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JimmyCracksCorn is offline JimmyCracksCorn
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Macedonia - Sovereign country north of Greece.
Dec 2002
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Hey, I'm a first time poster but a looooooong time lurker... like since back when the Ultimate Civ2 Site and the The Ultimate Greek Site (or whatever it was called) merged to form Apolyton.

Anyways, I just thought I'd pose a quick question to you guys as my debut to the forums. Actually, maybe it isn't that quick, although keep in mind I'm really just venting and want to see what an outside observer would think. But here goes.

We're all college students, my friends and I, and we've got this problem. A rather large problem. See, there's this girl that we just don't like at all, in fact we hate her. But the problem is, we don't know how to get rid of her and I was wondering if you guys have ever been in a similar situation?

She's such a snake and a mooch. All she does is pop down (we all live in the same apartment buildings) uninvited, eat our food, make a mess, complain, stay way too long, and bum smokes. She'll be like "want to go for a smoke?" and we'll be like "sure", then when we get outside, she'll wait for someone to take out their pack then be like "does anyone have a smoke I can bum?" Christ, thats what I mean by snake.

Or she'll just come in and start rooting through the fridge without asking and mess up a bunch of clean dishes, or ask to borrow money so she can go to Mcdonalds without having to withdraw at an ATM (even though she makes way more money than any of us).

Actually, it can be funny at times. One of our friends has a car, and she'll call him from the plaza and be like "hey, we're all down at the plaza, come meet us", and so he'll drive over and it will be just her there and she'll be like "I need to get a few groceries real quick", so she'll go into the grocery store and get car loads of groceries and ask my friend (after she buys them) "can you give me a lift home? I'll cook up some food when we get there" and my friend will be like "Well... " then she'll throw a fit saying she can't get the groceries home if he doesn't, and he'll finally submit. Then when he gets to her house and helps bring in all her ****, she'll be like "I'm tired, I'm going to bed..." So there goes 3 hours of his day and a full tank of gas. Haha. Its only funny because its not me.

Now, I've dumped plenty of friends before, but she is by far the worst of them, and to make it stickier, she's one of our best friends' girlfriend. We never liked her, but tolerated her because, obviously, she's our friends girlfriend... we didn't think they would last long, so we didnt worry too much, but now they've moved in together and plan to marry. Jesus.

Anyways, to make a long story short, we want to dump her and still be friends with Brian (our friend). Recently we've come to the conclusion that we can't go on anymore with her (its been over a year), and we've dubbed the effort "Operation: Lose Fatso" I can give you many more examples of things she does (they can be unbelievable at times).

Has anyone else had any similar situations where you have an annoying friend? If so, share your stories!

JimmyCracksCorn is offline JimmyCracksCorn
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Macedonia - Sovereign country north of Greece.
Dec 2002
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By the way, I appologize for how long that was. I didn't mean to put you all to sleep.

Provost Harrison is offline Provost Harrison
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Feb 2000
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Quite simple: plain bluntness. Tell her you are all very angry at her ways and for her to f**k off. The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few. This bloke is going to have to make his decisions...but your friend just can't have both.

JimmyCracksCorn is offline JimmyCracksCorn
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You're right Prov,

But I think we're all a bunch of wussies... we don't want to make our friend mad.

We're looking for more of an underhanded sneaky solution

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Mar 2001
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Prov, hahah I wish I knew you in real life... you're awesome...

Provost Harrison is offline Provost Harrison
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I don't think there is one...well, except one...

...kill her and destroy her body...everyone will just think she disappeared, nothing anyone can do

Traianvs is offline Traianvs
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Belgium, land of plenty (corruption)
Jan 2000
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Wow I know people who have annoying sticky ppl that pretend to be friends (I'm lucky I never have that ****) but this seems a bit worse...

I would do it this way: For instance, that car thingy: Just say right in her face that you haven't got much time, that you have some urgent stuff to do that's way more important.


Or, why don't you ask her to do something for you instead? You could apply the same tactics
It sure looks like she makes you all do things for her, but just ask her for example to wash your dishes for just this one time (you have to go somewhere urgently or something and this chore needs to be done). I think that if all of you do this at the same time, long enough, maybe she'll get the picture, and perhaps she will stop being such a b**ch

FemmeAdonis is offline FemmeAdonis
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Lock your doors so she cant come in.

Dont give her smokes..tell her "do you EVER buy your own?"

if she goes in your fridge say "are you gonna buy groceries to replace all the crap you're eating"

if she asks for more mcdonalds money, tell her you dont have any..

I would be a lot meaner...but thats only because Ive put up with peoples crap toooo much in the past..

My bf had a friend of his stay with us last year, with the agreement that hed contribute money every now and again for groceries....

did he?

no..

did I say anything

No..cuz I didnt wanna be a *****



time passes...he keeps acting like a loser mooch

I get more and more aggravated,,


until one night I here him shuffling around in the kitchenm, heating up MY papa Johns pizza...

and Boooy...It went all linda blair.

I was heated...my bf had to come out and shut me up...

I gave him a place to stay, food to eat...a place to shower////....and all I asked was for a LITTLE bit of money..no rent..no nada...

and you know what he said "you really need to change the way you treat people" I wish I could have bashed him in the skull






NOW..as soon as you tick me off..I'll let you know.











ANYWAY..let the heifer know....tell your friend about howq you feel in regards to his girlfriends actions.

Az is offline Az
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Tell the ***** to **** off.


D L


Sava is offline Sava
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wow, go femme!

Asher is offline Asher
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What college do you go to?

Zylka is offline Zylka
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Was she hot? Because breaking a hot chick who acts like that into something graceful would be the ultimate of tasks. That f*cking rules

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Was she hot? Because breaking a hot chick who acts like that into something graceful would be the ultimate of tasks. That f*cking rules

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and we've dubbed the effort "Operation: Lose Fatso"

Provost Harrison is offline Provost Harrison
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Abso-bloody-lutely Femme You don't have to take sh*t from no one!

Az is offline Az
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now let me get this straight. She's ugly, mean, eats your food, and takes your smokes? wow, do you guys bend over when someone tells he'll kick you in the ass?

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quote:
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What college do you go to?


Ottawa University

Azazel:

Hey, come on, I told you I'm a long time lurker.

Zylka:

As asher pointed out, oh no. She is far from hot. We have all kinds of names for her like stinky, fatso, oscar the grouch, and "kookookachoo" (a reference from the song "I am the walrus" )

And these responses are great guys!

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now let me get this straight. She's ugly, mean, eats your food, and takes your smokes? wow, do you guys bend over when someone tells he'll kick you in the ass?


No, not at all... we're always grouchy when she comes over, but she never gets the hint. We always dodge her phone calls, etc... But she is VERY VERY sneaky and manipulative. I bet she knows we don't like her, but knows that there can be something gained from being around us.

quote:
wow, do you guys bend over when someone tells he'll kick you in the ass?


Besides, give us a break... we're all Canadians.

Provost Harrison is offline Provost Harrison
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I once knew an ugly, fat bird who I was friends with who started to take liberties. She eventually learned that I can get very annoyed when people constantly take liberties. Needless to say, we aren't friends any more.

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This brings up the eternal question of conscience:

Do you think an ugly person is allowed to be a b*tch?

I mean, I think a Goddess has that right to a certain point, and it's kind of cool when one is that way. Yet if you're ugly, it becomes the main focus of criticising the b*tch. Simply put, an ugly b*th is treated as a crime against humanity. Ah, petty!

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This brings up the eternal question of conscience:

Do you think an ugly person is allowed to be a b*tch?

I mean, I think a Goddess has that right to a certain point, and it's kind of cool when one is that way. Yet if you're ugly, it becomes the main focus of criticising the b*tch. Simply put, an ugly b*th is treated as a crime against humanity. Ah, petty!


Oh, Amen. We often discuss how much better our lives would be if she looked just like Britney Speers.

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Get her drunk, when she passes out, write "assh*le"
on her forehead in magic marker and dump her in the
laundry room for the night.

Provost Harrison is offline Provost Harrison
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quote:
Originally posted by Zylka
This brings up the eternal question of conscience:

Do you think an ugly person is allowed to be a b*tch?

I mean, I think a Goddess has that right to a certain point, and it's kind of cool when one is that way. Yet if you're ugly, it becomes the main focus of criticising the b*tch. Simply put, an ugly b*th is treated as a crime against humanity. Ah, petty!


No. I am fairly confident that they would receive the same treatment. Some nice ladies are such b*tches in terms of attitude, and I am not very tolerant of people who are condescending. Generally I will just cut them down with my rapier wit

JimmyCracksCorn is offline JimmyCracksCorn
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laundry room for the night.


Ha! Too bad she doesn't drink, or do drugs.... She will have the occasional toke of a joint when she happens to catch us off guard when we're smoking. After which she will promptly leave because she's gotten something out of us.

She'd never buy her own, that would involve spending money.

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bad choice for female beauty ethalone.

Jimmy: I had a somewhat similar story. He was really annoying. He didn't use me as in asking for food all the time like she does, but he was a real pain in the ass, and was condescending like hell. So at first I started taking shots at him, without missing a chance. It didn't work. So then, I told him that I hate him, I never want to see him, and I wish he was never born. I said that everyone hates him ( pretty true ), and that he's an annoying son of a *****. He didn't bother me for a year or so, but then he started to seek my company again. Sadly, I started taking advantage of him, he'd pay for me in the bus home, I'd 'borrow' money.. now school is gone. I feel rather bad for what I did.

Canadians

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Its better to have to deal with annoying people at this stage in life and learn how to deal with them, that be totally unprepared for when you meet a complete **** somewhere a darn site more important.

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Very true. This world has it's fair share of complete tw*ts...

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a learning experience, you say.

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It's sucks having annoying friends.

She is beyond anoying.

Tell her off, close your door, don't ever talk ot her again.

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Ha! Too bad she doesn't drink, or do drugs....


Jump on Her,hold her down, write "assh*le" on her forehead in magic marker and throw her out the door.

Works eithier way

Oh, dont' forget to yell "Merry Christmas" instead of "three" when your timing yer toss.

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It's sucks having annoying friends.

She is beyond anoying.

Tell her off, close your door, don't ever talk ot her again.


I know, thats what we WANT to do, but she's out friends' girlfriend. And she locks him up in their apartment and won't let him do anything. We feel bad for him and don't want to abandon him... thats why the situation is so sticky.

But for whatever reason he is hooked on her...

 
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