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Provost Harrison
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The farce is strong with this one.
Feb 2000 time: 05:32
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Well the thing that is in my favour is that they are in breach of contract. I was given a month probationary period which I passed with flying colours, and my good work continued. But unlike your example Gibsie, there were no reasons for dismissal whatsoever apart from their flimsy, concocted excuse. And as someone said, it has only been a month or so, the agency that employed me seems very positive about me going by my phonecall on Friday with them (I am seeing them in person in Leeds on Monday morning). And as the duration was short I can easily work my way around it. But I do want my satisfaction.
Oh Stew, yeah, the whole PhD thing...it was different because I was dissatisfied about the whole situation but I resigned my PhD and it was acknowledged on both sides that things had gone wrong and it was a mutual parting. They provided me with a good reference and made it easy for me to get Jobseekers Allowance. All parties involved agreed I wasn't cut out for the academic life, something they realised more clearly before I did. Hence I have been more successful in an academic environment. My relations with my former department have been cordial, hell, I've been in to help them with trials pretty recently in fact (as a paid volunteer of course, but I certainly wish them all the luck in what they do).
But I will get another job, my experience is too earthscorching to do otherwise 
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Bereta_Eder
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*Rubs eyes*
*Rubs eyes again*
Hello EST!
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Caligastia
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I've been through a wrongful dismissal before, but in NZ. I imagine the laws are fairly similar in England though. Definitely seek legal advice PH - I got a large settlement when I went through this.
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Japher
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Ook! Ook! Ack! Ack! Ack!
Jun 2002 time: 05:32
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When I started learning bassoon I had a great instructor. I advanced rather quickly, as is the norm for me and wind instruments, yet like most kids and many musicians I was also very picky and tempormental about my music. I practiced for perfection and he taught for good enough. We never fought, but one day I showed up for my lesson and he told me he didn't want to teach me any more... and he left it at that, slammed the door in my face.
I had no idea why this happened.
Anyway, a few weeks later I auditioned for a youth orchestra, got in and was offered lessons from the 1st chair of the normal symphony orchestra. I readily accepted, and found him to be not only a much better musician, but a much better instructor who strived for the same level of perfection as I did.
Moral of the story? I don't really have one, just thought since you were out a job you'd have time to waste 
Honestly, this totally sucks. Clear your name.
Many things happen for a reason, it would just be nice to get one!
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Lefty Scaevola
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Oct 2000 time: 23:32
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Edit:
Well replied below, and retracted with apology here.
Last edited by Lefty Scaevola on 03-12-2003 at 05:36
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Provost Harrison
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The farce is strong with this one.
Feb 2000 time: 05:32
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quote: Originally posted by Lefty Scaevola
You had/have little success with romatic relationships. You left college because of you thought you were being screwed over by your professors & administration. Did not you get bumped out of a previous job? Many of your friends only really like you when they are drunk. You are now removed from a job being accused of being a social misfit.
It all bring to mind Despair Inc's poster for"
"DISFUNCTION:
The only consistant feature of your dissatisfying relationships is YOU."
Perhaps some introspection and 'heal thyself' is in order. |
Interesting, but the problem on my half has been self-loathing rather than loathing from others. Now you seem to have failed to grasp the situation - I have had an unfortunate sequence of events that I cannot attribute to anything other than pure misfortune.
Now the Ph.D. My problem there was facilities and supervision. My original supervisor left early in my Ph.D and I never got the supervision I needed, and thus, I kind of got lost and never received any facilities. You are forgetting that I resigned from my Ph.D. Between me and academic medicine, there is no bad atmosphere. I still assist if they are having a trial (as a volunteer) and so on, and have a friendly talk and laugh with everyone when I am there. There is no animosity between me and that department, it just didn't work out. Also bear in mind that they have a track record here - another Ph.D student departed shortly after me, and I know for a fact that another one was looking for another job and had registered grievances with the postgraduate research institute. So again, you are reading things into a situation which just weren't there.
Ah, now my following job at Reckitt Benckiser. I wasn't forced out, I departed that job to leave for this one. I was underpaid and overworked, but apart from that, I was respected and well liked. The complaints I had about the company were the same as anyone else has had. And the fact that after a year I was never offered a permanent position because it was financially more convenient for them to keep me ongoing.
Oddly enough, I don't drink a great deal, so very few of my encounters with friends are when any party is drunk. A couple of pints are quite nice to relax, but believe me, I don't need it.
Now this present situation is completely different. Up to the 48 hours before my dismissal they were in complete praise of my ability - just some slight concern about me not fitting in, but it is hardly like I am going to have strong interpersonal relationships with everyone in the course of a month is it? Then in the period of 48 hours, I was verbally and emotionally abused and degraded, then reassured that there is no threat to my position some 24 hours before I was dismissed. Now with all due respect Lefty, you don't know what the f**k you are talking about, and keep on with this kind of attack and you will find the precious little respect you have gained evaporating. There are people here who know me and my person. But again, you are probably another example of a 'cog in the system' which have caused me so many problems and treat me as a complete outsider.
And besides, I have another interview on the 10th December and this job is in Manchester so I will be able to get out of this area if it works out 
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