15-04-2005 03:38									#181
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well damage is done mrt has to live with himself now. as i recall you were not an innocent pawn in this porn **** you were a willing particpant. to start blaming and seek revenge cause this whole **** blew up in your face just goes to show what ur made of.

	15-04-2005 03:39									#182
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quote: Originally posted by MRT144 thats true, but i think the last thing she wants to do is come here and tell her side.

Because she hasnŽt got anything to tell or because she knows sheŽll be trashed if she show up here?

	15-04-2005 03:40									#183
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This is going to get like Cruel Intentions

	15-04-2005 03:41									#184
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She may also try socially attacking you by going after you reputation or by trying to turn your friends against you. And after what you did, she has pretty good ammunition to go about doing that.

But in regard to a physical assault, even if you did find a way to prove it, which is by no means a sure thing, how would that help you if she went to prison? Or for that matter, how does it help you that you ****ed up her relationship with her family and ****ed up her life in general? It doesn't help you out at all. You might take some irrational pleasure from it, but you really aren't better off in any way whatsoever. You just make yourself a worse person. You might might take some short term pleasuer, but that has to be balanced out in the long by you now knowing that you a senseless depraved jerk who hurts people very deeply. Real happiness comes from love and positive relationships with people, not crap like this.

I really wonder MRT, how would you feel in her situation? Your relationship with your mom has been ruined, and you might not be able to afford college. Don't you have any compassion or empathy for other people?

	15-04-2005 03:41									#185
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quote: Originally posted by MRT144 if she finds people to beat me, i will know it is her. if she finds people to kill me, my friends will know she was behind it. i dont see what she can do. im already at bottom.

so? Just because someone will get caught, doesn't mean they won't do it. People do that all the time. She could indeed get someone to beat your ass.

Not everyone cares about laws and the legal system.

	15-04-2005 03:44									#186
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quote: I really wonder MRT, how would you feel in her situation? Your relationship with your mom has been ruined, and you might not be able to afford college. Don't you have any compassion or empathy for other people?

I would feel like crap if I were her, and that was exactly MRTs intentions. She has take responsibility for her actions, and MRT for his. She, sadly, fvcked with the wrong dude, and is now paying for it. Am I suppose to feel bad for her? No. Or at least I'm not. Will I feel bad for MRT when she gets her new love muffins to "pisstle" whip him in a dark alley as payback? Probably, but I shouldn't.

	15-04-2005 03:46									#187
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quote: Originally posted by Shi Huangdi She may also try socially attacking you by going after you reputation or by trying to turn your friends against you. And after what you did, she has pretty good ammunition to go about doing that. But in regard to a physical assault, even if you did find a way to prove it, which is by no means a sure thing, how would that help you if she went to prison? Or for that matter, how does it help you that you ****ed up her relationship with her family and ****ed up her life in general? It doesn't help you out at all. You might take some irrational pleasure from it, but you really aren't better off in any way whatsoever. You just make yourself a worse person. You might might take some short term pleasuer, but that has to be balanced out in the long by you now knowing that you a senseless depraved jerk who hurts people very deeply. Real happiness comes from love and positive relationships with people, not crap like this. I really wonder MRT, how would you feel in her situation? Your relationship with your mom has been ruined, and you might not be able to afford college. Don't you have any compassion or empathy for other people?

attacking me socially? ive hit bottom. my friends, true friends are ironclad. ive told everyone the situation. everyone i care about knows.

revenge is irrational but it feels so good

	15-04-2005 03:46									#188
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"Am I suppose to feel bad for her? "

Yes, because she is another human being. You should feel empathy for your fellow human beings, and if you don't there is a problem with you.

	15-04-2005 03:46									#189
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Ok, let me get this straight. Dacia gave MRT herpes then cheated on him, then he told her mum everything that had happened, and she's the one getting sympathy? Yes, I know there were consequences for her of telling her mum and it wasn't exactly nice, but how is that worse than giving him an STD and cheating on him.

Seems quite simple - if you're dating someone who you did porn with, if you cheat on them, they may tell people about the porn. Isn't it almost expected after someones cheated on someone else that they spill the beans on the relationship? It's never appealed to me, but telling someone what they've done seems like a reasonably appropriate amount of revenge to me.

	15-04-2005 03:48									#190
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MRT, you are a slimy, slimy little man.

	15-04-2005 03:50									#191
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quote: Originally posted by Shi Huangdi "Am I suppose to feel bad for her? " Yes, because she is another human being. You should feel empathy for your fellow human beings, and if you don't there is a problem with you.

The ***** started war and got burned.

Life's a *****, then you die, etcetc.

I feel bad for her, but I also feel bad for MRT. I also feel bad for Charles Manson, I feel bad for Osama bin Laden, and I feel bad for pedophiles.

I feel bad for Christians.

I feel bad for lots of people who make bad decisions, but that's life for you.

Sometimes you just get what you deserve.

	15-04-2005 03:50									#192
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god you guys are bad.. she didnt **** him has bad as he did her. he just lost a gf she has porbably lost the rest of her life

	15-04-2005 03:52									#193
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quote: Originally posted by Drogue Ok, let me get this straight. Dacia gave MRT herpes then cheated on him, then he told her mum everything that had happened, and she's the one getting sympathy? Yes, I know there were consequences for her of telling her mum and it wasn't exactly nice, but how is that worse than giving him an STD and cheating on him. Seems quite simple - if you're dating someone who you did porn with, if you cheat on them, they may tell people about the porn. Isn't it almost expected after someones cheated on someone else that they spill the beans on the relationship? It's never appealed to me, but telling someone what they've done seems like a reasonably appropriate amount of revenge to me.

The beauty of it all is the trust breaking.

MRT trusted her to be monogamous,she cheated on him (and gave him an incurable STD!).

He then broke her trust in kind by telling her mom about the porn.

MRT still got the short end of the stick here. The mom will cool off and chalk it up to making mistakes when you're a kid.

	15-04-2005 03:53									#194
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quote: Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski god you guys are bad.. she didnt **** him has bad as he did her. he just lost a gf she has porbably lost the rest of her life

Another mark against women -- drama queens of the highest order.

Her mom will cool off, she's just being a drama queen like all of the other women in this thread are.

Meanwhile MRT will have herpes for the rest of his life.

	15-04-2005 03:54									#195
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quote: You should feel empathy for your fellow human beings, and if you don't there is a problem with you.

Maybe...

quote: she didnt **** him has bad as he did her

My goodness, you sound my like 4 year old nephew;

"Mommy! Daniel hit me!"
His mom: "Why did he do that?"
"Because I kicked him"
"well?"
"i didn't kick him as hard as he hit me!"

Yeah, MRT probably messed her up worse than she messed him up. That still doesn't matter.

	15-04-2005 03:54									#196
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quote: Originally posted by Drogue Yes, I know there were consequences for her of telling her mum and it wasn't exactly nice, but how is that worse than giving him an STD and cheating on him.

Because the first was (probably) done out of insecurity and thoughtlessness (which still doesnŽt make it ok btw.) And the other was premeditated and made out of pure malice.

	15-04-2005 03:55									#197
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quote: Originally posted by Asher Meanwhile MRT will have herpes for the rest of his life.

He should have used a rubber. Even if he did I don't see how it's her fault.

Mrt ought to just take it in stride. All he did was prove how she did the right thing by dumping him.

	15-04-2005 03:56									#198
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if we both have herpes the score is 1 to 1

	15-04-2005 03:56									#199
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Really? She gave him an incurable disease and cheated on him. He told someone the truth. Now whether her parents will actually force her to drop out, whether she'll get a loan, or whether they just need to calm down, I don't know. But seriously, he told someone who probably cares for her the truth. I just don't see telling someone something true as something as bad as cheating on someone.

Maybe she was naive and silly in cheating on him, and maybe he was in telling her mother. People say what he did was calculated, except it was very soon after she hurt him badly (thus and emotional time) and that hers wasn't, but to me, cheating on someone isn't something you often slip into, there's a large mental barrier of "this isn't my boyfriend" to cross.

I don't think what he did was right, proper, nice, or at all a good idea. I don't think two wrongs make a right. However I think giving someone a disease and cheating on them is worse than telling someone the truth. It may be a malicious truth, but it's not like he went to her parents and lied about everything, which would be worse, IMHO.

	15-04-2005 03:57									#200
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quote: the other was premeditated and made out of pure malice.

malice that was a consequence of her insecurity and thoughtlessness

sometimes... you just get what you deserve

	15-04-2005 03:57									#201
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quote: Originally posted by Kamrat X Because the first was (probably) done out of insecurity and thoughtlessness (which still doesnŽt make it ok btw.) And the other was premeditated and made out of pure malice.

Doesn't matter, focus on the consequences.

A drunk driver may not intend to kill anyone, but it's just as bad as murder.

	15-04-2005 03:58									#202
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quote: Originally posted by Asher I feel bad for her, but I also feel bad for MRT. I also feel bad for Charles Manson, I feel bad for Osama bin Laden, and I feel bad for pedophiles. I feel bad for Christians. I feel bad for lots of people who make bad decisions, but that's life for you. Sometimes you just get what you deserve.

Everyones deserve all kinds of crap?

	15-04-2005 03:58									#203
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quote: Originally posted by Asher Another mark against women -- drama queens of the highest order. Her mom will cool off, she's just being a drama queen like all of the other women in this thread are. Meanwhile MRT will have herpes for the rest of his life.

It's not like she intentionally gave him herpes.

This is what happens when you have unprotected sex with sluts. It was just as much his fault as hers.

	15-04-2005 03:58									#204
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"Ok, let me get this straight. Dacia gave MRT herpes then cheated on him"

As I undestand the VD came up from the porn from a threesome they were all in.

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I feel bad for her, but I also feel bad for MRT. I also feel bad for Charles Manson, I feel bad for Osama bin Laden, and I feel bad for pedophiles."

Charles Mansion, OBL, and pedophiles need society to take protective measures by placing them in prisons since if they were not there they would be out on the street harming people, and we wish to minimize the harm done to people. Society is made better off by not allowing them to be harmed. But this action MRT took doesn't make any anybody better off, he was just hurting another person.

	15-04-2005 03:59									#205
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quote: Originally posted by MRT144 if we both have herpes the score is 1 to 1

Life isn't a game to keep score like that.

	15-04-2005 03:59									#206
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quote: Originally posted by Kidicious All he did was prove how she did the right thing by dumping him.

what kind of logical reasoning is that?
oh i know fallacious reasoning.

i only did it because she cheated and felt no remorse. if she had broken up with me clean this wouldnt have happened. we could even be friends!

	15-04-2005 03:59									#207
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quote: Originally posted by Kidicious He should have used a rubber.

She should've made him use a rubber (x2 for her previous).
She shouldn't have done porn.
She shouldn't have cheated on him.

What is your point?

	15-04-2005 04:00									#208
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quote: Originally posted by Kamrat X Because the first was (probably) done out of insecurity and thoughtlessness (which still doesnŽt make it ok btw.) And the other was premeditated and made out of pure malice.

I wouldn't be so sure. I don't think the cheating was completely spur of the moment, I'd bet there was some thought of whether she should or not there. Moreover, he's still upset and angry about things, so it wasn't acting cold and rationally. Plus to me, her's is an order of magnitude higher.

	15-04-2005 04:01									#209
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quote: Originally posted by Shi Huangdi But this action MRT took doesn't make any anybody better off, he was just hurting another person.

Funny that, it's my opinion of Christian missionaries.

I guess we chalk it up to difference of opinion?

	15-04-2005 04:02									#210
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quote: Originally posted by Asher She should've made him use a rubber (x2 for her previous). She shouldn't have done porn. She shouldn't have cheated on him. What is your point?

That's a bunch of petty bullshit. And they weren't married. Even if they acted like they were, she was a slut and MRT knew it. He should have protected himself if he didn't want all of that **** to happen to him. Now he ought to take it in stride and learn his lessons.