17-05-2005 20:01									#61
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quote: Originally posted by boann A friend can never make you do that. Unless it's somekind of miracle. lol... i see che agrees with me on this... sex can be totally seperate from love and devotion. even really amazing ceiling sex..

Anyone can make anyone com. That's easy. But there are different kind of orgasms, and the top ones are rare on the first try with a friend. No one is great at a video game the first time you try it. So, what I ment was this, you can "win", but when you get better with someone, you "win" by a much bigger margin. Imagine someone that gets top score the first time, now imagine after a month when you get used to eachother.

I"m sure you understand what I mean.

	17-05-2005 20:02									#62
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quote: Originally posted by chegitz guevara boann, why don't you train young men? I'm sure there are plenty of young 20 somethings who need to learn how to have sex, how to behave towards women, etc. Consider it your personal mission to educate as many of them as you can.

ok .. you made me spew my coffee... lmao

i do have a few who constantly ask
for that very thing... but im not interested in casual
sex anymore...

	17-05-2005 20:06									#63
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quote: Originally posted by Skywise Anyone can make anyone com. That's easy. But there are different kind of orgasms, and the top ones are rare on the first try with a friend. No one is great at a video game the first time you try it. So, what I ment was this, you can "win", but when you get better with someone, you "win" by a much bigger margin. Imagine someone that gets top score the first time, now imagine after a month when you get used to eachother. I"m sure you understand what I mean.

actually in my experience the longer the relationship
the more difficult it is to keep things exciting..
after 10 years things become boring quite easily.
so the great challenge over long term is keeping it real and sexy.

	17-05-2005 20:06									#64
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You should change your name to moann....

	17-05-2005 20:07									#65
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Boann, I apologize for making you spew your coffee.

I'm sure you know that a happy, healthy sex life can do wonders for one's emotional state. But as long as you've got the Rabbit™, you probably don't need men to help you there.

	17-05-2005 20:08									#66
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lol, you guys are pretty entertaining sometimes

	17-05-2005 20:08									#67
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it might depend on what turns who on

as well, when most people are tryting to attract a mate, they try real hard

which is attractive in and of itself, than once they 'win' one, they stop trying

I think this is a major reason relationships go south

Jon Miller

	17-05-2005 20:09									#68
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I like having my wife because she is someone who always will have my back even if I don't ask her too, and vice versa. It has nothing to do with sex, and the love comes from our commitment to each other (though that could be the other way around). Anyway, it is nice to have someone who will eat grilled cheese sandwhiches with you because the want to.

	17-05-2005 20:11									#69
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I know for me personally I want a significant other...

although I know concously that it would mean sacrifices on my part

although sometimes I sort of wish I could be some person on the mountain...

Jon Miller
(I also want a maid, when I do get a significant other, I need to be careful that I don't make them a maid as well)

(I think this means I need to either get rich, or change my habits such that I dont' want a maid)

	17-05-2005 20:12									#70
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quote: Originally posted by Japher I like having my wife because she is someone who always will have my back even if I don't ask her too, and vice versa. It has nothing to do with sex, and the love comes from our commitment to each other (though that could be the other way around). Anyway, it is nice to have someone who will eat grilled cheese sandwhiches with you because the want to.

Aaahhh, Japher you are so sweet!


Now cut the bullshlt.

	17-05-2005 20:13									#71
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Mmmm, grilled cheese sandwiches.

Let's see, I have to clean the kitchen, bake the bread, and then make the sandwiches . . . that's a lot of work.

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quote: Originally posted by Jon Miller I know for me personally I want a significant other... although I know concously that it would mean sacrifices on my part although sometimes I sort of wish I could be some person on the mountain... Jon Miller (I also want a maid, when I do get a significant other, I need to be careful that I don't make them a maid as well) (I think this means I need to either get rich, or change my habits such that I dont' want a maid)

Get a maid and pay her extra to sleep with you. Problem solved

	17-05-2005 20:13									#73
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quote: Originally posted by Jon Miller I know for me personally I want a significant other... although I know concously that it would mean sacrifices on my part

What? Plastic surgery?

	17-05-2005 20:14									#74
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quote: Originally posted by Jon Miller it might depend on what turns who on as well, when most people are tryting to attract a mate, they try real hard which is attractive in and of itself, than once they 'win' one, they stop trying I think this is a major reason relationships go south Jon Miller

i think relationships go south when trust and intimacy
are lowest. and by intimacy i don't mean sex.

	17-05-2005 20:16									#75
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quote: Originally posted by Japher I like having my wife because she is someone who always will have my back even if I don't ask her too, and vice versa. It has nothing to do with sex, and the love comes from our commitment to each other (though that could be the other way around). Anyway, it is nice to have someone who will eat grilled cheese sandwhiches with you because the want to.

very nice

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quote: Now cut the bullshlt

It's also kewl to have someone to order around and have do chores for you so you can drink more beer and watch more football, and not have a messy house.

	17-05-2005 20:21									#77
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quote: Originally posted by Japher It's also kewl to have someone to order around and have do chores for you so you can drink more beer and watch more football, and not have a messy house.

well , someone who gets the whole point of this thread...

living alone is very appealing..

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quote: Originally posted by Japher It's also kewl to have someone to order around and have do chores for you so you can drink more beer and watch more football, and not have a messy house.

Now that's more like it! Come on woman! Do your job and please me! Male needs beers! Bring beer to male! GRRRRRrrrrrr r r r r r ......

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I would get in so much trouble if I said anything like that.

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I hate living alone

it's tough to cook for two
no one to take walks with
no one to laugh at your stupid comments about the stupid tv show you are watching
no one to trap under the sheets after a ripping one out

	17-05-2005 20:23									#81
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Living alone sucks. Find a friend who likes to clean.

	17-05-2005 20:24									#82
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I live with my freinds...

Jon Miller
(I hate living alone also, I can get very withdrawn and if I am not living with someone than I won't interact with anyone RL for long lengths of time)

	17-05-2005 20:29									#83
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boann, of course you don't "need" a man, and if you're at a point where you're content living without anyone there, more power to you. I think the mentality that one "needs" to have someone in one's life like that isn't the healthiest way to approach relationships, anyway. It enables people to settle for partners who aren't very good matches just to satisfy a perceived "need."

Enjoy being on your own and take things as they come. Then, maybe you'll find someone who sparks in you a desire to "need" them, rather than your needs prompting you to find someone.

	17-05-2005 20:30									#84
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I agree with Boris

which menas that he is probably wrong

Jon Miller

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quote: Enjoy being on your own and take things as they come. Then, maybe you'll find someone who sparks in you a desire to "need" them, rather than your needs prompting you to find someone

That's so true.

	17-05-2005 20:43									#86
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"how did you know?"

Been there done that.

boann, being alone is pretty good. Heck of alot better than being with someone who is a pain, but not nearly as good as being in the right relationship. Happiness can be had either way.

	17-05-2005 20:51									#87
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My wife left the mashed potatoes out last night. A huge pot, just gone to waste. AURGH!

	17-05-2005 20:54									#88
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Make potato pancakes out of them

	17-05-2005 20:55									#89
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quote: Originally posted by chegitz guevara My wife left the mashed potatoes out last night. A huge pot, just gone to waste. AURGH!

I'm sure you forgot to start the dryer once or twice in your time and screwed up the last wash cuz the moist clothes sitting there become all stinky.

I know I did, so I guess we are even.....in my book that is....probably not in hers....

	17-05-2005 20:59									#90
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eat all the potatoes now..

they probably aren't that bad yet

Jon Miller