02-09-2002 12:52									#1
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Have you ever cheated on a significant other?!!?!??

	02-09-2002 12:54									#2
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No, but my one relationship that lasted more than a week ended in her cheating on me

	02-09-2002 12:55									#3
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bummer mang...

	02-09-2002 13:03									#4
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If you never cheated when you were under 30, you may be a saint, but more likely I'd worry a little.

If you're still cheating when you're over 30, you are in the wrong relationship.

	02-09-2002 15:50									#5
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I never had a serious relationship until Mrs Hydey came along, before then is was just sex with no feelings involved.

	02-09-2002 16:43									#6
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I'm married, and my wife is the one and only one. She was, she is and she will be. That's what I promised her.

	02-09-2002 17:20									#7
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Cheating is often just a cowards way of breaking up a relationship. If you're not able to control where you stick your disgusting little limb or you use it as a way out you're not even half of a real man.

	02-09-2002 17:36									#8
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Yes I was drunk and in another country so it didn't count.

She didn't buy it either...

	02-09-2002 18:03									#9
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quote: Yes I was drunk and in another country so it didn't count.

aaaaaaah, it didn't count
advise: if you can't control yourself if you're drunk, don't get drunk. Believe me, everything you do while you're drunk does count.

Suspect: I was drunk while I killed him.
Judge: aaaaah, that changes everything, not guilty.

	02-09-2002 18:19									#10
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I can honestly say that I have never cheated on a g/f, but I´ve had one or two who cheated on me...

	02-09-2002 18:22									#11
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Yes Cyber don't you know your Shakespeare?

Thou has committed fornication
But that was in another country
And besides, the wench is dead.

	02-09-2002 18:25									#12
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quote: Originally posted by Alexander's Horse Yes Cyber don't you know your Shakespeare? Thou has committed fornication But that was in another country And besides, the wench is dead.

Marlowe actually.

	02-09-2002 18:37									#13
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quote: Originally posted by CyberShy I'm married, and my wife is the one and only one. She was, she is and she will be. That's what I promised her.

She's looking over you're shoulder at the screen, isn't she?

	02-09-2002 18:47									#14
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I've never cheated, but have aided and abetted cheating.

	02-09-2002 18:49									#15
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quote: Originally posted by Frogger I've never cheated, but have aided and abetted cheating.

Ditto, btw. I have technically been 'the other guy'

	02-09-2002 18:54									#16
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Wouldn't that be "the other other guy", given your orientation?

	02-09-2002 19:16									#17
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Never have, doubt I will. My previous two ex's broke up with me that way.

	02-09-2002 19:33									#18
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quote: Originally posted by Frogger Wouldn't that be "the other other guy", given your orientation?

That makes my head hurt

SB - sorry to hear about that

	02-09-2002 20:01									#19
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quote: She's looking over you're shoulder at the screen, isn't she?

I'm at work.
If she would be looking over my shoulder, I would tell her I would not reply untill she would be away

	02-09-2002 21:28									#20
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I have never cheated on my wife. But, when I was single, I had an affairs with a few married woman.

	02-09-2002 21:49									#21
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I've only had one real relationship. And I did not cheat. Nor would I cheat. I see no reason to cheat, anyways. I mean, if lack of sex in a relationship becomes a problem, I'd end it before looking elsewhere. And I'm too lazy when it comes to 'playing the field'. I like to find a girl and stick with her. I'm a habit forming person, and I like consistency in my life. I'm also not fond of drama BS.

	02-09-2002 21:57									#22
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I'm not in the type of relationship where cheating has a meaning. But there are two people that if I slept with, my significant other would definetely have something to say.

But well, no one but her really wants me, so it doesn't matter.

	02-09-2002 22:03									#23
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Ha! I'm a step ahead of (and by ahead of I mean "behind") you fools! Not having relationships means you can't cheat! Ha ha!

aw, hell.

	02-09-2002 22:20									#24
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I had a chick cheat on me once, but I've never cheated on anybody. Whenever I get itchy feet I just end the relationship.

	02-09-2002 22:27									#25
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no..never ever ever ever..
however i have been cheated ON (by more than one ofmy partners...yes..i somehow have managed to find alot of losers) and i can say it is the most wretched feeling ever...you end up blaming yourself because you think it was your fault...though eventually you have to come to realize it wasn't you but them who couldn't keep their genetalia to one person......
it's just better to say "we need a break" or break off the relationship rather than go sow your oats in more than one place...
yes i'm very opinionated on the subject

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	02-09-2002 23:54									#26
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Guys who cheat on their so´s deserve to be strung up by their balls (preferably with barbed wire) IMO. You can´t have the cake and eat it at the same time.

And no, I´m really not jealous...

	03-09-2002 00:11									#27
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Nope, I've always had open relationships.

	03-09-2002 00:54									#28
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Does it work for you? I´ve had a few, but they always seem to end in tears ( too possessive I guess )

	03-09-2002 01:11									#29
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quote: Originally posted by Kamrat X Does it work for you? I´ve had a few, but they always seem to end in tears ( too possessive I guess )

I've had open relationships, and they indicate being less committed to one another than you are to yourselves. This is not a slam -- it describes 99% of healthy relationships in high school and college and most in early adulthood as well. Most girls and ALL guys who don't play the field in college are being sexually self-destructive.

A good test of an open relationship when you are an adult (say, 30ish) is the thought experiment of what you'd feel like if you hit a dry spell and had just your s.o. as a partner for an entire year, while they had many, many partners. If you could deal with that, then go for it. If not, then you are probably not in a situation where an open relationship is a good idea.

	03-09-2002 01:21									#30
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I think I´ve already made up my mind on this one. In fact I did it like 5 years ago... When I´m in a relationship there is noone else but my g/f and I. If she starts fooling around with other guys she´s out! And I expect the same from her if I pulled some crap like that.