22-07-2002 01:20									#61
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You're kidding yourself, Rich. You'd love a big, gushy love affair and you know it. Trust Uncle Alex- the worst thing you can do is to try convincing yourself that you're some kind of ice-cool detached brain who has dismissed love.

	22-07-2002 03:52									#62
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I probably am kidding myself, but it is easier to cope that way at times, and besides at the moment, it isn't so much the lack of having much to do that is the problem, but the money to actually do anything, to get out. Besides in this damn city it doesn't seem very likely that I will meet anyone, hence I am so eager to move out of here.

	22-07-2002 04:03									#63
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I haven't dismissed love. I'm deathly afraid of it. I can honestly say that I've never told a girl that I loved her. Not even my mom. I may say that I care for her, but never use the L word. I am afraid of commitment and it is something that I am trying very hard to fight in my current relationship. Well, I have to if I want her.

As for taking others guys' girls. I'm glad that I've never crossed that line. I once had a huge crush on this gorgeously beautiful woman. Didn't find out that she was married until I met her husband. It hurt, but I pursued no further romantic relationship. We're still friends today. The second case, was with a young girl who had a passing resemblance to Julia Stiles. She would flirt with me endlessly, often coming to my apartment in the evenings to talk. But she had a boyfriend so I was powerless to recipricate on her advances. So I tried to find excuses to avoid her every now and then. Eventually we just lost touch all together. And then there was the korean girl...wait...maybe I am a heartbreaker.

	22-07-2002 08:34									#64
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DaShi, if a woman that is involved with someone else is making advances on you, maybe she thinks she'd be better off with you than her boyfriend. The point of the "dating game" is to find the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. And even when you are married, you may not have found the person you want to be your lifemate.

I wouldn't advance myself, but I would at least flirt back (I do). And, because the other person is in a relationship, it is her obligation to make the first move. If she makes an actual advance, don't be afraid to reciprocate. If you want to, you can make it clear to her what she is doing.

	22-07-2002 10:08									#65
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Its pretty much been summed up. Flirt, touch alot so they get used to the idea of touching and it becomes "normal" in the friendship. Then, take it too the next level.

Frogger makes some good points too, except.

"Women want men as much as men want women; they just want them in a different way. A woman feels like she's giving up her pride when she screws a man she hasn't been dating for a while, so the only problem is getting her over this hump. Make it seem natural, and not like you're trying to conquer her or treat her like a prize, and she'll go to bed with you pretty readily..."

I definately disagree. Most women I knew of werent that stupid to go up for the BS talk "I want to help" rant. Most women (from what I know) wont go to bed with anyone readily without the use of alchohol(unless there sluts, never date a slut. Just **** her and get over it)

	22-07-2002 10:13									#66
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FG, what were you like before your glory faded?

	22-07-2002 10:20									#67
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Homework everyone: watch the movie "Election".

I think it's an appropriate one for this topic.

p.s. Dloandal I am, but I was just curious as to how these fine folks would finnesse a femme.

	22-07-2002 10:22									#68
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Show them a picture of this particular "femme." I'm sure they'll all have the same reaction:



And on this board...I'm Emperor, damnit!

	22-07-2002 10:24									#69
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in a good way, or a bad way?

	22-07-2002 10:29									#70
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umm my glory never faded. Its just my paintball callsign

	22-07-2002 10:29									#71
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whoops… sorry "emperor"… oh and in a good way

Alas, twasn't meant to be? Whatever, I have years ahead of me.

	22-07-2002 10:30									#72
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WHO RATED MY THREAD A 1??? surely it's not thaaaat bad…

	22-07-2002 10:31									#73
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I just rated it as a 5.

	22-07-2002 10:32									#74
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*Lung jumps at opportunity to use one of his favourite sayings*


All i can say is:

When in doubt - whip it out!!!

	22-07-2002 10:33									#75
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Thanks
How do you rate a thread anyways? And if you saw this girl, you'd all rate it a five.
Little bit more news, just for the curious: turns out this guy she's dating is around 10 years older than her. :hmm:

	22-07-2002 10:34									#76
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Bottom of the page, between the Quick Reply and the end of the thread contents is a little dropdown "Rate This Thread"

	22-07-2002 10:36									#77
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quote: Originally posted by monolith94 Thanks How do you rate a thread anyways? And if you saw this girl, you'd all rate it a five. Little bit more news, just for the curious: turns out this guy she's dating is around 10 years older than her. :hmm:

5? What, out of 100? Out of 10? Out of 5?

It looks like you'll just have to act more studly Then again, maybe that's not so good advice....

	22-07-2002 13:54									#78
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It's quite easy. Just drive a red Vauxhall Nova with a spoiler and tinted windows, and get a friend to hammer a rhythm out on the dashboard.

	22-07-2002 14:51									#79
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quote: Originally posted by monolith94 Maybe 6 days ago I was hanging out with this girl at the place where she works. I overheard her whisper quietly to a cohort "he's so hot".

Possibly she was referring to your body odor and/or armpit moisture problem.

	22-07-2002 15:00									#80
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quote: Originally posted by Provost Harrison I probably am kidding myself, but it is easier to cope that way at times, and besides at the moment, it isn't so much the lack of having much to do that is the problem, but the money to actually do anything, to get out. Besides in this damn city it doesn't seem very likely that I will meet anyone, hence I am so eager to move out of here.

Listen to Laz!

	22-07-2002 16:20									#81
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quote: Originally posted by Boddington's It's quite easy. Just drive a red Vauxhall Nova with a spoiler and tinted windows, and get a friend to hammer a rhythm out on the dashboard.

(And if I sound bitter...)

	22-07-2002 16:23									#82
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That dialogue is not word for word what was said. And the entire encounter was about 6 hours, it didn't happen all at once.

And RJ, it did happen, so take your trolling profanity elsewhere.

	22-07-2002 16:26									#83
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Laz wasn't trolling, he was just expressing the same thing in a different way. I think he had a point.

	22-07-2002 19:02									#84
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quote: Originally posted by C0ckney (And if I sound bitter...)

Just wait until I have a Porsche.

(Don't crash into it please Rich...)

	22-07-2002 19:05									#85
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Then people will see your car and think; Look a yuppie ****er! Without having to get to know you.

	22-07-2002 19:07									#86
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I don't mind being a yuppie.

Yuppie = young, upwardly mobile.

	22-07-2002 19:10									#87
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Yuppie = selfish stuck up ****.

	22-07-2002 19:13									#88
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Generalisation.

	22-07-2002 19:16									#89
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Anyone who wasn't like that wouldn't want to be known by that term because of that implication.

	22-07-2002 19:17									#90
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As I was only seven when the eighties finished, I probably don't understand all its connotations then.