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There are many references to ‘sexual immorality’ and “the sexually immoral” within the bible, most of them in the NT by Paul, but they seem to be referring to adultery, incest, and other perversions. Don’t really see any specific NT references to premarital sex as immoral. Don’t even see that implied. It was St Augustine who first floated that idea in his Confessions:

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In Book 2 of the Confessions Augustine describes his further descent into moral disorder during his adolescent years. By the time that a youth reaches adolescence, and becomes conscious of the demands of the moral law, his sins take on a far more troubling dimension than they previously had: whereas the child cannot be held personally accountable for his sins, the adolescent, by freely and consciously choosing to transgress God’s law, incurs a far greater penalty for his transgressions than he previously would have incurred.

In 2.2 Augustine contrasts the ordered love ( caritas), in which the soul loves created thing in God, and disordered love (cupiditas or LUST), in which the soul craves created things for their own sake. Augustine's lust leaves him "storm-tossed" and "boil[ing] over in [his] fornication." During this period he describes himself as sinking further and further into his own depravity, because there was no one around who could put "measure on [his] disorder. [Remember: although he is nominally a Catholic he is not officially a member of any Church because he has yet to be baptized]

He comes home from Madura for a short reprieve from his studies. We get the sense in chapter 2.3 that he believes that his parents failed to provide him with the kind of guidance he needed to avoid falling to sexual temptation. Instead of imparting a unified message about the dangers of sexual activity outside of marriage, they all but justified his illicit behavior. Although his mother Monica initially warned Augustine against premarital intercourse, she almost immediately qualified her warning by discouraging him instead against adultery—a message which he evidently took to heart. Still worse, his father seemed completely uninterested "in how chaste I was," and at times even encouraged his burgeoning sexuality.

Although there is some speculation about the extent of Augustine's wanton activities during this period, most scholars maintain that Augustine did nothing worse than the average young adult in Roman society. Remember: he is writing the Confessions after his conversion and like all converts he is hyper-sensitive about his failings.


That book was relevant in the 4th century. It was based on 4th century morality not on scripture. Read something interesting online about biblical references to fornication as well:

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I Cor 6:9 badly mistranslate "porneia" as fornication. Corinth was a wide-open port city. People there could get sex any way they wanted it. Where our English translations read 'fornication', Paul's original Greek word was 'porneia' which means to sell and refers to slaves bought and sold for cultic prostitution. What was happening in the Temples of Corinth was farmers were visiting the temple priestesses who represented the fertility Gods. By having sex with these prostitutes they believed their fields would be more fertile. It didn't even have to do with going to prostitutes, but pagan cultic worship.

In Rome, the Latin prostitutes would hang out in small alley's and behind small L shaped walls. In Latin the shape is called FORNIX, hence the place association with acts of prostitution gave "fornicatio" Where Paul was condemning sex goddess, cultic, prostitution or trafficking in slaves for that purpose, the Latin fathers substituted 'fornicatio', which led readers to believe that Paul was condemning all forms of premarital sexual intercourse."

Some modern English Bible versions translate "porneia" as "sexual immorality", a term which is supposed to clarify the somewhat obscure and dated "fornication", but is really a catch-all term that allows interpreters, both professional and lay, to apply this passage to any sexual behavior at all, far beyond the specific practices to which Paul refers.

From "Halley's Bible Handbook" 1 Cor. 6: 9-20; "Venus was the principal Deity of Corinth. Her temple was one of the most magnificent buildings in the city. In it a thousand Priestesses, Public Prostitutes, were kept, at public expense, there always ready for Immoral Indulgence, as worship to their Goddess." The Christians continued to go to the temple for sexual indulgences with the priestesses of Venus. This was all Paul was talking about and he says nothing about loving sexual pleasure-sharing with non-goddesses'!

It does violation to the Biblical text to assume I Cor.6:9 includes pre-marital sex, especially since that is not the context of the discussion, either of that chapter or of the surrounding chapters. The context of I Cor.6 is the problems with the Temple of Aphrodite. Sex with those prostitutes was idolatrous. The argument that Paul condemns singles' sex here or anywhere else in scripture is faulty interpretation. Such a position is illogical because your assumptions are based on emotional constructs rather than on history and on hard evidence.

Nothing in the NT indicates any prohibition of singles' sexuality. It seems that if we apply Jesus' teaching of love over legalism, responsible Christian sexuality is much more an example of Christ's loving desire for us than the traditional biblical values of many wives, concubines as breeders, and capturing women in battle for soldiers' sexual pleasure!

A Prodigy poster said: "..I think that David H's post cannot be so easily dismissed. I am not a theologian-although I did attend a seminary...and I have studied a fair amount of Greek.....While at the seminary, I wrote a paper on the translation of "porneia". As you must know if you have studied the question, "fornication" is a bald mistranslation of "porneia" (even my very conservative Greek professor conceded this point). If one discounts the N.T. passages containing this mistranslation--including the selection from Thessalonians...there is little remaining support for the position that the Bible condemns premarital sexuality....if one takes an objective view of what the Bible has to say on the subject, sexuality outside of marriage seems to be accepted....I would also acknowledge that most people would be happier...if they would simply accept the church's traditional position...But to condemn all sexuality outside of marriage as sin seems to go well beyond what the Bible teaches--and Paul has a good deal to say about that in Galatians."

All of us should search our own spirits. God can lead people differently, resulting in reaching different people in sharing Christ's love. We also must respect others' beliefs but try not to cause another to stumble, since some cannot handle emotionally anything other than the traditional Church view.

Again a Prodigy poster: "Scripture is only one way God speaks to us and has a number of limitations because it was not written with modern conditions in mind. While reading scripture is useful, it is only useful when done in prayer.. and in not relying on the Holy Spirit but relying instead on the Bible as a substitute for His wisdom. In the absence of unambiguous mandate from scripture, it is wrong for me to impose a personal moral code on others who believe differently".

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There are various references in the Hebrew bible to "harlotry" but exactly what is meant is unclear, IIRC. Theres also a legal item that says that if a bride is not a virgin, she is entitled to a lesser bride price than normal. Not a big sanction. Although later interpretation said that since shes entitled to lower bride price, she has to tell her groom before the marriage, and it needs to be reflected in her (public) marriage contract, or else there are grounds for (mandatory, IIRC) annulment. Publicly announcing on your wedding day that youre a non-virgin was apparently a pretty effective deterrent in those days.

But no flogging, stoning, or anything like that.

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Luckily my moral code doesn't depend upon what some itinerant sheep farmers thought, thousands of years ago.

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Luckily my moral code doesn't depend upon what some itinerant sheep farmers thought, thousands of years ago.


seeing as youre not Jewish (your namesake was though, wasnt she?) , theres no particular reason you should feel bound by a law that, on its own terms, was given to the Jews.

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I read in the Bibble that if you have pre-marital sex, then you are considered married to that person. I don't remember where it was though. Of course, if you then go an sleep with someone else, you're committing adultry, and can be executed.

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I read in the Bibble that if you have pre-marital sex, then you are considered married to that person. I don't remember where it was though. Of course, if you then go an sleep with someone else, you're committing adultry, and can be executed.


Religion is freakin stupid in some ways.

Spec.

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The problem is that admonitions against "fornication" also appear in:

Acts 15:20
Galatians 5:19
Ephesians 5:3
Colossians 3:5
1 Thessalonians 4:3

I think it's harder to explain those passages away, esp. since they aren't addressing anyone in Corinth. I suppose one could argue that they all use "fornication" in the same manner, but I would be curious to see what the original Greek says.

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I read in the Bibble that if you have pre-marital sex, then you are considered married to that person. I don't remember where it was though. Of course, if you then go an sleep with someone else, you're committing adultry, and can be executed.


I dont recall the text, but in later Jewish law this is essentially what we call common law marriage. You can marry someone by exchanging gifts, OR you can marry by intercourse. BUT - you have to INTEND the intercourse as a form of marriage, or it dont count. This comes up in the case of granting annulments, a difficult problem in Jewish law, since a divorce must be granted by the husband, an impossibility if hes, say, absconded, or simply refuses to show up in a rabbinic court to grant the divorce. In such cases freeing the woman to remarry requires an annulment, and one wants to do that on actual legal grounds. One ground is that the marriage ceremony was faulty. A reform marriage ceremony, which probably wont have proper witnesses according to J law as interpreted by the Orthodox (or even Conservative) WOULD be faulty, and so annulment could be granted on that ground. (this is helpful in cases where the couple started Reform, the wife became Orthodox, and the Reform husband refuses on ideological grounds to go before an Orthodox rabbinic court) The counter is that the couple had intercourse and so are married anyway. The counter to THAT is that because the couple INTENDED their Reform ceremony to establish their marriage, they did NOT intend the intercourse to do so, and so it did not. QED.

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in at least one early Jewish text, its said that a good father insures his daughter is married young, to avoid harlotry. Its simply taken for granted that if folks are unmarried for too long, pre-marital sex will result. A more realistic view of human nature than some others, one might say?

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A more perverted view of human nature than some others, one might say?

I agree.

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A more realistic view of human nature than some others, one might say?


Nawwwww.

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It was Paul who wrote that man and woman are "one flesh," regardless of other circumstances. It gets a mention in the Screwtape Letters too, that's how I know about it.

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Is someone feeling guilty?

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i sure don't.

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Is someone feeling guilty?


Yes, my girlfriend is. I'm trying to build this argument to put her at ease..

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you might do well to point out some of the pleasantries of leviticus, too.

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leviticus is the best book of the bible

followed by revelations, because it's freakin' nuts

and the Genesis, because it's also freakin' nuts

funny how all the made up stuff in the bible is the best... as well as all the crazy rules.

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1. Leviticus 25:44 states that I may possess slaves, both male and female, provided they are purchased from neighboring nations. A friend of mine claims that this applies to Mexicans, but not Canadians. Can you clarify? Why can't I own Canadians?

2. I would like to sell my daughter into slavery, as sanctioned in Exodus 21:7. In this day and age, what do you think would be a fair price for her?

3. I know that I am allowed no contact with a woman while she is in her period of menstrual uncleanliness - Lev.15:19-24. The problem is how do I tell? I have tried asking, but most women take offense.

4. When I burn a bull on the altar as a sacrifice, I know it creates a pleasing odor for the Lord - Lev.1:9. The problem is, my neighbors. They claim the odor is not pleasing to them. Should I smite them?

5. I have a neighbor who insists on working on the Sabbath. Exodus 35:2. clearly states he should be put to death. Am I morally obligated to kill him myself, or should I ask the police to do it?

6. A friend of mine feels that even though eating shellfish is an abomination - Lev. 11:10, it is a lesser abomination than homosexuality. I don't agree. Can you settle this? Are there 'degrees' of abomination?

7. Lev. 21:20 states that I may not approach the altar of God if I have a defect in my sight. I have to admit that I wear reading glasses. Does my vision have to be 20/20, or is there some wiggle-room here?

8. Most of my male friends get their hair trimmed, including the hair around their temples, even though this is expressly forbidden by Lev. 19:27. How should they die?

9. I know from Lev. 11:6-8 that touching the skin of a dead pig makes me unclean, but may I still play football if I wear gloves?

10. My uncle has a farm. He violates Lev.19:19 by planting two different crops in the same field, as does his wife by wearing garments made of two different kinds of thread (cotton/polyester blend). He also tends to curse and blaspheme a lot. Is it really necessary that we go to all the trouble of getting the whole town together to stone them? Lev.24:10-16. Couldn't we just burn them to death at a private family affair, like we do with people who sleep with their in-laws? (Lev. 20:14)

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The Bible is basically BS. Anything worthwhile in all the Western religions was pillaged from Greek Philosophy.

The Bible is a work of spiritual, moral and emotional crudity with a heavy dash of sexual neurosis.

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The religious nuts should read all the racy poetry in Songs of Solomon before they start blabbering on about how sex for pleasure is immoral.

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we should just burn all copies of the bible: the world would be a better place for it.

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Agathon's approach probably wouldn't be the best approach to getting into your girlfriend's pants bfg. Self Biased's approach wouldn't be of much value either as that's not her hang up.

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He should find a woman with less neuroses.

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1. Leviticus 25:44 states that I may possess slaves, both male and female, provided they are purchased from neighboring nations. A friend of mine claims that this applies to Mexicans, but not Canadians. Can you clarify? Why can't I own Canadians?



your friend is incorrect. Neighboring nations means anyone whos not an Israelite. But more important is the principle of "dina d'malchuta dina" the law of the state IS law - since slavery is illegal in the US, to keep a slave WOULD violate Jewish law. Ditto trading stocks on insider knowledge. Assuming you are posting from the US.

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2. I would like to sell my daughter into slavery, as sanctioned in Exodus 21:7. In this day and age, what do you think would be a fair price for her?


see above

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3. I know that I am allowed no contact with a woman while she is in her period of menstrual uncleanliness - Lev.15:19-24. The problem is how do I tell? I have tried asking, but most women take offense.


A woman who keeps jewish law would know, and if unsure would know whom to ask. If she does NOT keep Jewish law, than a nice Jewish boy like yourself shouldnt be in contact with her anyway.

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When I burn a bull on the altar as a sacrifice, I know it creates a pleasing odor for the Lord - Lev.1:9. The problem is, my neighbors. They claim the odor is not pleasing to them. Should I smite them?



The temple was destroyed in 69 CE. Its NOT permitted to render animal sacrifices anywhere else. If you have done so you have committed a major sin, and you should see a rabbi immediately.

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I have a neighbor who insists on working on the Sabbath. Exodus 35:2. clearly states he should be put to death. Am I morally obligated to kill him myself, or should I ask the police to do it?


1. If hes not Jewish, theres no problem, since the Sabbath is binding on Jews only. Second, see Dina d'malchuta dina above - there are alternate ways to punish a sabbath breaker today, most of which involve forms of ostracism and exclusion from Jewish ritual acts. third, ANY imposition of the death penalty for any reason MUST be imposed only by a properly constituted rabbinic court, and even such a court must do so as sparingly as possible. As it is written in the Talmud, a court that imposes the death penalty more than once a generation is a bloody court.

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A friend of mine feels that even though eating shellfish is an abomination - Lev. 11:10, it is a lesser abomination than homosexuality. I don't agree. Can you settle this? Are there 'degrees' of abomination?


You are correct. Scientific studies show homosexuality may be hereditary, and so leniency must be found for a lifestyle that is apparently not a choice. I have yet to see evidence that craving for crab cakes is hereditary, outside of Maryland.


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Lev. 21:20 states that I may not approach the altar of God if I have a defect in my sight. I have to admit that I wear reading glasses. Does my vision have to be 20/20, or is there some wiggle-room here?



Again, this refers to the sacrificial altar in the Temple, destroyed in 69 CE. No Temple, no problem. In any case I dont think you can approach the altar if your not a Kohen. Are you a Kohen?


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Most of my male friends get their hair trimmed, including the hair around their temples, even though this is expressly forbidden by Lev. 19:27. How should they die?


Its not a capital offense, IIRC. They SHOULD and would be excluded from ultraOrthodox Jewish circles. I note that observant Conservative and Modern Orthodox Jews DO cut the hair around the temples (the "peahs") Im not sure of the legal reasoning allowing this leniency, but could try looking it up.

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9. I know from Lev. 11:6-8 that touching the skin of a dead pig makes me unclean, but may I still play football if I wear gloves?


A very good question. I will have to look this up.

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10. My uncle has a farm. He violates Lev.19:19 by planting two different crops in the same field, as does his wife by wearing garments made of two different kinds of thread (cotton/polyester blend). He also tends to curse and blaspheme a lot. Is it really necessary that we go to all the trouble of getting the whole town together to stone them? Lev.24:10-16. Couldn't we just burn them to death at a private family affair, like we do with people who sleep with their in-laws? (Lev. 20:14)


Not only are the agricultural laws incumbent on Jews only, for the most part they are incumbent only in the land of Israel. Once again these are NOT capital offenses. By the way AFAIK theres no issue with cotton/poly blends, its only wool/linen blends that are at issue. There are trained rabbis who can inspect any questionable cloth for you.


hope this helps

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Er, did our resident philosopher, heir to the enlightenment, just advise us to burn books? Riiiiiiight...

Odin, just for the record, I don't think sex for pleasure is immoral myself. I just think it should not be taken lightly, if for no other reason than because it can result in the conception of children and (apparently) can have strong emotional effects on the participants. I'll refrain from really discussing the issue till I'm married (read: "informed"), but I hope everyone remembers that there's room between "Only reluctantly, for the perpetuation of the species, and think of the crucifixion the whole time" and "Let's wrestle naked in jello with twelve lesbian midgets."

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Yep. Those Enlightenment guys were saps... Greek philosophy all the way baby.

The Bible sucks. It's dumb, and the literary equivalent of American Idol.

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Agathon's approach probably wouldn't be the best approach to getting into your girlfriend's pants bfg. Self Biased's approach wouldn't be of much value either as that's not her hang up.


Everyone is entitled to their opinion. And Ag and SB raise interesting points, but I hope that we dont lose sight of the thread topic here. Aside from my personal stake in this matter, I am also interested in challenging an idea that is widely held in Christian circles but is also an idea that no one ever dares to challenge in those circles. I don't think it is wrong to ask what the scriptural basis is for church doctrine since church doctrine is supposed to be based on scripture... Thanks to Boris for his post - I will post a reply shortly..

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It's an idea that is widely held in Xtian circles, but has nothing to do with scriptural authority.

Religion isn't about evidence or authorities or anything like that - it is about projecting one's prejudices onto reality. If you could decisively prove that there was nothing in scripture against premarital sex, it would make no difference at all - people don't care about what the Bible actually says, they care about what they want it to say - and such prejudice cannot be removed.

And St Augustine was a poor Platonist. Plotinus all the way baby!!

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And Ag and SB raise interesting points, but I hope that we dont lose sight of the thread topic here.
It's not about us helping you get into the sack with your girlfriend?

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" 2) Related question: Is it permitted to wear pigskin shoes, carry a
> pigskin wallet, and/or touch a pigskin football? One the one hand, one
> is not supposed to come in contact with that carcass of a non-kosher
> animal, but most people swat flies, and many wear pigskin shoes, etc.

It is permitted to do all of these things. I don't know where people
get the idea that one shouldn't touch the carcass of an unkosher
animal. Such contact does impart tum'ah, but so does the carcass
of a kosher animal. In any case, there is no prohibition on becoming
tamei."

LOTM - IE YES, you become "impure" (arguably a mistranslation of Tamei) , but thats ok as long as you are "purified" at a mikveh before engaging in certain ritual acts.

 
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