13-07-2003 20:17									#91
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*prepares the paperwork to transfer Wittlich to his department*

	13-07-2003 20:27									#92
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quote: Originally posted by Boddington's The cure is coming back?

Nice homophobic troll.

See ya in a week.

	13-07-2003 20:48									#93
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The most prevelent problem in the gay community seems to be promiscuity. Men are very sexual, so it's natural that relationships that only involve men will be plagued with infidelity and casual sex.

At least that's how most of our gay friends feel.

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quote: Originally posted by Caligastia The most prevelent problem in the gay community seems to be promiscuity. Men are very sexual, so it's natural that relationships that only involve men will be plagued with infidelity and casual sex. At least that's how most of our gay friends feel.

I don't think promiscuity in of itself is a problem particular to homosexuals, since promiscuity is rampant among heterosexuals too.

What I was stating in my initial post, is the prevelance of open-relationships among homosexuals. Is this a problem or not? Are open-relationships as healthy as monogamous relationships?
If one is promiscuous while single, going from one trick to another, but then settles down into a relationship with someone later, that really is not a problem, IMO.

	13-07-2003 22:58									#95
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I'm 6'5" and not the tallest person here?! FIE! FIE I SAY!

What homo title do I get? (Be nice children).

	13-07-2003 23:04									#96
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Do you really want an answer RJ?
...or I should say, are you prepared for an answer?

	13-07-2003 23:06									#97
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"The nastiness comes so easily to your people." - Karen, 'Will and Grace'.

	13-07-2003 23:59									#98
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Y'know, I was just thinking of that quote...

	14-07-2003 00:21									#99
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I think the biggest problem in the gay community is the straight community.


And Starchild gets my vote cuz he talks to me on ICQ.

	14-07-2003 00:25									#100
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Great, I've managed to turn this thread into a gay contest.

	14-07-2003 00:26									#101
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Not like you didn't know it was going to happen as soon as the first post was put down .

	14-07-2003 00:27									#102
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I'd vote for ACOL_Kitty if s/he were still around.

	14-07-2003 00:49									#103
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It's pure tragedy that once a thread is spammed, it cannot be de-spammed.

	14-07-2003 00:50									#104
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The one gay person that I've gotten to know fairly well (good guy, I worked with him and we hung out from time to time) had major depression issues, as well as issues with monogamy. The depression probably had more to do with alcoholism, though. :shrug: Just my observations.

	14-07-2003 00:57									#105
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Depression is a major issue among young gays, especially those that are closeted.

	14-07-2003 00:59									#106
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quote: Originally posted by chegitz guevara And Starchild gets my vote cuz he talks to me on ICQ.

Chegitz .................................................................. never mind, I'll let that one pass - though it is such a tempting target, I'll be good.

	14-07-2003 01:02									#107
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Geez, Apolyton seems to be the only place where both the ZOG and Gay Mafia agendas (ahem) come out into the open.....

	14-07-2003 01:20									#108
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quote: Originally posted by Starchild Agent Starchild reporting for duty sir! Shall I start Operation Boy Bar - attempting to destroy the Heterocentric Orthadoxy by drinking as much as possible? I thought up the plan myself. [/cheap excuse to post photo]

See? He's expecting orders from somebody. Obviously he can't be the leader. I'm the only one who can take that spot. Look, I can do my evil pose:

	14-07-2003 01:23									#109
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quote: Geez, Apolyton seems to be the only place where both the ZOG and Gay Mafia agendas (ahem) come out into the open.....

Didn't you know they are the same thing?

	14-07-2003 01:23									#110
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:O So evil your face fell off!

	14-07-2003 01:28									#111
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Boris, how old are you?! You look like an innocent young boy! ... Though I am intrigued with your "thinkers pose."

	14-07-2003 01:30									#112
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quote: Originally posted by Clear Skies :O So evil your face fell off!

*turns brightness up on his monitor*
Oh no, there it is...

	14-07-2003 01:31									#113
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@ Clear Skies

	14-07-2003 01:50									#114
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Surely someone must be grateful I'm not posting a pic. Very tempting you know

	14-07-2003 02:04									#115
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quote: Originally posted by Boris Godunov See? He's expecting orders from somebody. Obviously he can't be the leader. I'm the only one who can take that spot. Look, I can do my evil pose:

	14-07-2003 02:47									#116
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quote: Originally posted by red_jon Surely someone must be grateful I'm not posting a pic. Very tempting you know

You got your picture for your avatar already.

	14-07-2003 04:28									#117
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quote: Originally posted by Wittlich Boris, how old are you?! You look like an innocent young boy! ... Though I am intrigued with your "thinkers pose."

No, it's his ****er's pose. You can't see his other hand.

	14-07-2003 06:25									#118
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quote: Originally posted by MrFun I don't think promiscuity in of itself is a problem particular to homosexuals, since promiscuity is rampant among heterosexuals too.

So if heteros do it, it's not a problem for gays to do it?
I would say that gays are generally more promiscuous than straights simply because men are more promiscuous than women.

quote: What I was stating in my initial post, is the prevelance of open-relationships among homosexuals. Is this a problem or not? Are open-relationships as healthy as monogamous relationships? If one is promiscuous while single, going from one trick to another, but then settles down into a relationship with someone later, that really is not a problem, IMO.

The reason a lot of people find it difficult to commit to a monogamous relationship is because it requires selflessness. As I see it, the problem with promiscuity is that it's something that deprives you of an experience that can enrich your life immeasurably.

	14-07-2003 07:26									#119
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quote: Originally posted by Caligastia So if heteros do it, it's not a problem for gays to do it? I would say that gays are generally more promiscuous than straights simply because men are more promiscuous than women. The reason a lot of people find it difficult to commit to a monogamous relationship is because it requires selflessness. As I see it, the problem with promiscuity is that it's something that deprives you of an experience that can enrich your life immeasurably.

Well duh -- two wrongs do not make a right. But is promiscuity really a bad thing if one outgrows it later, and decides to settle into a real relationship? Maybe promiscuity is a normal part of an individual's development?

And I partly agree -- look at all the mammal species in which males go bonk one female after another. For some reason, with humans though, women have some sort of counter-balance to men who would normally be non-monogamous in heterosexual relationships. Or maybe that does not make any sense?

But if that is the case, then yeah, I can see why two gay men would have more difficulty in establishing a stable, monogamous relationship. But the other half of the problem, are the homophobic laws that discourage gay men from "settling down."

	14-07-2003 11:26									#120
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Or the laws that don't recognise a gay relationship as a real relationship in the first place.