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chegitz guevara is offline chegitz guevara
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Maybe, but she's miserable and under a lot of pressure from people whom she loves. She's in the thick of it right now and can't be objective about it.

Maybe it won't work. Maybe it's really over. But if you really love her, you owe it to her and yourself to not give up easily, though not in the creepy stalker way.

I think part of the problem is that you are a source of conflict (no duh, che). Not just in that you are a threat to her psycho mother, but that you are putting pressure on her about your needs and feelings (which is perfectly understandable and human) when what she really needs is your support during her troubles, and I know you have tried.

This is temporary. Insane, annoying as hell, frustrating, painful, but temporary. Sucks to be human at times, but it beats non-existence.

The other option is to refuse to be treated like a doormat. Pride and dignity are good things to have, but they can screw you up just as much as not having them can.

You need the time off as well, to decide if this is what you really want, and can you be the person she needs at this point in her life. You also need to examine your own feelings. Why do you love this woman? Is she good for you?

And don't know if you can talk to her, but you ought to try, if you think this is something you can or should salvage.

And this is gonna be one of the hardest things you ever have to do . . . I hope.

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I agree with Che

think about it

if you really love her, try to get her back

if she isn't right for you, feel sad, then move on

JM

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It's high time you reconsider your stance on alcohol, Ozzy.

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It's high time you reconsider your stance on alcohol, Ozzy.


Not really funny, dude.

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I'm talking to her online right now. Uncomfortable small talk.

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I can do long distance relationships fairly well. I just can't do short distance ones.

My last girlfriend and I were going strong together until we finally met face to face for the first time.

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I'm talking to her online right now. Uncomfortable small talk.


Bail out now. You should let it sit for a few days, otherwise you may go straight to awkward friend zone.

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just interested..

who was disappointed?

who broke it off?

(speaking to Dis)

JM

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Bail out now. You should let it sit for a few days, otherwise you may go straight to awkward friend zone.


Hmmm....

I'd prefer awkward friend zone to sworn enemies zone. But.... i dunno.

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just interested..

who was disappointed?

who broke it off?

(speaking to Dis)

JM


she broke it off. But in that way that women usually break it off. By becoming disinterested and not responding to your calls or letters. . They never tell you to your face. I guess that's good in a way. Or is it?

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Romance is the opiate of the masses.

Maybe it's time you tried Communism.

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Romance is the opiate of the masses.

Maybe it's time you tried Communism.


Post of the year.

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It's high time you reconsider your stance on alcohol, Ozzy.


Not really funny, dude.


I was serious. A drink helps in these situations, at least for most of the people.

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We talked for a few hours last night. I dunno...

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Did you talk seriously or was it mostly just small talk?

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We talked seriously. I'm not sure where we stand though. Nothing was really resolved. But at least we are talking, that's a start.

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If bilateral talks don't work out, you can always try six-party.

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i talked with my ex for more than a year.

in the end, i just got tired of it and turned the page.

be very sure that the special thing you had is still there somewhere. if you are not, a short burst of agonising pain is often preferable to a long lingering one. i can assure you that!

and it is very commendable to still want to be friends. i thought i could do that too. however, i found that that kind of friendship really holds you back and is a continous source of pain. perhaps once you are happy in a new relationship yes, but then you simply don't care anymore.

better times are ahead, good luck !

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Yeah, get dead drunk, will do the trick.

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Long distance relationships... thank god for webcams!

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Long distance relationships... thank god for webcams!



And teledildonics....


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And teledildonics....




You'd be terrified to spill a pot of Salsa over the keyboard though

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You'd be terrified to spill a pot of Salsa over the keyboard though


Oh, that's an odd name for it, Onan....

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Um, are you guys gay or something?

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ROFL@molly, Whaleboy.

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Um, are you guys gay or something?



Better gay than, uh, um, Reagan.

"How are you, Mr. Mayor? I'm glad to meet you. How are things in your city?" greeting Samual Pierce, his secretary of Housing and Urban Development, during a White House reception for mayors

"My name is Ronald Reagan. What's yours?" introducing himself after delivering a prep school commencement address. The individual responded, "I'm your son, Mike," to which Reagan replied, "Oh, I didn't recognize you."

http://politicalhumor.about.com/cs/...eaganquotes.htm

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Yeah, you have to try rather hard to not see the humour in those remarks. Depending of course on how much you know about the man you're quoting.

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Yeah, you have to try rather hard to not see the humour in those remarks. Depending of course on how much you know about the man you're quoting.


"I'm your son, Mike," to which Reagan replied, "Oh, I didn't recognize you."


Addams Family values.

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In his defense, he did have more than one son, you know.

 
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