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Brundlefly
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Nov 2001
time: 00:37
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Originally posted by Dis
Though this poll won't mean as much for male gay dates  . Or lesbian dates for that matter.
It seems as if I'm always expected to pay for everything. From what I have heard about the old days, was you got something in return.  . But I never did. Not that I expect that mind you, that sounds kind of disrespectful. It's like I'm paying for the privlidge of their company. But shouldn't this be an equal relationship?
Granted, the last date I was on was a few years ago. Things may have changed since those days.
Or maybe I was just a sucker. I have this outdated view that women like men to open doors for them and pay for everything.
I think in the future, I'm only going to pay for half. |
If you pay all, then you establish the idea in her head that SHE is the most valuable one in the relationship. It demonstrates to her that you are needy and willing to "purchase" her affections if necessary. Wrong attitude. And, this can lead to her to think that she can manipulate you in other ways. Above all, you want to have a relationship on YOUR terms not hers. To that end, you should go 50/50 at least until the point that you are past the initial dating stage and she has made some type of commitment to you, i.e., sex.
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Shi Huangdi
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Pittsburgh, PA
Apr 1999
time: 00:37
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Originally posted by JohnT
Please, oh master, tell us your dating secrets!!   |
Well ok, since you are such a good friend, here is Shi Huangdi' guarenteed pimping guide:
1. Remember when preparing for your date, that women are very turned off by desperation. If you prepare too much in terms of grooming, you will give the impression that you are over eager. In fact, just forget about basic hygiene altogether: this shows you are so in confident in yourself that you feel you don't need to prepare to suceed.
2. Women like a guy who is intelligent. Show that you are intelligent by talking to her in depth about your ideology when it comes to politics/religion.
3. Deep down, women are the submissive sex and like to be dominated. You can satisfy this subconscious desire by intellectualy dominating her: Probe her in depth about her political and religious beliefs, and begin attacking them as illogical. Extra points if you can show her as contradicting herself.
4. It's important to establish yourself as dominant physically as well. Modern technology gives you a way to appear an agressive alpha male without risking yourself: use your cell phone. At some point during the date, say you need to make a call, and call your voice mailbox. Pretend you are on the phone with someone, and loudly argue with "him" and promise to severely beat him. This is good because it will show you will be willing to use force to protect her.
5. You need to show you know more then just about heavy intellectual topics, but have opinions about less heavy topics as well, such as fashion- so that she knows she can make light conversation as well. Read up on women's fashion beforehand, and then use your knowledge to ruthlessly criticize how she has dressed. She will be very impressed to have found a guy she can talk fashion with.
6. Women are of a compassionate nature. You can use this to your advantage by discussing your problems with her, thus eaning her sympathy and winning you points. Extra points for talking about past relationship troubles: talking about past GFs lets her know you are an experienced man.
7. When the date is ending, it is best to just be direct and ask her straight out for sex. Remember women are rational too, and at this point she either will want you or you won't, so just ask straight out.
Good Luck! 
Last edited by Shi Huangdi on 29-07-2005 at 00:46
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