralllly correct way to end it is more drinking followed by iunconciousness!

	17-07-2005 13:41									#201
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quote: Originally posted by Koyaanisqatsi Poor criterion, in that you generally don't see it initially. You need a pre-interested criterion.

interesting, lively, not shallow, honest, not tperfect, but basically depth...

JM

	17-07-2005 13:42									#202
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Ah.

Difficult traits to determine at parties.

	17-07-2005 13:43									#203
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It sounds as you say for the guys to play hard to get. Isnt that playing games?

	17-07-2005 13:44									#204
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actually, generally I can...

but maybe that is part of my problem..

JM

	17-07-2005 13:47									#205
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quote: Originally posted by Jon Miller I have never been chosen... JM

Jon. unless you are brad pitt or some greek god, or you just happen to get lucky (it sounds like a cliche , but this is the stragy of 90% of the guys out there), waiting to be chosen is not very effective. fisrt off most women who are interested will tip uou off. eye contact, play with the hair, remeber your name, etc etfc. if this doesn't happen and you want HER, thats where it gets tactical and you have to game things in ypour favoer

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	17-07-2005 13:47									#206
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Maybe. That was part of what I meant, that expressing or discovering those traits at most parties isn't exactly what most party people want, and is not likely to make people interested in you. Depending on the type of party, at least.

But maybe that's just my general disdain for parties speaking.

	17-07-2005 13:48									#207
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I wonder is it really that hard to find a partner. I have had no trouble in all my 36 years. Why is it so hard?

	17-07-2005 13:51									#208
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generally in a party situation

if there is a girl I think is possibly intersting (and now, even if I see something unattractive, I will still proceed) then I express interest in her and her life...

this is also based upon the theory that most people like talking about themselves.. (hey, I do also)

(genearlly as I get drunker my plans don't work as well, I start talking more about my own life at a point(which isn't neccesarily a good idea, and the idea about talking about my own life at those points is to have some commoness..))

JM

	17-07-2005 13:54									#209
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Good in most circumstances, but it seems to me that most parties are escapist, and therefore it may not fit the situation as well.

The drunk thing probably doesn't help, either.

	17-07-2005 13:55									#210
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quote: Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski It sounds as you say for the guys to play hard to get. Isnt that playing games?

thats what "socitey" calls it. but really it's a recognition that people aren't that much different from those animals that perform a mating dance with showy feathers or "just so" dance steps. the fact is that women choose. and usually its not an intellectual choice nbut something stimulating. written out cold this sounds calculating and cod but thats how the worlsd REALLY works. women choose, and its base on emotion, not fact. as a guy, you can use this knowleged to your advatnge. if at the nd of the day you are a jerk, ta good woman will move on (quickly(, but if the guy is really nice and has a cool soul, then they both win, and whats wrong with that? especially if she wouldn't have notiuced him otherwise?