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Strong Support Is Found for Ban on Gay Marriage
By KATHARINE Q. SEELYE
and JANET ELDER

Published: December 21, 2003

The latest New York Times/CBS News poll has found widespread support for an amendment to the United States Constitution to ban gay marriage. It also found unease about homosexual relations in general, making the issue a potentially divisive one for the Democrats and an opportunity for the Republicans in the 2004 election.

Support for a constitutional amendment extends across a wide swath of the public and includes a majority of people traditionally viewed as supportive of gay rights, including Democrats, women and people who live on the East Coast.

Attitudes on the subject seem to be inextricably linked to how people view marriage itself. For a majority of Americans — 53 percent — marriage is largely a religious matter. Seventy-one percent of those people oppose gay marriage. Similarly, 33 percent of Americans say marriage is largely a legal matter and a majority of those people — 55 percent — say they support gay marriage.

The most positive feelings toward gay people were registered among respondents under 30, and among those who knew gay people.

The nationwide poll found that 55 percent of Americans favored an amendment to the constitution that would allow marriage only between a man and a woman, while 40 percent opposed the idea.

The findings come after the highest court in Massachusetts ruled 4 to 3 last month that same-sex marriage was permissible under the state's Constitution. That ruling followed a 6-to-3 decision in late June by the United States Supreme Court striking down antisodomy laws.

President Bush had been noncommittal about a constitutional amendment immediately after the Massachusetts ruling, with the administration worried that support for a ban on gay marriage would alienate moderate voters. But last week Mr. Bush for the first time voiced his support, saying, "I will support a constitutional amendment which would honor marriage between a man and a woman, codify that."

The statement signals the White House's increasing confidence that it can exploit the matter in the presidential campaign, both to energize its evangelical supporters and to discredit the eventual Democratic nominee.

Most of the Democratic candidates oppose gay marriage but favor civil unions. Howard Dean, who is leading in the polls for the Democratic nomination, signed a law when he was governor of Vermont allowing civil unions, an action that Republicans have already used to portray him as too liberal for mainstream America.

The court rulings generated extensive publicity and concern, not only about same-sex marriage but also about having the courts set social agendas that have not been approved by the legislative process.

"We have found that the more people focus on it, the less they support it," said the Rev. Lou Sheldon, chairman of the Traditional Values Coalition, which strongly opposes gay marriage and is working actively for a constitutional ban.

The Times/CBS News poll was conducted from Dec. 10 through Dec. 13 in telephone interviews with 1,057 people. It carries a margin of sampling error of plus or minus three percentage points. Responses about gay rights tend to be influenced somewhat by the wording of the questions.

This poll and other surveys show that as the courts have extended legal rights to gays this year, Americans have become increasingly uncomfortable with same-sex relations.

For decades, a majority of Americans have not approved of homosexual relations. That had begun to change, until the Supreme Court ruling in June and the Massachusetts ruling in November. A New York Times/CBS News poll conducted in July found that 54 percent of respondents said homosexual relations should be legal. Only 41 percent of the respondents in the latest poll said they should be legal.

Richard Waters, 71, a retired elementary school teacher in Little Valley, N.Y., and a Republican, said in a follow-up interview to the poll that he strongly supported a constitutional amendment banning gay marriage.

"I think any kind of amendment that says `You shall not' will help," Mr. Waters said. "I just don't think it's right for two men to go parading around in public or for two women to be doing the things they do. It's against God's law. That's right in the Bible that it's wrong."

Theresa Eaton, 49, a financial analyst in Corona, Calif., and also a Republican, agreed.

"I still believe that marriage should be between a man and woman," she said. "If I knew that we had a neighbor who was gay, I would not let my nieces and nephews go close by there. I don't want to accept their lifestyle. It can be acquired and it is not right."

The poll also found that by a 61-34 margin, Americans oppose gay marriage. They are slightly more accepting of civil unions to give gays some of the same legal rights as married couples, with 54 percent opposed to civil unions and 39 percent supportive.

The Massachusetts ruling also gave new impetus in Congress to sponsors of a constitutional amendment to ban gay marriage. An amendment, which would require passage by two-thirds of the House and Senate and three-fourths of the states, would override any state court ruling or legislation.

Representative Marilyn Musgrave, Republican of Colorado, who introduced a constitutional amendment in the House in May, said on Friday that she had 106 co-sponsors. The companion measure in the Senate still has only a handful of supporters.

"Homosexual activists have known that they're not going to get their way in the legislative arena, and they shopped around for activist judges," Ms. Musgrave said. "But if the definition of marriage is to be changed, it should be done by the American people, not four judges in Massachusetts."

Her measure would ban gay marriage. Some gay rights groups say its language is ambiguous on civil unions, but she said on Friday that her intent was to allow states to conduct civil unions but not let them be recognized in other states.

At the moment, only Vermont allows civil unions. In California, a domestic partnership bill giving gay couples limited rights is to go into effect in 2005, but it is under threat of a legal challenge.

Some groups on the religious right who are eager for a constitutional ban on gay marriage said Ms. Musgrave's measure did not go far enough. Mr. Sheldon, for one, said his group was seeking to ban civil unions and domestic partnership laws as well as same-sex marriage.

He said his group and others were lobbying President Bush to assert in his State of the Union address in January that he will also seek a ban on civil unions and domestic partnership laws. The groups are preparing to flood the White House with e-mail messages on the subject.

Jan LaRue, counsel to Concerned Women for America, a conservative religious policy organization, said her group was involved in a public education campaign on "why marriage is important and needs to be protected." She added, "We are part of a broad coalition that is using bumper stickers, newspaper ads, articles on our Web sites and assisting with amicus briefs."

Gay rights groups expressed dismay with the poll results but said they doubted that a constitutional amendment would pass the initial stage through Congress.

"The Republican House leadership is having its own internal fight to determine what to do," said Winnie Stachelberg, political director of the Human Rights Campaign.

"There is no consensus among conservatives, libertarians and Republicans," she said. "Many of them say they don't support marriage for same-sex couples, but to amend the Constitution for social issues is a very bad idea."

The last time the Constitution was amended for social purposes was in 1920, when alcohol was outlawed, but that prohibition was repealed in 1933.

Sanford Levinson, a constitutional expert at the University of Texas Law School in Austin, said it was extremely hard to amend the Constitution. If the ban on gay marriage passed the House and Senate, he said, opponents could stop it by getting the support of one house of the legislature in just 13 states.

Mr. Levinson said President Bush's support was "a free pass" because he probably knows how difficult it would be to get through Congress, let alone through 38 states.

"The idea is for Bush to throw red meat to the Republican right, secure in the knowledge that this is not going to go anywhere," he said. "If it did go anywhere, it would tear the Republican Party apart."

Even in an age when gay couples are routinely portrayed on television and constitute a prosperous demographic that advertisers have been overtly appealing to, the Times/CBS News poll found the country still sharply divided over homosexuality.

Half of the respondents said they viewed homosexual relations between adults as morally wrong. Moreover, an overwhelming majority, 87 percent, said they thought most people would not accept having same-sex couples married within their church, synagogue or place of worship. Sixty percent said they themselves would not accept such unions in their own places of worship.

"I want my children to grow up and be normal people like me and my father and my grandfather was," said Ziad Nimri, 41, a salesman and a Democrat who lives in Spokane, Wash. "I don't want my children to start getting ideas. They see it's out in the open and you see men kissing men on television these days."

Mr. Nimri said he was also worried that if gays were allowed to marry, they would get other rights too, like tax benefits. "Because they're a minority, they're going to start actually giving them more privileges than normal people would have," he said. "Minorities always tend to get more than your average person does."

One of the few people interviewed who was not opposed to legally recognized same-sex marriages was Cliff Martin, 47, an unemployed Democrat in Gainesville, Fla. "I think gays should be allowed to marry because it's not something that threatens other people," he said.


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I mean c'mon, do we really need an amendment to marginalize homosexuals in America? Don't we drive the point home pretty well already? Isn't anything more just paranoia-based overkill?

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49% against gay marraige according to what I heard on the radio tonight.

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Isn't anything more just paranoia-based overkill?


How is it "paranoia-based"? Gay marriage has already been legalized in Canada and several US states are moving towards it. Seems like a pretty compelling reason to think that the traditional definition of marriage is being changed, something that many people do not approve of and would like to see stopped.

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yes but the status as is- is just fine. The status as is does not allow gay marriage.

So there is no need to institute a formal ban on gay marriage as my state did.

Look at what Nevada passed in 2000 and 2002. A completely useless thing on our constitution that only recognizes a marraige as being between a man and a woman.

But that's what marriage was before. There was no need to create something defining a marriage as being between a man and a woman.

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yes but the status as is- is just fine. The status as is does not allow gay marriage.

So there is no need to institute a formal ban on gay marriage as my state did.


I'm not in agreement with these people. I voted against Nebraska's "Defense of Marriage" amendment. I'm just saying that these folks are not being paranoid in thinking that gay marriage might be made legal, probably through a judicial backdoor like in Massachusetts.

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How is it "paranoia-based"?


I propose a constitutional amendment which proclaims that cocaine use is illegal.

Get it?

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that Mass. thing won't stand though.

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I propose a constitutional amendment which proclaims that cocaine use is illegal.

Get it?


His point is that the SCOTUS could concievably say that laws that restrict marriage to man and woman are unconstitutional. So they aren't being paranoid, because it could happen.

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Get it?


Horrible analogy. No state supreme courts are on the verge of making cocaine use legal, as they are in the case of gay marriage. The thing that a constitutional amendment does is help to hold off legislation by the judiciary, which is the only way gay marriage will become legal in the near future, given the sharp split over the issue in the populace at large.

edit: Imran got it.

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not with the current SCOTUS

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that Mass. thing won't stand though.


Unless Massachusetts passes a Constitutional Amendment it will.

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orange is gay

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Drake - It's a bad literal analogy, yes, I admit that. But I think the point is that, while it is understood that a state here and there can challenge the norm, there is an abundence of anti-homosexuality feeling in the United States. It's as if going for a constitutional amendment is not about preventing a state from 'sneaking' some pro-gay legislation through, but rather, holding up a big sign and proudly asserting "NO GAYS ALLOWED"

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'd be a lot more gay if I was done this damn paper and sleeping

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It's as if going for a constitutional amendment is not about preventing a state from 'sneaking' some pro-gay legislation through, but rather, holding up a big sign and proudly asserting "NO GAYS ALLOWED"


Why do you say that? The movement towards an anti-gay marriage amendment didn't start until after state courts had begun flirting with legalized civil unions and gay marriages, so it seems pretty clear that this is an attempt to stem judicial activism in this area, not just run-of-the-mill homophobia.

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I suppose because I feel its being used as the justification for an amendment which these people would support anyway. I think they're also quite aware of the likelihood of failure. That's where the 'paranoia' and the 'homophobia' come in...it's about sending a message, not being model active democratic citizens.

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There's a lot of easier ways to "send a message"...

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Sure, but at least this way it's legally and morally permissable. After all, these are fine upstanding Christians we're talking about.

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Responses about gay rights tend to be influenced somewhat by the wording of the questions.


I would like to know what the question in the poll were.

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President Bush had been noncommittal about a constitutional amendment immediately after the Massachusetts ruling, with the administration worried that support for a ban on gay marriage would alienate moderate voters. But last week Mr. Bush for the first time voiced his support, saying, "I will support a constitutional amendment which would honor marriage between a man and a woman, codify that."


Well there's a strong commitment if I ever saw one! I'm sure glad he's our president! :vomit:

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"I still believe that marriage should be between a man and woman," she said. "If I knew that we had a neighbor who was gay, I would not let my nieces and nephews go close by there. I don't want to accept their lifestyle. It can be acquired and it is not right."


So now gayness can be transmitted by merely passing by the dwelling of gay people! ****! ****ing ****! I actually work with some gay people! Must resist...turning...gay...

This is why America is a republic. We're too dumb to run a democracy. Fvcking morons.

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I'm with the majority.

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The majority are idiots.

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Correction: the majority are uninformed, while Park Avenue is a dumbass bigoted *******

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I see some people are just DEMANDING TO BE RESTRICTED.

Park... you've been warned before about your anti gay crap, knock it off... and Skywalker... get personal again and you are toast as well...

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I'm not being anti-gay Ming, I'm being pro-marriage.

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Whatever stewie... I wouldn't recommend your "normal" crap.

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Such as what? Which comments of mine in this thread are you directly referring to?

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Yeah, you know, and in the 1850s most Americans didn't support freeing the slaves either.

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We should always do what the minority wants shouldn't we!! It's so clear now.

 
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